FAQ: Why Are Girls So Hard to Get?

Question: Why are girls so hard to get?

Answer

…because they PLAY hard to get.

And they do it for at least 4 reasons:

  1. to convey that they’re not easy
  2. to appear valuable
  3. to be certain their pursuer is really interested in them and not just trying to get into their pants
  4. to make their pursuer chase them to feed their self-esteem and nothing more

I go into detail.

Conveying that they’re not easy

When the typical girl has a romantic interest in a guy, she won’t want to get intimate with him right away for fear of being perceived as easy…

…so she will play hard to get to make the guy appreciate that she is not easy.

Appearing valuable

Similar to #1 – “conveying that they’re not easy”, most girls also play hard to get to appear valuable. 

Girls enjoy the thrill of being chased – they enjoy making us guys jump through strings of hoops and go the extra mile to win them over.

They watch movies and documentaries where their fellow girls are being chased and they want to have that experience too.

Plus, they have the impression we guys want to get them into bed and they will make us work hard for it.

Being certain that we are really interested in them and not just trying to get into their pants

Most girls also play hard to see our commitment to them or to see whether or not we really want to have a committed relationship with them or just trying to get into their pants.

In their mind, if we go to the trouble to win them over or get them, then we really want them. Or if we don’t rush them into the bedroom, then we’re genuinely interested in them.

You see, girls’ need to want to be in a romantic relationship with a guy is not only dictated by their attraction to the guy, but also by their level of trust.

They won’t want to easily give up their goods and risk being used… so they play hard to get to kinda tests a guy’s commitment to them.

Sure, a girl will find a guy attractive and want him, but she wouldn’t just give herself to him… she will want to trust him first.

Making us chase them to feed their self-esteem

Naturally, girls play hard to get to not come across as easy or cheap…

…but there are instances some girls will play hard to get to just feed their self-esteem.

Especially, the physically attractive ones.

These girls have scores of guys pursuing them…

…they know on an intuitive level that they hold a lot of power over us and that they are in control.

Heck, they can afford to be picky!

So, all in all, these hot girls know they can toy with any guy they want…

…and they feel good simply because of the self-esteem boost they get from that.

So, there you have it…

…why girls are hard to get.

Moving on…

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