FAQ: Why Does a Woman Play Hard to Get?

Question: Why does a woman play hard to get?

Answer

  1. to convey that she’s not easy
  2. to appear valuable
  3. to be certain her pursuer is really interested in her and not just trying to get into their pants
  4. to make her pursuer chase her to feed her self-esteem and nothing more

I go into detail.

Conveying that she’s not easy

When the typical woman has a romantic interest in someone, she won’t want to get intimate with them right away for fear of being perceived as easy…

…so she will play hard to get to make the person appreciate that she is not easy.

Appearing valuable

Similar to #1, a woman may also play hard to get to appear valuable or difficult to attain.

The typical woman enjoys the thrill of being chased – enjoys making her pursuers jump through strings of hoops and go the extra mile to win her over.

Plus, the typical woman is always under the impression that her pursuers want to get into her pants and she will make them work hard for it.

Being certain that her pursuer is really interested in her and not just trying to get into their pants

A woman may also play hard to see her pursuer’s commitment to her.

In a woman’s mind, if her pursuer goes to the trouble to win her over or get her, then her pursuer really wants her.

You see, a woman’s need to want to be in a romantic relationship is not only dictated by her attraction to the person she wants, but also by her level of trust.

The typical woman won’t want to easily give up her goods and risk being used… so she will play hard to get to kinda test her pursuer’s commitment to her.

Sure, a woman will find a person attractive and want them, but she wouldn’t just give herself to them… she will want to trust them first.

Making her pursuer chase her to feed her self-esteem

Naturally, the typical woman plays hard to get to not come across as easy or cheap…

…but there are instances a woman will play hard to get to just feed her self-esteem.

Especially, the physically attractive woman.

This woman has scores of men and women pursuing her…

…she knows on an intuitive level that she holds a lot of power and that she is more in command of the dating process.

Heck, she can afford to be picky…

So all in all, this woman knows that she can toy with anyone that she wants, including giving people hope only to play hard to get…

…and she feels good simply because of the self-esteem boost she gets from that.

So, there you have it…

…why a woman plays hard to get, or why most women play hard to get.

Moving on…

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