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When You Meet a Girl for The First Time, Should You Go for Her Phone Number or Go for a Date?

Most guys, when they meet a girl for the first time, they introduce themselves and chat for a few minutes, and then ask for the girl’s number.

When you meet a girl and you think you like her or find her attractive, you will tend to chat with her for a while and then ask for her phone number in order to continue the conversation over the phone and hopefully meet up with her some other time.

You don’t wanna do that!

A girl you’ve just met, who barely knows you, and who definitely has loads of guys chasing her…

…do you really think asking for her phone number in order to call her and continue the conversation over the phone is an effective approach?

When you go for a girl you’ve just met phone number right off the bat…

…there’s a high chance she might not want to give it. Or she might not give you her real number. [Read: ‘9 Of The Top Reasons Why Women Reject Men’]

Even when you do get her real phone number and do call her, she might never answer your calls or call you back.

Not to mention, when you get to talk to her over the phone, it can take forever to see her in person.

To put it simply, seeing a girl you barely met again is anything but guaranteed.

Do you know why?

Because she will probably NOT be attracted to you ENOUGH or be interested in you to WANT to see you again.

Unless you’re insanely good-looking or she has no prospect or reservoir of guys to choose from… then she will want to see how things go with you. [Read: ‘Why Girls Behave the Way They Do’]

Asking for girls’ phone numbers right after a short conversation with them is not an effective approach to getting girls.

An effective approach when you meet a girl for the first time…

…is to go for the date right there. Don’t be confused… stay with me.

Try to date her that instant.

She is there, you are there, this is the best opportunity to get her to feel an attraction for you and increase your chances of seeing her again and segueing from strangers to lovers. [Read: ‘What It Means to Date’]

Before you approach a girl for a date, read this…

And before you start dating, read this…

What do I mean by ‘date’ her?

This is not the traditional date where you go to dinner and to the movies…

…this is doing the little things that will make her feel an instant attraction for you.

Something just enough to arouse her interest in you and to make her want to see you again and keep seeing you. [Read: ‘The Simple But Overlooked Tip that Builds Attraction with a Girl Quickly’]

Read: ‘Should You Take a Woman Out to Dinner?’ and ‘Forget Expensive Dinners: Do Just This One Thing and Make a Woman Feel Attraction for You

This is how you go about it:

You guys are going to talk, right?

…so you start out by engaging her in an emotionally relevant (to her) conversation to connect with her on an emotional level.

Here, you get her to talk about herself, her passion, her ambition, and whatnot… and then get her laughing and having a good time. [Read: ‘How to Talk to Girls’ and ‘How to Make a Girl Laugh’]

Also Read: How to Connect with a Girl on a Deep Emotional Level

Next, smoothly transition into engaging in something fun and interesting, like taking a stroll in the park, window shopping at the mall, sightseeing, visiting an art gallery, etc…

…all while talking and engaging her in an emotionally relevant conversation.

If there’s an interesting event happening, join in with her.

All in all, give her an interesting experience that she will be willing to see you again and continue to see you. [Read: ‘How to Get a Girl to Like You’]

Understand:

Don’t be inclined to engage in too many activities.

In fact, if you meet a girl at the mall, you can maximize the different sections of the mall, including window shopping.

Just maximize the moment, have fun, and talk.

No excessive spending… you don’t want to give the girl the impression that you’re spending on her to seek her approval and sexual favor. [Read: ‘Why Women Don’t Find Nice Guys Attractive’ and ‘Why Women Don’t Choose Men That Are Good For Them’]

Read More: The First Mistake to Avoid When You Decide to Date a Woman

When you meet a girl and you think you like her, maximize the time you have with her… and you’re guaranteed to see her again.

Giving a girl you’ve just met a good time the very first day will arouse her interest just enough to make her want to see you again

When you give a girl an emotional experience, she will want to see you again.

Plus, when you eventually ask for her phone number, she will not hesitate to give it to you.

And when you do send her a text or call her later on, she will be eager to talk to you and chat with you and will want to hang out with you again.

Sure, she might play hard to get with you, but nevertheless, you will be the one she will want to talk to on a daily basis and hang out with. [Read: ‘Why Girls Play Hard to Get’ and ‘What to Do When the Girl You Desire Plays Hard to Get’]

Also Read: How Girls Play Hard to Get

Not only will giving a girl a good and interesting time get her to find you interesting and unique and desirable, but it will most especially reduce the time it will take to get her romantically involved with you. [Read: ‘What Makes Girls Feel Attraction for Guys’]

Hint:

In order for a girl or a woman to want to get together with you over and over again, she’s got to have a reason.

And by giving her a good and interesting time on the very first day you meet, she will want to repeat the experience.

Read More: How to Get a Girl or a Woman to Come Over to Your Place

Also Read: What to Do When You’re Too Scared to Tell a Girl How You Feel About Her

When you give a girl an emotionally fulfilling experience, she will find you unique and hence fall in love with you.

Girls have loads of guys pursuing them

Keep in mind that you are literally competing with other guys for a girl’s attention…

…so when you meet a girl and you think you like her, you will want to quickly catch her attention and interest the very first day to make her want to see you again.

If you don’t get her to find you interesting and desirable, but you just solely go for her phone number to continue the conversation over the phone or meet up with her some other time, chances are it’s not gonna happen.

So hold off asking for a phone number when you meet a girl for the first time…

…and instead, connect with her on an emotional level and try to give her a good time while at it.

Maximize that particular moment you have with her.

And when you’re parting or you’re unable to hang out with her any longer – because it’s getting late or you have to do something else, something important – you ask for her phone number.

Hint:

Try to make plans to see each other again, then get her phone number.

Say something like…

  • “Hey, it was nice meeting you. I really enjoyed hanging out with you, and I’d love to do it again. Let me have your phone number.”

…then hand her your phone so she can type her number in.

Or you can use an upcoming event as an excuse to see her or get together again. For instance, you can say something like…

  • “I’m going to this art festival/funfair/party this weekend; I want you to come with”

Here’s a secret tip:

Don’t ask a girl permission to hang out with you, instead command…

  • “I’m going to this art festival/funfair/party this weekend; I want you to come with”

Don’t ask “Would you like to get together again, sometime?”.

Plus, don’t ask for her number, like… “Can I get your phone number so we will talk later?”

Act like a man

Go like…

  • “Hey, it was nice meeting you. I really enjoyed hanging out with you, and I’d love to do it again. Let me have your phone number.”

then hand her your phone so she can save her number on it.

This demonstrates dominance… trait girls find attractive in guys. And another way to have her see you unique and interesting.

Read: ‘How to Get Girls When You Don’t Have the Male-Model Good Looks’ and ‘How to Get a Girlfriend

Hold off asking for a phone number when you meet a girl… not until you give her a reason to.

Now, provided you don’t have the time to ‘date’ her…

You know, maximize your day and give her a good fun time…

…then you should at least engage her in an emotionally relevant conversation to connect with her on an emotional level to give her a taste of what you could provide her before asking for her phone number. [Read: ‘How to Talk to Girls’ and ‘How to Connect with a Girl on a Deep Emotional Level’]

Also Read: How to Make a Girl Fall in Love with You

Catch her interest at the first meeting and leave her with a positive impression of you. By then she will want to know you more.

And then when she agrees to see you again, you ‘date’ her so as soon as possible. [Read: ‘How to Make a Girl Feel Special’]

Keep More: How to Impress a Girl and Make Her Feel Naturally Attracted to You

When you meet a girl and you think you like her, you will want to quickly catch her attention and interest the very first day to make her want to see you again.

So that’s it!

When you meet a girl for the first time and you think you like her, date her as soon as possible and leave her with a positive impression of you to make her want to see you again.

Don’t go for her phone number in order to continue the conversation over the phone and in the hopes that she will want to meet up with her some other time…

…because chances are it is not going to happen. [Read: ‘Obvious Signs a Girl Is Not Interested in You: An Indication to Move On’]

But if you give her a good and interesting time and an emotionally fulfilling experience, she will want to see you again and will be eager to talk to you over the phone.

So in conclusion, the first time you meet a girl is the best time to try and date her.

I hope this article has given you a deep insight into how to go about getting girls’ interest and attention and asking for their phone number.

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