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The One Dating Advice That Will Give You Success More Than Anything

If there is one dating advice that I will give anyone looking to find the right person for a relationship or marriage, it is… date more than one person.

This may seem over the top and outrageous…

…but dating more than one person will tremendously help you in your journey to find the right person for the fulfilling relationship or marriage you so desire.

Dating…

…as you probably know, is to be with someone – usually hanging out, talking, and engaging in social activities – to screen them to see if they are relationship material.

We date to get to know someone to decide whether or not we want to pursue a relationship with them.

We date to find a suitable partner – the one…

…and there is no better way to find the one than to date more than one person.

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Now, understand this

When dating someone, you don’t get intimate and sexual with them.

NO!

You’re NOT in a serious committed relationship with them yet…

…you’re only hanging out, talking, and engaging in social activities to screen them to see if they are relationship material.

The key phrase here – to screen them to see if they are relationship material.”

Sure, some people are not averse to indulging in casual sex…

…but if you’re looking to have a sexual relationship with only one person and it’s not your goal to sleep around, then you should want to get intimate and sexual with the person you’re going to have a committed relationship with, not the one you will be dating.

That said, your dating endeavors should be devoid of sex.

Hold off sex until you meet the one.

…capeesh?

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Now, back to dating more than one person

Why date more than one person?

Or let me put it in a less intimidating sentence…

…why see other people?

It’s simple.

You should see other people (date more than one person) because you want to meet lots of people until you find the one that shows the most promise – the one that will have the qualities you want in a partner, the one you truly believe will make a great partner…

…the one MEANT for you.

When you see more than one person, you get the chance to learn more about people and find out what you like in a partner and don’t like or will like and won’t like from a relationship.

When you see more than one person, you get to find those traits you desire versus the ones that drive you insane.

Get it!

This consequently helps you make a better decision in selecting the right person to have a relationship with.

A big mistake we tend to make…

when we meet someone we like and develop feelings for is to think that they’re the one.

We are like…

“I really like this one”, “Yes! This is The One!”, “I know they’re the one”

…then we start to plan our future together.

Just because a little chemistry and infatuation cloud our judgment, we consider the very first person we fall for to be the one.

But there is no definite “YES” answer until much later…

…until we meet or see other people to be certain that the person we’ve fallen for is truly the one and we’re not just blinded by love. [Read: ‘Don’t Fall in Love Too Fast’]

The one person you’re infatuated with may not be the one… you might not like them when you get to know who they really are. [Read: ‘10 Signs You’re Not That into Him (Or Her!)’]

So with this, you will want to meet other people and screen them to find the right person to have a relationship with.

You don’t have to treat the one person you’re infatuated with as someone you should want to have at all costs.

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Moving on

So you will have to have as many people as you want in your life to find the right person to have a relationship with.

You’re going to find your favorite (the right person for you) out of the bunch. And you’ll have that amazing relationship you so desire.

Don’t take the one person you’re infatuated with to be the one…

…get out there and meet more people.

Hang out with them, go on dates, study them, find out who they are and what they are about, then make your decision as to who deserves you and who to pursue a relationship with.

Don’t think of settling with the first person you feel affection for…

…see other people then pick the one you feel will make a great partner.

The more people you meet and date; the easier it will be to find the right person to be in a relationship with.

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Now, as you use dating as a selection tool…

…limit your availability to your prospects.

Don’t devote 100% of your time to them.

You don’t want to give them the impression you want to have a relationship with them.

If you start seeing them more frequently, that’s what they’re going to perceive…

…and they’ll expect things to be serious and exclusive from then on.

So be very clear with them that you are not looking to get serious.

You do this by avoiding the romantic and exclusive stuff – don’t spend hours on the phone, make yourself unavailable from time to time, get yourself busy sometimes to avoid being with them, etc.

Have places to go and other people to see other than devoting 100% of your time to them.

Again, your objective here is to find the one that shows the most promise – the one that will have the qualities you want in a partner, the one you truly believe will make a great partner… not get serious with each one of your dates. [Read: ‘How You Know When You Found the One’]

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So there you have it…

…if you’re looking to find the right person for a relationship or marriage, date more than one person to pick the one you feel will make a great partner.

The more people you meet and date; the easier it will be to find the right person to be in a relationship with.

I hope this article has given you a deep insight into dating and how to meet the right person for a relationship or marriage.

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