What do you do on a first date?
You’ve met someone, you’ve hit it off, and you plan on seeing each other again – on a date, your first date with them…
…what do you do?
First off, what does it mean to “date”?
Simply, we date to screen the person we’re dating to evaluate their suitability as a prospective partner in an intimate relationship.
Dating is a period to get to know our prospects to find out who they are and what they are about… to see if they possess the qualities of someone we would want to be in a romantic relationship with. And to find out if we are compatible with each other to decide whether or not to take our companionship into the romantic arena and pursue a romantic relationship with them.
In short, we date to find a suitable partner, someone we genuinely want to have a relationship with.
That said… let’s get started.
Before You Start Dating, Read This…
And Before You Get into A Relationship, Read This…
What to do on a first date
Your first date should be something informal and fun – where you can just hang out, have fun, and talk to get to know each other.
So go on a friendly outing.
Find fun and interesting things to do or engage in.
You can go to a carnival or attend a fair.
Or you can just take a walk in the park and talk.
You can also go someplace cool in your area for sightseeing.
Or window shop – windowing shopping at a flea market or the mall are good first date ideas.
So that’s what to do on your first date.
Your goal here is to…
…get to know your date very well to decide if you want to pursue a romantic or an intimate relationship with them.
You want to see their habits and catch a glimpse of who they are to see if you’re compatible, and whether or not they’re someone you want to pursue a relationship with.
You see, this is a person you could end up having an intimate relationship with or even marrying… so you will want to get to know them well enough.
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KEEP READING: How to Meet and Date Someone with The Same Interests and Hobbies as You
Your first date should be something informal and fun.
First dates are not necessarily about dinner
Save it for when things are progressing well – when your date seems promising or when you’re certain they will make a great partner.
Movies are okay… but not REALLY a first date option. Maybe the last agenda on a first date after all fun date activities have been exhausted.
You see, you want to spend QUALITY time with your date and talk and get to know them well to connect and build rapport and to decide whether or not to pursue an intimate relationship with them.
On a friendly outing, you get the opportunity to screen your date to find out who he or she is and if he or she is someone youtruly want to have an intimate relationship with…
…and dinner and movies and especially dinner isn’t the best way to achieve that.
Because at dinner and the movies, you will just be sitting there and not pay attention to each other, and likely will not talk to each other for hours… ergo, you will NOT be getting to know each other.
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Dinner is a necessity at some point… but not a good first date idea.
A Powerful Tip for the Guys:
YOU, the guy, should be the one to decide where to go… have an activity planned, choose the theater, the film, arrange everything. [Read: ‘How to Ask a Girl Out’]
When it comes to girls and attraction, you want to BE A MAN…
…which means initiate, take the lead, and guide girls to the decisions they want to make – have fun.
Girls or women have an unconscious attraction to dominant men.
Read more: How to Get a Girl to Go Out with You
Also read: When to Ask a Girl Out
So there you have it…
…what to do on a first date.
I hope this article has given you a deep insight into the things to do on the first date, where to go, and what to do on a first date.
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