When you meet or approach a girl or woman you find attractive and desire for the first time, don’t show interest in her that instant.
This includes giving lame compliments, fawning all over her, bragging, flirting, and smiling excessively.
You may be smitten by a girl, but don’t show or telegraph your interest in her at the start.
Unless you meet a girl at a Singles Event or it’s a hook-up situation where you’re both aware of what’s happening or the outcome, you don’t want to show your interest in a girl when you meet her for the first time.
Why hide your intentions or act uninterested initially?
Showing or telegraphing your interest in a girl is not the best way to go when you meet or approach a girl for the first time.
Because if you act too interested too early, not only can the girl or woman blow you off, but it can raise her power in the interaction you’ll be having with her and make your advances or seduction down the road harder than it needs to be.
In other words, if a girl thinks you want her too much, she will have leverage over you, and you can have a hell of a time getting her attention and interest – provided she doesn’t blow you off. [Read: ‘The Undeniable Fact About Girls’]
You see, girls are very savvy to the fact that the reason we guys approach them is that we are attracted to them – and you know, want to get into their pants. So, when we approach them with our intentions written on our foreheads, they will either blow us off or make us work hard to get them.
Now, not telegraphing interest or showing that you are attracted to a girl when you meet her for the first time will have her think that you’re not hitting on her. Or simply, you’re looking to be her friend. In short, you sneak in under her radar and make her responsive and receptive to talking to you without giving you a hard time.
It will give you the advantage you need or the chance to win her over.
You will be able to present yourself in the best possible way so that you will have her feel attracted and interested enough to want to have a relationship with you. [Read how here: ‘How to Make a Girl or Woman Fall in Love with You’]
Hint: Once you get a girl or a woman to hang out with you more, then you show or express your interest in her. [Read: ‘A Simple But Overlooked Tip that Builds Attraction with a Girl Quickly’]
If a girl thinks you want her too much, she will have leverage over you.
How to NOT telegraph interest when you approach or meet a girl for the first time…
Act uninterested – no excessive smiling, no lame compliments: “Hey baby, are you from Tennessee? Because you’re the only ten I see”.
Relax and be yourself so you don’t fumble over words.
Also, don’t brag or show off.
See her as just another person you meet and talk to every day.
And when all is said and done, have no agenda and expectations, be focused on other stuff other than her and how you’re going to go about having her like you – a girl may be interested in you, or she may not, and you won’t initially know until she exhibits some signs of interest… nevertheless, you shouldn’t care. This makes you act natural and yourself.
Also Read: 9 Of The Top Reasons Women Reject Men
So, there you have it…
When you meet or approach a girl you find attractive and desire for the first time, don’t show interest in her that instant.
Act totally uninterested.
Sneak in under her radar to gradually win her over and make her want to be in a relationship with you.
You don’t want to show or telegraph interest too early when you meet or approach a girl for the first time… and make your advances or seduction down the road harder than it needs to be.
You’ll be able to successfully progress with a girl when you can hold back on letting her know how much you are interested in her.
I hope this article has given you an insight into how to act around girls you meet and approach for the first time.
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