You meet a really beautiful woman, you like her, you have feelings for her and you would want to get into a romantic relationship with her, what do you do?
Should you take her out to dinner?
My response… NO.
Why is that?
Well, you might think that taking a woman out to dinner or to the movies will get her romantically interested in you…
You’re only going to end up spending a lot of money on a girl or a woman who might not even be interested in you.
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Following the traditional stereotype of dating is bad for attraction.
Dinner DOESN’T make a woman feel attraction
You see, women want something more exciting than a friendly gesture like dinner.
When it comes to dating and romance, a woman responds to a man that can make her feel – a man that can make her feel happy, special, wanted…
…and taking her out to dinner isn’t going to cut it.
No amount of dinners and free food will cause a woman to be attracted to you… at best it will only make her feel affection towards you.
And sorry to break it to you… but you can’t have a woman feel attracted to you through the affection of being a guy who takes her out to dinner.
That’s not how attraction for a woman works.
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Even if she sees you as a good potential relationship material…
…she wouldn’t feel attracted to you enough to want to get intimate with you or be with you in a romantic way.
Sure, your good deeds will make her think of you as a good potential relationship material… but again, she wouldn’t feel attracted to you enough to want to be in a romantic relationship with you. [Read: ‘Why Women Don’t Find Nice Guys Attractive’]
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No amount of dinners and free foods will cause a woman feel an attraction for you… it will only make her feel affection towards you.
Here’s the solution
An attraction for a woman is how good a man makes her feel, emotionally.
So if you’re looking to get into a romantic relationship with a woman or a girl, the key is to make her feel attracted to you as a potential lover but not make her feel affection towards you as a friend.
Don’t do things that will make a woman feel affection, like buying gifts for her, taking her out to dinner, and whatnot… but instead, use your personality to make yourself attractive and desirable. [Read: ‘Personality Traits Women Find Most Attractive in a Guy’ and ‘How to Get Girls When You Don’t Have the Male-Model Good Looks’]
Instead of wanting to take a woman out to dinner, why don’t you invite her over to your place and cook a delicious meal for her? [Read: ‘How to Get a Woman to Come Over to Your Place’]
And instead of asking her out to the movies or for a coffee, why don’t you mini-date with her… go to different exciting places and have a good time together! [Read: ‘A Simple But Overlooked Tip that Builds Attraction with a Girl Quickly’]
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Attraction for a woman is how good a man makes her feel.
Save the dinner for later
I’m not saying it’s wrong to take a woman out to dinner…
…but it’s not a good idea if you’re going to do it at the initial stages of getting to know her.
As I mentioned earlier, when you go down this road, you’re going to end up spending a lot of money on a woman who might not even be interested in you. [Read: ‘How to Tell If a Girl Is Interested in You’ and ‘Obvious Signs a Girl Is Not Interested in You: An Indication to Move On’]
The truth is, if a woman isn’t feeling attracted to you, then taking her out to dinner isn’t going to make her. And again, no amount of dinners will make her feel attracted to you… it will only make her feel affection toward you.
So it’s best to have her feel attracted to you the right way… but not do the things that make her feel affection.
Then once you get her romantically involved with you, you can take her out to dinner and start doing other traditional dating activities.
Hint: Don’t spend money on a girl or a woman if you have no idea whether she even likes you.
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Save the dinner and lavish dating activities for the woman you are already in a romantic relationship with.
Besides taking a woman out to dinner could put her into ‘hard to get’ mode
You see, women intuitively know when they are being pursued.
So as soon as you ask a woman out to dinner you put her in the state of mind that she is being pursued… she will realize that you’re into her and she might start to play hard to get.
Now, we don’t want that… because that could make your seduction down the road harder than it needs to be. Besides, it is best if the woman is the one doing the pursuit.
Hint: when it comes to women and dating, you don’t want to show interest too early. [Read: ‘This Absurd But Proven Tactic Makes Any Girl Want You So Bad’]
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It is best if the woman is the one doing the pursuit.
So there you have it.
It is NOT necessary to take a woman out to dinner in order to have her feel attracted to you. Instead, you should focus on using your personality to make yourself attractive and desirable.
Remember, a woman will get into a romantic relationship with a man she finds desirable… but she won’t be as likely to get romantically involved with a man who she ONLY feels affection for.
Once you get romantically involved with a woman, you can take her out to dinner and engage in other traditional dating activities.
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