Questions Women Ask That Need Not Be Answered

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When having a conversation with women, it is of utmost importance that you avoid answering most of their questions.

This is especially the case when having a conversation with a woman you desire and would want to get into a romantic relationship with.

This woman will ask questions to probe and screen you out.

Most distinctive are questions about:

  • your financial status
  • other women you know
  • your feelings for her
  • your day-to-day activities

These are tests and trick questions…

…and, therefore, are not to be answered.

Why?

Because your answers or response to these questions can put you at a disadvantage and make your seduction harder.

Women love to ask questions that expose our flaws and vulnerability

I’m going to go into detail why women ask such questions and why it shouldn’t be answered.

But before we do…

…how should you respond to a woman’s questions in general?

As a rule of thumb, you never answer a woman’s questions directly

…because you might never know which ones could put you at a disadvantage and which ones wouldn’t.

With that, there’re three (3) ways to go about answering a woman’s questions:

The first approach is to answer her question with a question:

  • Her: “Have you had a girlfriend before?”
  • You: “Why do you ask?”

…when she responds, you follow up with another question to transition to a different topic completely.

The second approach is to evade it with a statement:

  • Her: “So how much do you make a month?”
  • You: “You know, it’s not about the money… it’s the passion and the desire to help people.”

…then transition to talking about something else.

The third approach is to evade it with humor:

  • Her: “Where were you last night? I called.”
  • You: “I was home thinking about you… but since you didn’t call early enough, I went out and hired ten strippers.”

Get it!

You never answer a woman’s trick questions directly.

Don’t give women the chance to probe and screen you.

You need to maintain an element of mystery.

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As a rule of thumb, you never answer a woman’s question directly.

Attraction thrives when there is mystery

Women are drawn to men they cannot completely figure out.

They obsess over men who maintain an element of mystery.

When you meet a girl or a woman you find attractive and you’re looking to get into a romantic relationship with her, strive to hold back some of the details about you… and get her wondering.

When a woman relates to you through mystery, not only will she find you interesting, she will also find you unique and attractive… qualities most men don’t have since they give women every detail about their lives and make their seduction harder than it needs to be.

With that said, let’s go into detail the questions women ask and why it shouldn’t be answered directly.

Read More: How to Talk to Women

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Attraction thrives when there’s mystery.

The questions that need not be answered directly

#1. Questions about your financial status

  • “What kind of car do you drive?”
  • “How much money do you make?”
  • “What kind of apartment do you live in?”

A woman will ask these and similar questions to screen you out.

Most women will ask the questions to test you to find out if you’re going to brag just like the last 100 guys she’s met who tried to brag their way into her pants.

Other women will also ask because they wouldn’t want to waste their time with you if you seem like the kind of guy who can’t provide for them or meet their financial needs.

Either way, it exposes you.

Here, if you’re doing okay in the ‘financial department’ you will be tempted to answer and you may think that talking (and bragging) about how much money you make and how nice your car is will get you laid… but it won’t.

Sure, maybe it will…

…but it might also get you a gold-digger – a woman mainly interested in you for your money. And when your money goes, so will she.

Plus, when you brag, the woman will see through it and it’s only going to lower her attraction for you.

How you should respond

Any question a woman asks regarding your job, car, house, and financial status should be evaded with a question…

  • “Why do you ask?”

Your self-restraint and mystery alone will amplify the woman’s attraction for you.

Understand:

Most women may not really be after your money. A woman who’s looking to settle down or get married (women around the age of 28) would ask these questions too… to know if you’re capable of taking care of her and your -to-be kids.

So it’s understandable when a woman is curious about your providing potential.

Nevertheless, you still don’t have to tell her… you don’t know her angle.

Let her figure them out herself.

(Hint: If a woman or a girl wants to size up your bank balance, you don’t want her.)

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Beware when a woman starts asking questions about your job and financial status.

#2. Questions about your feelings for her

  • “Do you miss me?”
  • “How do you feel about me?”

All questions about your feelings for her are tests to see if she’s got your interest.

Here, when you answer in the affirmative or you verbalize your interest in her, she’s likely to go into ‘hard to get’ mode… she’s going to play hard to get, and this will make your seduction down the road harder than it needs to be. [Read: ‘Why Girls Play Hard to Get’ and ‘7 Signs that Indicate a Girl Is Playing Hard to Get’]

So when a girl or a woman you’re with and looking to get intimate with asks:

  • “Do you miss me?”

You respond with something like:

  • “Which part of you?”

Throw in a little playful tease here, then transition to talking about something else.

It’s better to subtly express your feelings for a woman than to verbalize it and risk her going into ‘hard to get’ mode.

Don’t verbalize your interest in a woman especially at the beginning… express it non-verbally. Show it through your actions.

The tension of uncertainty ignites the attraction a woman feels for a man and makes her work harder for his attention. In other words, not making your feelings for a woman obvious but meanwhile making her fall in love with you creates a strong tension inside her that makes her want you so badly.

Understand: The more you make things definite and certain for a girl or a woman, the less mystery and wonder you leave her with… and hence, the lower your attraction will be.

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Verbalizing your feelings for a woman or a girl makes you an easy kill.

#3. Questions that seem as she’s checking up on

Similar to questions a woman asks about your feelings for her (#2) are questions she asks to check up on you in a way:

  • “What have you been up to lately?”
  • “Do you go out on weekends?”
  • “Where were you last night? I called.”
  • “What do you do in your spare time?”
  • “What do you do when I’m not around?”

Women ask these sort of questions to determine if you have options… “It’s there another woman in his life!”. Or more accurately, she wants to know if she’s got competition… “Do I have to work hard to not lose him!”.

She’s probably playing hard to get with you and she wants to affirm she’s still got you wrapped around her fingers.

Here, you’ll be tempted to give her a detailed account of your life and day-to-day activities…

…don’t.

Because when she gets to know you have no social life, it tells her she’s got nothing to worry about… it tells her she’s got no competition.

Plus, it’s not a good idea for her to know everything about your life. Remember… mystery.

If you do reveal every detail about your life and yourself, you give away your mystery and therefore paves the way for her games.

You see, women want men to be obsessed with them… they want us to worship them. In fact, most women, so to speak, ‘get off’ when we have no social life. And as romantic as this may be to you, it turns you into a doormat.

Resist the urge to reassure a woman when she seems uncertain.

How you should respond

That being said, when a woman asks questions that seems she’s checking up on you, don’t give her a definite answer…

…let her wonder what you’re up to.

  • Her: “What have you been up to lately?”
  • You: “A lot! So how was your day/weekend?”
  • Her: “Do you go out on weekends?”
  • You: “Yep! Hey, will you be free tomorrow?”
  • Her: “What do you do in your spare time?” or “What do you do when I’m not around?”
  • You: “Lots of things. How was your day/weekend??”

Or you can respond with humor, like below…

  • Her: “Where were you last night? I called.”
  • You: “I was home thinking about you… but since you didn’t call early enough, I went out and hired ten strippers.”

Having a girl or a woman feels she can easily lose you will make her work harder for your attention.

So let the woman you’re with get the feeling that you have options and that you can get the same thing she’s offering elsewhere. Don’t be afraid to let her think you have other women in your life. “If I mess up I might lose him to another woman”.

Again as I mentioned earlier, the more you make things definite and certain for a girl or a woman, the less mystery and wonder you leave her with… and hence, the lower your attraction will be.

Here’s a secret tip:

It’s better to make a woman want you badly and pursue you than to be the one pursuing her.

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It’s better to make a woman want you badly and pursue you than to be the one pursuing her.

#4. Questions about other women

Also similar to questions a woman asks to check up on you (#3) are questions about other women:

  • “Are you guys dating?”
  • “Are you guys together or something?”
  • “Have you had a girlfriend before?”
  • “Who was the most beautiful girl you dated?”
  • “So what about your ex? Are you still friends with her?”
  • “What’s going on with you two?”
  • “When was your last relationship? How long did it last?”

A woman will ask these and similar questions to find out if she’s got competition to worry about. She’s wondering if she has to compete with other women for your attention… because she sees that you are desirable to other women and she fears she might lose you if she doesn’t work hard to have you to herself.

When a girl or a woman asks a question like this, you might try to give a response that will meet her expectations – reassurance. You wouldn’t want her to think that you are seeing another woman, hence, if she’s not reassured you might lose her. (Hint: Never reassure a woman)

You may want to explain things to her to clear away her doubts…

…well, don’t bother.

Don’t bother trying to explain yourself to a woman… don’t try to justify yourself to her.

How you should respond

As usual, don’t answer her directly or give her a definite answer.

Questions like, “Are you guys dating?” or “Have you had a girlfriend before?” or “Are you guys together or something?”, SHOULD NOT be answered with a “No”.

A question like, “What’s going on with you two?”, SHOULD NOT be answered with a “Nothing”.

Your typical response – reassuring her – will make you undesirable… and this could cause her interest to lower.

So you should either respond with…

  • “Why do you ask?”

Or use humor:

  • Her: “You ever been with a woman?”
  • You: “Have you?”
  • Her: “So what about your ex? Are you still friends with her?”
  • You: “Why? Are you interested in a threesome or something?”

Don’t talk about it further. Remember… mystery.

Again, a woman asks questions about other women mostly because she wants to find out if she has to compete with another woman for your attention…

…give her someone to compete with.

Give a woman a reason to chase you.

Hint:

Don’t shy away from talking about the women in your life just because you’re afraid of giving a girl or a woman you’re currently with the wrong impression…

…talk about women you know and have met when necessary.

The secret here is to avoid talking about them for hours and intentionally bringing them up all the time and coming across as if you’re trying to make her jealous.

Plus, don’t give her all the detail… for instance, don’t mention the fact that you’re just friends. Let this last part be a mystery… shut up and watch her work hard for your affection.

  • “Yeah, she’s a nice person”

…then switch to another topic.

When she gets to know she’s not the only woman in your life, it gives her a potential competitor for your time and attention to consider (provided you’re attractive and desirable). That is, she’s going to work harder to have you to herself… because she doesn’t really know what’s going on between you and these women and she wouldn’t want to lose you to another woman.

Don’t shy away from talking about the women in your life.

Should you talk about your ex?

With regards to your past relationships, be discreet here.

As a rule of thumb, you should NOT talk about your past relationships, like how your ex left you or why she broke up with her last boyfriend.

But if your exes come up in your conversation, don’t talk trash or say negative things or badmouth them… smoothly and subtly change the subject immediately.

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Talking about other women gives a woman a potential competitor for your attention to consider.

Final Words

Most questions women ask are sort of meant to probe and screen us…

…but don’t give them the chance to.

You need to maintain an element of mystery.

It will make you a challenge to them.

It will make you stand out from the guys they’re used to.

And it will make you different in an attractive way… “Wow, this guy is sure different”.

You see, women are used to getting their way with men, including getting answers to their every question. Now, when you show up and you DO NOT do things to their expectations, plus you bust their balls and act charming… it makes you attractive and desirable.

Of course, some of a woman’s questions should be answered… just not all her questions.

Live a life of mystery and get women thinking and curious about you, “Who’s this guy!”, “What’s his deal!”.

When you give a woman the ins and outs of your life, you lose your mystery… you become uninteresting.

You may slip up from time to time and give women something they may use against you. But that’s okay… no one’s perfect.

Just be abreast with the fact that you don’t have to answer every question a woman asks directly, and your success with women will skyrocket.

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