Asking a girl out is a step in the right direction toward having her fall in love with you and increasing your chances of having a romantic relationship with her.
Because here, you can maximize your time spent together, do something fun and memorable, and have her want to keep seeing you again and eventually have a romantic relationship with her.
That being said, when should you ask a girl out?
When is the right time to ask a girl out?
…it’s right after you meet her.
If you’re already friends, then the sooner you ask her out, the better.
Let’s go into detail.
Before You Approach a Girl for a Date, Read This…
Asking a girl out is a step in the right direction toward having her fall in love with you and having a relationship with her.
When you approach or meet a girl for the first time…
…you would want to ask for her phone number and try to ask her out some other time.
Don’t!
Ask her out that very same day.
I know…
…it sounds excessively forward and failure-prone.
But the first time you meet a girl is the best time (or the right time) to ask her out.
Why?
Because when you try to call her later – provided she even gives you her real number – you might never hear back from her. Or it would take forever to get together with her (or see her) again. So you should ask a girl out right after you meet her…
…not immediately, though.
Ask a girl out right after you meet her.
This is what you do:
When you meet a girl for the first time, chat for a while and hit it off. [Read: ‘How to Start a Conversation with a Girl’]
Here, get her to talk about herself and her life… then take an interest in it. [Read: ‘How to Talk to Girls’ and ‘Things and Topics to Talk About with a Girl’]
Ask questions that will get her talking emotionally about herself… sharing her experiences and feelings with you. [Read: ‘Questions to Ask a Girl’]
Share your similar experiences too.
Tell jokes, have some laughs, and have a good time. [Read: ‘How to Make a Girl Laugh’]
Make her feel comfortable with you and trust you. Make her feel you’re interested in who she is and what she’s about, and not just looking to get into her pants. [Read: ‘How to Connect with a Girl or a Woman on a Deep Emotional Level’]
Now, when you’re unable to hang out with her any longer, you subtly ask her out.
Say something like:
- “Well, it was nice meeting you. I would love to continue this another time. You know, we should hang out sometime [subtly asking her out]. Let me have your phone number [hand her your phone to dial her number]… I will set up a date, call you, and we will meet.”
Also Read: When You Meet a Girl for The First Time, Should You Go for Her Number or Go for a Date?
Now, here’s a powerful secret tip most guys don’t know…
If you have time on your hands, like if you have nothing to do – you’re not busy, she’s not busy or in a hurry to go anywhere – try to make the most of it…
…maximizing the day (or the time you have with her).
Hint: Don’t ask a girl if she’s busy – that’s a beta male thing to do. Just do your thing. If she’s busy she will let you know. [Read about ‘dominance’]
Moving on…
If you have time on your hands, try to make the most of it.
You can take a walk in the park.
You can even go to the mall to window-shop.
Is there some fun activity going on near-by? Head there.
All while talking more about yourselves sharing your lives and experiences and laughing along.
In fact, strive to give her a good time…
…this will make her want to see you again and spend time with you. And when you ask her out (or ask her out on a real date), she will be much more likely to agree and go out with you than if you try to get her phone number right away to try and ask her out some other time. [Read: ‘How to Make a Girl or a Woman Fall in Love with You’ and ‘A Simple But Overlooked Tip that Builds Attraction with a Girl Quickly’]
Also Read: ‘What Makes Girls Feel Attraction for Guys’ and ‘How to Get Girls When You Don’t Have the Male-Model Good Looks’
Now, when it’s time to depart, make a plan to meet up again – ask her out.
Say something like:
- “Well, this was fun. It was nice meeting you. We should do this again [subtly asking her out]. Let me have your phone number [hand her your phone to dial her number]… I will set up a date, call you, and we will meet.”
Read More: How to Keep a Conversation Going with a Girl
Also Read: ‘Should You Take a Woman Out to Dinner?’ and ‘Forget Expensive Dinners: Do Just This One Thing and Make a Woman Feel Attraction for You’
The first time you meet a girl is the best time (or the right time) to ask her out.
If you’ve already met the girl and taken her phone number…
Then be proactive and quickly call her… like right now.
Be bold and confident.
It’s better to ask her out sooner rather than later.
Because keep in mind that there are other guys pursuing her. So if you don’t quickly ask her out and do things to have her fall in love with you, you risk losing her to another guy.
So make plans right now of what you will want to do with her and what time you plan to do it, then call her to ask her out – to join in with you.
Is there an event happening in the coming days? Then call her then ask her to join in with you.
Calling a girl you just met on the phone and asking her out
When the girl gets on the phone, continue the conversation from where you left off the last time you spoke.
If you had an interesting conversation that last time you spoke, go back to it.
Focus your conversation on her – ask her questions about herself… questions that will get her talking emotionally about herself – sharing her life, feelings, experiences, and deep thoughts, get her thinking and dreaming a little, and reliving events.
…so talk for a while, then in the course of your conversation, ask her to do something fun and exciting with you.
- “Hey, you know, we should get together. I’m going to an art festival/a concert/the funfair/Disneyland this weekend… come with me/I want you to come with me, it will be fun.”
Before You Start Dating, Read This…
Also Read: The Best Dating Tip You Could Ever Get
It’s better to ask a girl out sooner rather than later.
If you’re already friends with the girl…
…the sooner you ask her out, the better. [Read: ‘A Devastating Mistake You’re Probably Making with Girls You Desire’]
Don’t wait for weeks or even months. Call her up on the phone right after reading this article then ask her out (don’t text her). [Read: ‘What to Do When You’re Too Scared to Tell a Girl How You Feel About Her’]
Have something planned then call her up on the phone to join in with you.
Call her with the pretense of checking up on her…
…talk for a while, then in the course of your conversation, ask her to do something fun and exciting with you.
- “Hey, I’m going to an art festival/a concert/the funfair/Disneyland this weekend… come with me/I want you to come with me, it will be fun.”
[Read: ‘How to Ask a Girl Out in a Manner She Won’t Refuse’ and ‘When You Have Feelings for a Girl – Don’t Make This Mistake’]
Keep Reading: Simple Fact about Girls: When You Realize this, Your Success Skyrockets
Asking a girl out is a step in the right direction toward having her fall in love with you and having a relationship with her.
So there you have it…
…when to ask a girl out.
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