7 Signs a Girl Is Playing Hard to Get

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signs a girl is playing hard to get

Learn to recognize the signs a girl is playing hard to get to avoid getting trapped and unknowingly forced to do something you don’t want to do.

A girl is going to play hard to get the moment she realizes you are SE*UALLY attracted to her and would want to date her.

When you display se*ual interest in the girl or the woman you are with, she is going to go into ‘hard to get’ mode and make you chase her.

To avoid getting trapped and unknowingly forced to do something you don’t want to do, you need to recognize these ‘playing hard to get signs’ and respond appropriately. [Read: What to Do When the Girl You Desire Plays Hard to Get]

In this article, I share with you how girls play hard to get, or more precisely, the signs girls exhibit that should tell you they are playing hard to get.

I start out by discussing what leads to a girl playing hard to get… because girls don’t JUST play hard to get, they’ve got to be a reason.

Next, I get to the meat of this article – the signs a girl is playing hard to get. Here, I first share with you the DEFINITE signs she likes you but is playing hard to get…

…after that, I share with you the ‘maybe’ signs she is playing hard to get. ‘Maybe’ in the sense that it could be possible that she is NOT playing hard to get with you.

Let’s begin… how to tell if a girl is playing hard to get.

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A girl is going to play hard to get the moment she realizes you are se*ually attracted to her.

Is she playing hard to get or just not interested in you?

Now, the question to ask yourself is, “is she playing hard to get or not interested in you?”

To form a better conclusion that a girl is playing hard to get, you need to, first of all, comprehend if she feels ANY attraction for you. [Read: ‘How to Tell If a Girl Likes You’ and ‘How to Tell If a Girl Is Interested in You’]

When a girl plays hard to get with you, that’s a sign she DOES feels an attraction for you… and she is playing hard to get not only to seem valuable but to also see if you will go to the trouble to have her, indicating how bad you want her. [Read: Why Girls Play Hard to Get]

Now understand…

If a girl is NOT interested in you, she’s NOT going to play hard to get… she will totally blow you off. As simple as that. [Read: ‘Obvious Signs a Girl Is Not Interested in You’ and ‘9 Of The Top Reasons Why Women Reject Men’]

With that said, let’s take a look at the signs a woman is playing hard to get, or more precisely, the signs she wants you to pursue her.

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When a girl plays hard to get, not only does she want to seem valuable but she also wants to see if you will go to the trouble to have her… indicating how bad you want her.

The signs a girl is playing hard to get

Given below are the first 5 signs a girl likes you but is playing hard to get, or more precisely, signs she wants you to chase her.

Let’s get to it… how do girls play hard to get?

Sign #1 – She will NEVER be the one to call or text first

She doesn’t initiate communication and chats because she doesn’t want to seem too desperate or needy.

Any girl who wants to come across as valuable will want a guy to call and text first.

The only time she will call is when she really misses you. Even here, she will pretend she called or texted you because she needed to ask you something. Afterward, you’re going to notice that she will withdraw when she gets your interest again.

Understand: Should a girl be the one to initiate the calls and chats, that means she feels a strong attraction for you and she’s obsessing over you.

A girl will never be the first to call or text you because she doesn’t want to seem too desperate or needy.

To the next sign a girl is playing hard to get.

Sign #2 – She doesn’t answer your phone calls or respond to your texts and chats right away

She takes longer to reply to your texts or chats. And with the phone calls, she can choose to even answer on the second ring.

If a girl always takes longer to answer your phone calls as well as doesn’t respond to your texts or chats right away, she might be playing hard to get…

…she ‘might’ not she ‘is’. She IS definitely in ‘hard to get’ mode when you notice other signs in addition to this.

Most girls know that when they reply to your texts right away it will be a sign of neediness on their part… so they will reply whenever they feel like it.

Now, don’t conclude just yet…

…she could be busy.

When a girl doesn’t respond to your texts or chats right away… this doesn’t necessarily mean she’s playing hard to get. Probably, she’s busy and knowing you guys are going to chat for hours, she will decide to respond later.

Now understand… if a girl doesn’t respond to your texts or chats or she’s taking days to reply, she’s most definitely not interested in you. [Read: ‘Obvious Signs a Girl Is Not Interested in You’]

…most girls know that when they respond to a call or text right away it will be a sign of neediness on their part.

Next on how to tell if she is playing hard to get is when…

…she gives the impression she’s hard to get (sign #3)

If a girl talks more about guys who have tried to hit on her, the guys that approach her on a daily basis, and whatnot…

…this is her way of dropping hints she’s not easy to get, so raise your game if you want to sweep her off her feet.

Again, girls play hard to get because they want us to chase them.

Another big sign to look out for is…

…when the girl gets affectionate with you but act disinterested afterward (sign #4)

That’s a sure sign she is playing hard to get.

Here, she arouses your interest in her but when you try to make a move or reciprocate in some way, she backs away.

It can also mean she wants you to make a move. Since girls expect men to make the first move, they will give you noticeable signals to make a move.

Even so, expect her to back away and go into ‘hard to get’ mode.

Girls play hard to get because they want us to chase them.

Similar to acting disinterested is when…

…she gives an indefinite response to your proposal (sign #5)

Okay, you worked up the courage and expressed your interest in her… but she never returned your interest or never gave you a clear response.

Or when you proposed to her, she told you she will think about it… clearly, that’s a sign she’s playing hard to get.

Here, she knows she’s got your interest so she’s going to make you work hard to get her approval. Not only to seem valuable but to also find out if indeed you really love her.

Now get this… if a girl doesn’t have any feelings for you, she will reject you outright. But if she acts disinterested or gives an indefinite response, that’s a sign she likes you but she’s playing hard to get.

That’s it on the signs a girl likes you but is playing hard to get because she wants you to pursue her.

No matter how a girl gets affectionate with you, expect her to play hard to get when you try to take things to the next level.

So there you have it… the 5 signs that she likes you but is playing hard to get or the signs a woman wants you to chase her.

Next we look at the ‘maybe’ signs she is playing hard to get.

How to actually tell the above signs are indeed signs she’s playing hard to get but likes you

With all these signs of playing hard to get, you’re going to notice that she’ll be showing signs of interest. Like flirting with you, being touchy-feely, being suggestive and seductive with her words. But when you try to move things forward or you express interest in her, she will go back into ‘hard to get’ mode. [Read: ‘How to Tell If a Girl Likes You’ and ‘How to Tell If a Girl Is Interested in You’]

So again as I mentioned earlier, a girl plays hard to get not only to come across as valuable, but she wants you to pursue her and show her how bad you want her.

But, if a girl is NOT interested in you, she’s NOT going to play hard to get… she will totally blow you off. [Read ‘Obvious Signs a Girl Is Not Interested in You’]

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When a girl plays hard to get, that’s a good sign she DOES feels an attraction for you.

The ‘maybe’ signs a girl is playing hard to get

These are ‘maybe’ signs a girl is playing hard to get… maybe she is playing hard to get, maybe she is NOT playing hard to get.

Let get to it:

Sign #6 – She will give excuses when you ask her to hang out

…like she is busy or she has plans.

Sure, a girl or a woman wouldn’t want to say “yes” right away when you ask her out… because, of course, she doesn’t want to seem desperate and show her eagerness to spend time with you.

Now, this is a possibility… especially, with a girl or woman you’ve just met.

But when you’ve known a girl for a while and she feels an attraction for you, she would WANT to hang out with him. She will only play hard to get when you try to move things forward or when you try to make a move.

The next sign is…

…when she faces away or avoids direct eye contact when you’re talking to her (sign #7)

You will mostly notice this with girls or women you’ve just met.

They act this way because not only are they used to getting approached all the time, but they also want to weed out the spineless guys.

Somehow this is their way of testing for inferiority… if you’re not confident in yourself, her action will easily intimidate you.

When she totally avoids direct eye contact with you, then that means she’s not interested in you AT ALL.

But again, a girl who has romantic feelings for you, will face you and stare in your eyes. She will only play hard to get when you try to make a move.

Unless maybe she’s the shy type… then she will be looking away.

So again this doesn’t necessarily mean she’s playing hard to get… a woman you’ve just met will act this way, but not the girl you play hanky-panky with.

So there you it… the ‘maybe’ signs a girl is playing hard to get.

Keep Reading: When the Girl You Desire Plays Hard to Get: Should You Pursue Her or Give Up?

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Hard-to-get implies value… so if a girl or a woman is hard to get then she’s thus valuable.

Final Words

So there you have it… the signs a girl is playing hard to get but is interested in you at the same time and the ‘maybe’ signs a girl is playing hard to get.

Take note on these signs of playing hard to get… you cannot conclude that a girl is playing hard to get based on just a single sign she displays. Look out for other signs, then, you can conclude that indeed she’s playing hard to get with you.

Now, once you recognize these signs girl is playing hard to get, what is a guy to do? [Read: ‘What to Do When the Girl You Desire Plays Hard to Get’ and ‘An Absurd But Proven Tactic That Makes Any Girl Want You So Bad’]

So again, there you have it… the signs a girl is playing hard to get but likes you and the ‘maybe’ signs a girl is playing hard to get.

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Keep Reading: How to Play Hard to Get with a Girl (and Have Her Chase You)

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