11 Obvious Signs a Girl Is Not Interested in You: An Indication to Move On

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As the saying goes “action speaks louder than words”, and nothing could be truer when it comes to women and dating.

The reality is, not every woman or girl will be interested in having a romantic relationship with you.

That having been said, the best thing you can do in the world of dating is to determine as soon as possible if the girl you desire is really interested in you.

By recognizing the signs of a girl not interested in you, you will know which girls or women you’re wasting your time with.

In this article, I share with you the signs that a girl is not interested in you or how to know if a girl is not interested in you.

First, we look at the signs a girl you’ve just met gives off that should tell you she’s not interested in you se*ually. After that, we look at the signs a girl you are already friends with gives off that signals she has no romantic feelings for you.

Finally, I share with you some reasons why a girl might not be interested in you and what to do when she’s not interested.

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The best thing you can do in the world of dating is to determine as soon as possible if the girl you desire is really interested in you… or if you’re wasting your time with her.

How to know a girl is not interested in you and she’s really not playing hard to get

The signals or signs I’m about to share with you are OBVIOUS signs a girl is not interested in you…

…the problem is, it’s so easy to miss and you might mistake it as signs she’s playing hard to get. [Read: ‘Why Girls Play Hard to Get’]

There’s a thin line between a girl playing hard to get and a girl who is just not interested in you.

When a girl is playing hard to get with you, that means there is interest…

…but when a girl is not interested in you, it means she doesn’t want to get involved with you se*ually. You can still be friends, though.

I have written an article on how to tell if a girl is playing hard to get with you, you can read it here: Signs That Indicate a Girl Is Playing Hard to Get with You.

With that said, let’s get started… the signs a girl is not interested in you.

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There’s a thin line between a girl playing hard to get and a girl who is just not interested in you.

Signs a girl you’ve just met gives off that indicates she’s not interested in you

There are certain things a girl or a woman you’ve just met do that signal she is NOT interested in having a romantic relationship with you… and given below are the signs and how to know she is not interested in you.

Sign #1 – She faces away and completely avoids direct eye contact when you’re talking to her

When you’re talking to a girl you’ve just met and she completely avoids direct eye contact with you, and most especially, looks away from you, that is a sign she is not interested. [Read: ‘9 Of The Top Reasons Why Women Reject Men’]

Next on how to tell if she is not interested in you is when…

…she’s giving you a closed-ended response (sign #2)

When a girl is giving you a one-word answer to your questions, that should tell you she’s not interested in talking to you. [Anyway read: ‘How to Talk to a Girl or a Woman and Get Her to Find You Unique and Interesting’]

Similar to the close-ended responses is when…

…she doesn’t reveal detail about herself (sign #3)

A girl who likes you will be eager to talk to you and share her life experiences with you.

But when a girl holds back details about herself, and most especially, gives you a one-word answer to your questions, that should signal to you she’s not interested in you enough to share details about herself.

The next signal to know if a woman is not interested in you is when she is…

…declining dates or hangouts (sign #4)

In other words, she blows you off all the time.

When you ask a girl out and she gives you an outright “no”, that should also tell you she’s not interested in you.

The next sign she’s not interested in you.

Sign #5 – She never answers your calls, plus she doesn’t respond to your texts

The sad thing is she also never returns your calls.

She’s ignoring you… and that’s a HUGE sign she is not interested in you at all.

Sign #6 – She hasn’t accepted your friend request on social media

It’s understandable that girls wouldn’t want to be the first to send a guy a friend request on social media… because they don’t want to seem needy.

Now, if a girl hasn’t accepted your friend request, that should tell you something…

…she’s probably not interested in you.

So there you have it… the signs a woman is not interested in you or how to tell if a girl is not interested.

Next, we look at the signs a girl you are already friends with gives off that indicates she has no romantic feelings for you or she’s not interested in you.

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If a girl isn’t interested in you, you can’t make her.

Signs your girl pal gives off that indicates she has no romantic feelings for you

When it comes to a close female friend, there are also certain things she does that should tell she has no romantic feelings for you… and given below are how to know she’s not interested. [Read: ‘Why You Shouldn’t Be Friends with A Girl You Find Attractive’]

Note: You will also notice these signs with girls you’ve just met.

Now, how to tell she is not interested in you…

Sign #7 – If you find yourself asking a lot of “Why” type of questions…

  • “Why doesn’t she treat me special like she treats other guys?”
  • “ Why doesn’t she pay attention to me?”

…is she playing hard to get or not interested?

  • “Why does she pull back her hands when I try to hold her hands?”
  • “Why does she retreat when I try to touch her… is she shy or not interested?”

If you find yourself asking a lot of “Why…” type of questions, or are getting some inconsistent vibes, you are probably with a girl who’s not interested in you.

Sign #8 – She will give you a direct hint she’s not interested in you

This includes talking about the kind of guy she wants to date, telling you about a guy she really likes or asking for advice regarding a guy she’s dating or wanna date, and whatnot.

When you notice the girl you have romantic feelings for starts to make reference to another guy, which denotes she’s fallen for that guy, that’s a HUGE signal she is not interested in having you as her boyfriend.

Next on how to tell if she’s not interested in you is…

…when you begin to hear the “I like you as a friend” or the “let’s just be friends” speech (sign #9)

This is when she tells you she likes you but only as a FRIEND… clearly, she does not want to be with you in a romantic way.

Sign #10 – She hooks you up with her gorgeous friend

If a girl hooks you up with her more good-looking friend, she’s not interested in having you as her boyfriend.

She tries to find you another girl because she knows you’re interested in her and she does not want to lead you on.

Sign #11 – She rejects your advances outright

Now, we may ask… here is she playing hard to get or just not interested in you?

It depends.

If a girl acts disinterested but affectionate at the same time, then she’s playing hard to get with you.

But when you make a move on her and she rejects you outright and acts completely disinterested or even gets upset… dude! she’s totally not interested in you.

Truth is, some girls love it when men work to get them. Some also like persistence. But if you’ve asked a girl out like a hundred times and she still says “no”, then she definitely has no romantic feelings for you.

So there you have it… how to know if a girl you are friends with is not interested in you.

READ MORE: ‘How to Tell If a Girl Likes You’ and ‘How to Tell If a Girl Is Interested in You

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You may be friends with a girl for a long time but she may not have romantic feelings for you.

The fact a girl show signs she is not interested in you does not mean there’s something wrong with you

The truth is, not every woman or girl will be interested in having a romantic relationship with you.

The fact that a girl shows signs she is not interested in you does not mean there’s something wrong with you. No!

Some women are not interested in meeting someone new.

Others have no interest in men if you know what I mean.

Some women are happily married or in a relationship.

Some might not be interested in your ‘type’.

And of course, if you don’t approach a woman the right way, she will reject you before she even gets to know you. [Read: ‘How to Approach a Girl or a Woman and Start a Conversation with Her’]

READ MORE: ‘Why Women Don’t Find Nice Guys Attractive’ and ‘Why Women Don’t Choose Men That Are Good for Them

The fact that a girl shows signs that she’s not interested in you does not mean there’s something wrong with you

What to do if she is not interested… when a woman is not interested or a girl show signs she’s not interested in you

When it comes to women and dating, you have to understand that many of the girls or women you meet and talk to won’t be interested in you se*ually.

Don’t feel bad when a girl or a woman is not responsive when you approach her. Or a girl you already know show signs that she is not interested in you.

If you meet or approach a girl and she shows signs she’s not interested in you, move on and find another girl.

You don’t have to waste time on women who are not interested in you.

As dating expert Carlos Xuma has written in his book ‘The Dating Black Book’:

“There are more women in the world than you have time to meet… much less waste your time on the ones who are not interested in you.”

“NEVER forget you were born without her. And that there are hundreds more like her and thousands more that are even better than her. Don’t waste your time!”

KEEP READING: ‘How to Attract a Girl or a Woman’ and ‘How to Be Attractive to Girls or Women

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There are more women in the world than you have time to meet… much less waste your time on the ones who aren’t interested in you.

Final words

So there you have it… how to tell if a woman is not interested or how to know a girl not interested in you.

Again, there’s a thin line between a girl playing hard to get and a girl who is just not interested.

When a girl is playing hard to get with you, that means there is interest…

…but when a girl is not interested in you, it means she does not want to get involved with you se*ually.

So know when a girl show signs she isn’t interested in you so you don’t waste your time with her.

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