Question: Why would a girl play hard to get?
A girl will play hard to get for mainly 3 reasons:
#1. She doesn’t want to be perceived or come across as “easy”
When a girl has a romantic interest in a guy, she won’t want to get intimate with him right away for fear of being perceived as easy…
…so she will play hard to get to make the guy appreciate that she is not easy.
She will have the guy work extra hard to get her approval so that she appears valuable.
#2. She wants to be sure if a guy is really interested in them
A girl will also play hard to see if a guy is really into her or wasting her time.
In a girl’s mind, if the guy goes to the trouble to win her love, then he really loves her.
You see, a girl’s need to want to be in a romantic relationship with a guy is not only dictated by her attraction for the guy, but also by her level of trust. A girl won’t want to easily give up her goods and risk being used. So she will play hard to get to test a guy’s commitment to her.
Sure, a girl will find a guy attractive and want him, but she wouldn’t just give herself to him… she will want to trust him first.
#3. To make a guy chase her
Girls enjoy the thrill of being chased – they enjoy making us guys jump through hoops and go the extra mile to win them over.
They watch TV shows where their fellow girls are been chased and they want to have that experience too.
Plus, they know we’re after something and they will make us work hard to get it. Including chasing them for it.
So, there you have it…
…why a girl would play hard to get.
You will have everything that a girl looks for or wants in a guy… yet a girl will play hard to get with you.
You will have a girl dress in a way that will excite you and flirt with you just so you will pursue her… but will be out of reach.
You see, ever since they were young, girls have been told never to give up their goods easily…
…then they grow up to hear men cannot be trusted.
Their mothers told them we were only after one thing… and their friends reinforced this belief.
Reality TV shows influence them to be “hard to get”.
So that’s what it is.
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