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10 Reasons Why You’ve Just Been Ghosted!- And What To Do About It


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Have you just been ghosted and you don’t know why!?

Well, in this article we are going to address 10 reasons why you’ve been ghosted and what to do about it! But first, let’s rewind to the beginning.

The beginning of a new romance.

Everything seems perfect. The horoscopes match, the butterflies are fluttering, and a simple message from them can make you grin more than a little kid on Christmas morning.

You find yourself daydreaming of what it would be like to be with them, then before you know it you’re thinking about names for your future babies (that are super adorable by the way).

Your last date went well, and you both agreed to meet again.

Then…

You message them soon after gushing about how much fun you had and that you can’t wait to hang out again.

A couple of hours with no reply turns into a couple of days, and the fantasies about your future life together are suddenly overshadowed by excuses for why they haven’t messaged you back.

Oh well, they must be busy at work,” you think to yourself, or “they must be somewhere where there’s no reception“. Days turn into a week, and you’re now coming to the realization that you’re probably not ever going to see that person again! You come to the realization that you’ve been Ghosted!

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Ghosting

Ghosting has no discrimination on any gender and is a term that pretty much means disconnecting with someone cold turkey without talking to them and ignoring responsibility for the other person’s feelings while they are left to ponder their silent rejection.

Living as a millennial in an age where everything seems more disposable, I realized the same goes in the dating world. When I got ghosted for the first time I naively didn’t know that it’s now considered normal social behavior.

Whatever happened to old-fashioned communication face to face? Or the gentle fade out, or the “Let’s just be friends” (which we all know is code for ” I’m just not that into you, and I’ll probably never see you again“). But at least there’s some comfort and closure in those little white lies.

The Ouch Factor

There are of course different levels of ghosting in the dating world today, and the “ouch” factor depends on how much time and emotions were invested in the first place.

If you’re dating online such as Tinder, Bumble or the various other dating apps, and you’re still in the talking phase and he suddenly pulls a Houdini!… Then that’s nothing to lose sleep over as it’s still on a superficial level, where any initial feelings are probably based on some flirty small talk and a few filtered images.

But when things have been going smoothly for weeks, and you’ve gotten two or three dates under your belt and in your mind, you’ve entered the “seeing each other” phase of a potential relationship, then shit can feel personal when they decide to ghost you!

They leave the door wide open on their quick exit out, leaving you with no closure and just a few empty feelings of insecurity, humiliation, and shame. The mind can go into analytical overdrive with questions like “Was it what I wore”? “What I said”? “Am I not pretty enough, funny enough”? “Do I smell”? Like, throw me a freakin’ bone here!

Below Are 10 Reasons Why You’ve Been Ghosted:

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#1. You Came Across Too Clingy

Let’s face it, no one like a stage five clinger! Don’t get desperado on their ass, they’ll smell it a mile away and run for the hills.

Remember, independence is attractive!

If you’ve messaged them after a date, and they don’t message you back after 72 hours, it’s unlikely you’re on their priority list (unless they’ve been kidnapped). The best thing to do is to not message them again until they message you back.

#2. You Jumped In Too Soon

Attraction and chemistry between the two of you are on fire. The online build-up was intense, but when you start dating in person, the expectations don’t match up, and well, expectations are a bitch.

When you first start dating make sure you’re giving out the best version of yourself as the old saying “first impressions last” does pack some truth in it. So don’t start picking names for your future babies too soon!

#3. Things Get Sexual Too Fast

Now if you’re only after a one night stand or a quick fling, then getting hot and heavy after a short amount of banter and a few drinks is fine if that’s your prerogative. But if you’re on the dating scene and want something more substantial then there’s got to be some kind of chase in the beginning.

The best foundation for any potential relationship isn’t your bed base. So if the initial connection is there, put some time and effort into getting to know each other first, build some trust, build on that initial connection and when you finally hit the home run it’ll be that much better.

#4. The Little Turn Offs

The little habits that can turn anyone off can be as small as how they eat their food, the way they smell, odd hygiene habits, how they talk to the waiters that serve them or just some plain weird shit that’s an instant deal-breaker.

Once I dated a guy who I really liked in the beginning, but then one night I meet him down at the bar where he was celebrating his birthday with his friends I hadn’t meet. He didn’t introduce me to anyone, let alone talk to me, which left me in an awkward situation. Because I value manners in a person I knew then it was not going to end well. And well the visions of him slurring his words right before a drunken face plant just kinda turned me off!

#6. They’re A Player

Some people are just looking for fun, and seeing how many fish they can catch before they’re ready to start looking for “the one”! A relationship isn’t their prerogative, and they’re probably dating multiple people at the same time.

There’s nothing wrong with dating a player as they have their place if you know what you’re in for. But to avoid being played yourself it’s best to read the signs early.

#7. They Don’t Like You

OK, maybe they just don’t like you is a little harsh. They hardly know you right? Maybe they just didn’t see it going anywhere. That’s human nature and it probably wasn’t meant to be.

#8. They Don’t Want To Hurt Your Feelings

It’s not that the other person is a jerk, they may just not want to hurt your feelings. They may also feel that the quick fling wasn’t enough to justify an awkward confrontation that could cause some unwanted drama in their life.

#9.  They’re Not Ready

Perhaps they’re just testing the waters without wanting to dive right in. They may have come out of a long-term relationship, they’re busy with their career or they simply decide they’re not ready.

#10. They’re Dead!

OK, people, we’ve got to cover all bases here! Maybe they are not M.I.A. But maybe just R.I.P?

What Can You Do About Being Ghosted?

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#1. Ask Yourself What You Really Lost

After my own personal reflection, I asked myself this question. Was it the guy himself or the idea of the guy I lost? Was it the butterflies and the attention or the fictional babies I had lost?

Sometimes it’s not the literal situation that can make us feel unwanted and rejected, but it’s what that situation triggers within our deep subconscious that triggers all our other experiences of feeling rejected.

Once you get clear and stop projecting the subconscious past experiences onto this one, you’ll be able to see the experience for what it is and take it less personal.

#2. Be Proud You Put Yourself Out There

It’s better to experience and “fail” than not at all right? It all makes for a good chapter in your book of life and can even inspire a blog post. ????

#3. Invest In Yourself

Instead of wasting energy into someone who doesn’t see your worth, create your own self-worth by investing your energy into the most important person in your life, which is you! Create more value to your life by doing the things you love. Learn new skills, take up new hobbies. Do anything that makes you happy and that provides more value to your life.

#4. Be Happy You Dodged Someone Who Can’t Man Up

Even if it was only a few dates before you got ghosted, manners and integrity are a sign of a real man or woman. We don’t want to date someone who can’t hold themselves accountable.

If we experience this behavior earlier on, imagine what he could have been like further into the relationship. We got let off the hook!  No more time wasted. Time to grab your bestie and celebrate with a bottle of wine! (or two).

#5. Laugh!

Live, learn and LAUGH! Sometimes it’s best to look at our lives like a sitcom. Some episodes are funnier than others, and some people are meant for cameo appearances only. Let’s not take everything so seriously. and look forward to the next exciting episode in our life. (Just cast your characters a bit better next time aye.;)

What if they come back?

For whatever reason, this person tries to glide their ghosty ass back through your door like nothing ever happened, set your boundaries straight away as your curiosity to find closure from them could put you back in a vulnerable position to be ghosted again.

Conclusion:

There are many reasons why someone has ghosted you, and some of them are a lot less harmless than we think. However, overanalyzing our silent rejection isn’t going to help us forward our game. Instead, focus on what you can control and move on! (Cause lets face it, no one’s got time to mope around after someone who doesn’t mope around after you).

Once a ghost always a ghost and a relationship with a dead person ain’t going nowhere.

Take back your power, find your own closure and shut the door yourself.

And LOCK it!

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Have you ever been ghosted? Share your thoughts and experiences down below. And share this post on social media!


Discover How to Make Any Girl or Woman Feel A VERY STRONG SEXUAL DESIRE for You and Fall Head-Over-Heels in Love with You in A Relatively Short Time… Guaranteed!

Sexual Attraction: How to Make Any Girl or Woman Feel a Strong Sexual Desire for You in The Shortest Possible Time

Do you want to make girls (or women) fall head-over-heels in love with you, be completely OBSESSED with you, and WANT you BADLY?

Do you want to have girls WILLINGLY give you sex without even trying?

If you do, then grab your copy of the “Sexual Attraction” e-book now.

This e-book reveals the single most powerful strategy on how to make girls or women feel HORNY and LUST (very strong sexual desire) and ATTRACTION.

With this powerful e-book, you will have the skill to make any girl or woman feel SEXUALLY ATTRACTED to you, be completely OBSESSED with you, and WANT you BADLY – regardless of your looks or how much money you make.


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