Question: What does it mean by playing hard to get?
Answer
This is when you show uninterest or pretend that you’re not interested in having a relationship with another person. Including putting up resistance to the other person’s advances toward you, even when you have romantic feelings for them.
…done with the intent to either:
- have the other person appreciate that you’re not that easy to get and that they have to work harder to get you
- or literally have them chase you
Moving on…
One can also play hard to make certain his or her ‘pursuer’ is really interested in them. Because if one goes to the trouble to win you over, then that person really loves you or wants you.
By playing hard to get, you wait until you achieve or get what you set out to get (the reason you’re playing hard to get) before you finally give in to the other person’s advances or get into a relationship with them.
Understand…
One has to have feelings for another for his or her action to be considered as “he or she is playing hard to get”.
But when one acts cold or completely unfriendly toward the other, that’s not playing hard to get… that’s just him or her totally uninterested in having a relationship with the other person.
So, there you have it…
…what it means by playing hard to get.
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- Why Would a Girl Play Hard to Get?
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- If A Girl Plays Hard to Get, What Should I Do?
- Should I Chase a Girl That Plays Hard to Get?
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