Question: Should I ask her out on a date?

Answer

It depends.

If she’s a girl or a woman you’ve just met, then NO… DON’T ask her out on a date.

But if she’s a girl or a woman you’re already in a serious relationship with (and even gone as far as to third base), then sure… do it.

Why you should not ask a girl you’ve just met out on a date

Asking a girl or a woman out on a date will put her into hard to get mode.

When you ask a girl or a woman out on a date, it puts her in the state of mind that she is being pursued (which is bad for dating). And hence, she will start playing hard to get.

Trust me, you don’t want that.

Plus, asking a girl out on a date doesn’t make her fall in love with you

Going out on a date doesn’t make a girl feel an attraction for you or fall in love with you if that’s what you’re looking to achieve here.

If you want to make a girl feel an attraction for you or fall in love with you, then give her an emotionally fulfilling experience…

…and asking her out on a date isn’t gonna cut it.

Understand:

I’m not saying it’s wrong to ask a girl or a woman out on a date or you shouldn’t take her out on a date ever. But it’s not a good idea to do that at the beginning of meeting her…

…save that for a girl or a woman you are already in a serious relationship with. If you’re already involved, then you can take her out to dinner.

Asking a girl or a woman out is a necessity at some point. But not a good idea at the beginning of meeting her.

What to do instead

Don’t play the dating game as most guys would…

don’t be predictable.

Be different.

Instead of asking a girl or a woman out on a date, why don’t you cook her dinner yourself and then invite her over?

It’s romantic.

It’s thoughtful.

And most importantly, it’s definitely something she’s never experienced with any other guy before.

Plus, you’ve displayed an attractive and desirable quality and ability – cooking.

She’s going to love it… and love you for it.

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