FAQ: Why Is This Girl Playing Hard to Get?

Question: Why is this girl playing hard to get?

Answer

That girl is playing hard to get for 4 probable reasons…

  1. to convey that she’s not easy
  2. to appear valuable
  3. to be certain you’re really interested in her and not just trying to get into her pants
  4. or maybe to make you chase her to feed her self-esteem and nothing more

I go into detail.

Conveying that she’s not easy

When the typical girl has a romantic interest in a guy, she won’t want to get intimate with him right away for fear of being perceived as easy… so she will play hard to get to make the guy appreciate that she is not easy.

So, if a girl is playing hard to get with you, she’s likely doing so to not come across as easy.

Appearing valuable

Similar to #1, most girls also play hard to get to appear valuable or difficult to attain.

Girls enjoy the thrill of being chased – they enjoy making guys jump through strings of hoops and go the extra mile to win them over.

They watch movies and documentaries where their fellow girls are being chased and they want to have that experience too.

Plus, they know the guys pursuing them are trying to get into their pants… and they will make them work hard for it.

This is also a likely reason a girl will play hard to get with you – to appear difficult to attain and valuable.

Being certain that you’re really interested in her and not just trying to get into her pants

Most girls also play hard to see their pursuer’s commitment to them or to see whether or not their pursuer really wants to have a committed relationship with them or just trying to get into her pants.

In their mind, if their pursuer goes to the trouble to win them over, then they really want them. Or if their pursuer doesn’t rush them into bed, then they’re genuinely interested in them.

So, if a girl is playing hard to get, it’s likely she’s doing so for this reason.

You see, girls’ need to want to be in a romantic relationship with someone is not only dictated by their attraction to the person, but also by their level of trust. They won’t want to easily give up their goods and risk being used… so they play hard to get to kinda tests the person’s commitment to them.

Making you chase her to feed her self-esteem

Naturally, girls play hard to get to not come across as easy or cheap…

…but there are instances some girls will play hard to get to just feed their self-esteem.

Especially, the physically attractive one.

These girls have scores of guys pursuing them…

…they know on an intuitive level that they hold a lot of power, and heck, they can afford to be picky.

So all in all, these hot girls know they can toy with anyone that they want…

…and they feel good simply because of the self-esteem boost they get from that.

So, there you have it…

…what a girl is playing hard to get.

Moving on…

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