What are the good conversation topics to talk about with a girl?
No one wants to listen to people talk about boring topics… and definitely no girl wants to listen to a guy talk about car engines or how big his television set is.
So what topics can you talk about with a girl or your girlfriend to have a fun and lively discussion?
The things and topics to talk about with a girl or a woman…
…should be of interest and emotionally relevant to her.
They should at least have drama and sensational possibilities where she can imagine herself in some of the situations, having the same experiences, and feeling emotions.
In this article, I share with you the things to talk about with a girl.
I share with you the specific things to talk about with a girl and actual interesting topics to talk about with a girl.
Without further ado, let’s get started.
No girl wants to listen to a guy talk about car engines.
Specific things to talk about with a girl
These are spur-of-the-moment things to talk about with a girl.
And they bring to light the topics the girl or your girlfriend is really interested in talking about.
So here we go!
Talk about her and the things she’s passionate about
Start out by asking her how her day went or how her weekend was. [Read: ‘How to Start a Conversation with a Girl’]
Ask her if anything interesting happened to her lately.
“Anything interesting happened to you lately?”
Is she in school? Talk about her school life.
Is she working, talk about her work.
A girlfriend? Ask her how her day went. [Read: ‘How to Make a Girl or Your Girlfriend Feel Special, Loved and Desired’]
Get her talking about herself, her dreams, goals, passion, and whatnot, and share your similar experiences when you pick up on a commonality. [Read: ‘Questions to Ask a Girl’ and ‘How to Talk to Girls’]
If she’s wearing a cool bracelet, watch, or necklace, or she has with her a nice handbag, genuinely compliment her on it and get her to talk about it.
“That’s a nice/cool/an interesting bracelet/necklace/handbag… where did you get it?”
She will start telling you all about it.
Listen to her, take an interest in what she says, follow up on her responses, then transition to similar and related topics. [Read: ‘How to Keep a Conversation Going with a Girl’]
Having a girl talk about herself will bring to light the topics she’s really interested in talking about.
When you get your girl to talk about herself, you will pick up topics to talk about with her, things she has interests in talking about.
That being said, let’s move on to the actual good conversation topics to have with a girl or your girlfriend. [Read: ‘How to Get a Girlfriend: Step-By-Step Guide’]
Actual topics to talk about with a girl
Again, as I mentioned, the best topics to talk about with a girl should have drama and sensational possibilities where she can imagine herself in some of the situations, having the same experiences, and feeling emotions. [Read: ‘What Girls Talk About’ and ‘What Girls Like to Talk About’]
Now, most of these topics may seem feminine…
…that shouldn’t scare you.
Just listen to her talk about them then contribute.
That being said, let’s get to it.
#1. Talk about reality television shows
Bring up a popular or trending reality TV show and talk about it.
“I was watching this show last night where several couples are placed on an island surrounded by single people to test the couples’ commitment to each other. I think they call it ‘Temptation Island’ or something.”
She’s possibly watching it and she will be excited to talk about it.
A discussion like this can go on for hours… connecting with her.
If she is the one who brings it up… take an interest in it and talk about it.
Hint: Take an interest in watching ongoing reality TV series to catch up on the latest developments.
As you interact with a girl and get her to talk more about herself, you’ll pick up on her favorite reality TV show and even the genre she favors – possible she likes the dating reality shows – then you can focus more of your conversation there.
Be intrigued with everything feminine.
Talking about reality television shows can lead you to or you can smoothly transition to gossiping about a particular cast member or celebrity…
…and this takes us to the next topic to talk about with a girl.
#2. Gossip about celebrities
Talk about a celebrity situation in the news…
…which celebrity couples are dating or having problems in their marriage or relationship. There’s drama here.
If you hear or read something about a celebrity, gossip about it.
“Have you heard! Miley Cyrus and Liam Hemsworth just broke up.”
Hint: Be alert on celebrities’ news to catch up on what’s happening in the entertainment world. Watch entertainment news and be abreast with the current gossip happening there.
It doesn’t hurt to embrace the feminine side of your personality.
#3. Gossip about your friends and other people’s drama
Just like gossiping about celebrities, gossip about your friends as well.
Remember, girls gossip with their girlfriends every day… and you can use this to your advantage to connect with her. [Read: ‘What Makes Girls Feel Attraction for Guys’]
Is someone you know involved in an office romance? Gossip about it.
Did one of your buddies strike out with a girl? Gossip about it.
Is a friend of yours cheating on his girlfriend? Well, shut your mouth on this one.
Be discreet… don’t divulge your friends’ private or personal information and don’t be too negative on them. Just gossip for laughs.
…here, when you share secrets with a girl, she too will want to share hers with you… including telling you all about her best friend’s cheating boyfriend and more.
When you share secrets with a girl, she too will want to share hers with you.
#4. Talk about the guys stalking her, those who hit on her, and whatnot
Girls get hit on by guys every day.
They have guys pursuing them, buying them things, doing anything and everything to please them, and whatnot…
…and she will want to talk (more like brag) about it.
So it’s either you ask her…
“Anything interesting happened lately? How many guys ask you out and how many paid for drinks?”
She will smile and share her life with you.
Or she brings it up herself. When she does, talk about it. [Read: ‘How Girls Test Guys Insecurities’]
Allow a girl to brag a little about herself, and then playfully tease her about it.
#5. Discuss relationships
Discuss relationships among the cast members in a reality dating show, celebrities’ relationships, and relationships in general.
Talk about the difference between men and women or issues concerning men and women, including dating, sex, breakups, marriage, and divorce.
This is a good topic to talk about with a girl or a woman.
It fascinates girls and women, and it’s refreshing for them to talk about it with a guy and open up to each other. [Read: ‘How to Tell If a Girl Likes You’ and ‘How to Tell If a Girl Is Interested in You’]
However, leave out talking about your past relationships or your ex. Should it come up, then don’t talk negatively about them, and try to change the subject.
Reveal less detail about yourself. [Read: ‘Questions Girls Ask That Need Not Be Answered’]
Don’t be controversial. Speak your mind, though – don’t be afraid to disagree with her on certain issues… but be smart to know when to hold back your opinion to avoid conflict. Stay positive and don’t blame – we all have our opinions. You may hold views that might differ from one another. So don’t argue with her about who is right or wrong… be empathetic and understanding.
Relationship topics are one of the fun things to talk about with a girl.
#6. Talk about sex…
…or more precisely, topics of a sexual nature.
If you’re talking to a girl you want to get intimate with, you will want to keep heating up the conversation as much as possible.
In other words, keep moving your interactions forward from ‘I want to know you’ to ‘I’m a sexual guy and I’m not ashamed of it’.
This has a lot of benefits and advantages to it, including bringing you closer to an intimate bond with her.
You see, if you keep talking friendly to a girl without putting a sexual spark between her legs, or more accurately, without making her think about having sex with you, she wouldn’t feel the desire to move things forward with you. [Discover: ‘How to Make ANY Girl or Woman Feel a Strong Sexual Desire for You and Fall Head-Over-Heels in Love with You in A Relatively Short Time’]
So there you have it…
…what to talk about with a girl you like or what to talk about with your girlfriend.
Sexual conversations will make it easy to get the kiss, so you don’t wind up in the friend zone.
Easily overlooked topics you can talk about with a girl
These are fashion, dresses, shoes, foods, cooking, and other related things she brings up during the conversation.
They may not be a big deal to talk about them…
…but every girl and woman has a fascination with these things, so don’t shy away from talking about them.
Listen to her talk about them.
Also read: How to Get a Girl to Like You
Finding good topics to talk about with a girl
Girls love to talk…
…so listen to her talk and you will pick up on the things she has an interest in talking about.
The second way to find good conversation topics to talk about with a girl is to browse through the pages of women’s magazines. Here, you will get the feel of the topics they love to talk about.
Things to avoid talking about
As you learn the things to talk about with a girl, it is also equally important to know the things to avoid talking about.
Avoid talking about…
…these are very sensitive topics for girls.
Also, avoid talking about…
- and even religion
So there you have it…
…things to talk about with a girl.
I hope this article has given you a deep insight into the things or topics to talk about with a girl.
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