There is a saying that a man falls in love through his eyes, a woman through her ears…
…in other words, men are attracted to what they see – a nice physique and good looks.
Yes, men are attracted to looks… we see a good-looking woman and we feel an instant attraction to her beauty.
But when it really comes down to it, however, we really feel a strong attraction towards other things other than good looks.
As dating expert Alex Carter has written in his book How to Make Him Desire You, “looks do matter to men, yes, but looks aren’t the most important element when it comes to desire and attraction.”
So now, what exactly do we (men) see in a woman or a girl that surpasses good looks?
How can a girl or a woman capture a man’s heart or make a man feel a strong attraction for her?
There’s an essential quality that is traditionally attributed to women…
…when you exhibit or demonstrate this quality or attribute, you make yourself desirable… and any man will want, desire and need you, and will choose you over other women.
Now, what quality am I talking about here?
Well, the quality here is none other than being a great cook.
Not just being able to cook… but being able to cook great and delicious meals.
Great meals surpass good looks
Cooking great meals is the most attractive talent any girl can possess that is hard for a guy to resist…
…and indeed, it surpasses good looks.
Have you heard the adage, “the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach”?
Yes… you can easily capture a man’s heart and make him fall head over heels for you with your cooking skills.
When you’re able to cook great and delicious meals, you will automatically appear to be a hundred times more attractive to a man.
Not only do guys or men find good cooking attractive, but they see you as the ultimate dream girl they hope to marry someday.
Having the ability to cook great and delicious meals shows you’re marriage material.
Men see great cooking as an attractive feminine act
Traditionally, a woman is the one who cooks food at home.
And when you can demonstrate that you’re a great cook, a guy sees it as an attractive feminine act and he will find you attractive and desirable.
Cooking delicious meals is how you get a man… and then keep him
Now, a noteworthy fact is that, when the guy you’re dating eats somewhere else and those foods are not as delicious as yours, it will make him think of you… and ultimately, see you as the ultimate dream girl he hopes to marry someday.
Even when he smells foods that are similar to what you’ve cooked for him before, it will also make him think of you… and make him want, desire and need you more.
Good looks don’t keep a man
Yes, while men find good-looking women attractive, the fact is, looks wear off quickly if not complemented with other attractive attributes.
The truth is, a guy who falls in love with a girl or a woman just because the girl or the woman was good-looking will start getting wandering eyes after a while… and will start lusted after other more good-looking girls or women…
…this is especially true when the woman exhibits unattractive attributes, like being a horrible cook.
“When a man only wants to casually date or sleep around, he would usually select a woman based on her looks and looks alone. But, when it comes to selecting a potential mate, things change drastically. His concept of selection goes up several notches, and he becomes a lot more selective than normal. This is the exact phase when a woman’s value is the primary factor he looks for, and everything else becomes almost secondary,” says dating expert Alex Carter, author of How to Make Him Desire You.
So if you’re looking to land yourself a future partner or naturally attract a man, then hone your cooking skills… you will automatically appear to be a hundred times more attractive to a man.
Don’t be complacent, though
Sure, being able to cook great and delicious meals will make a man fall in love with you… but exhibiting unattractive behaviors will make him fall out of love with you.
The ability to cook great and delicious meals is not enough… you need to exhibit attractive behaviors if you want to keep a man.
If you are a great cook, but your behavior and mannerism are unattractive, it will push the man away from you.
The beauty of cooking great and delicious meals is that any man who’s looking for marriage or a life-partner will choose you over a woman who’s very good-looking but doesn’t possess the right cooking skill.
A guy wouldn’t care if you’re not a hottie… he will desire you and will want you to be the girl he will marry someday.
Maybe at first, the man will be interested in women with certain physical features, but once he picks up on your attractive attribute, he will be naturally attracted to you… and will want, desire and need you.
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