When it comes to women and dating, many guys think that they have to do things to impress a woman in order to have her feel attracted to them… so they resort to the traditional stereotype of dating – courting.
They do things like buying gifts for the woman, taking her to expensive dinners and generally trying to win the affection and approval of the woman with money.
They think that if they follow the ‘courting ritual’ they will wind up getting romantically or se*ually involved with the woman.
Well, this just isn’t so.
Unfortunately, courting a woman will NEVER cause her to feel an attraction for you. At best it can only make her feel a loyal kind of love… which makes intimacy a farfetched possibility.
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Courting is bad for attraction
If you’re courting a woman to seek her affection or courting her in the hopes that she feels an attraction for you, there’s a good chance that you will NEVER get romantically or se*ually involved with her.
Sure, it’s okay to take the woman you desire to expensive dinners and buy nice things for her…
…but if you’re doing them to seek her affection or se*ual favor, then you’re making a BIG mistake. (Hint: Save those for the woman you are already in a romantic relationship with.)
The fact is, when you meet a girl or a woman in a romantic context, she decides extremely quickly if you’re a potential lover, a potential friend, or just another guy who wants to seek se*ual favor by buying her things.
Now, when you do things to seek her affection, she WOULDN’T feel attracted to you enough to want to get romantically involved with you.
Not only because you’re acting WUSSY, but you’re not giving her what she wants… that FEELING of attraction. That is something you’re missing… something no amount of gifts, favors, and dinners can make up for. [Read: ‘Why Women Don’t Choose Men That Are Good for Them’ and ‘A Simple But Overlooked Tip that Builds Attraction with a Girl Quickly’]
Even if she sees you as a potential relationship material, intimacy will ONLY be a possibility when she doesn’t meet the kind of guy who can make her FEEL attraction.
Again, as I mentioned earlier, courting a woman makes her feel a loyal kind of love toward you… a loyal kind of love, in the sense that, she will only get intimate with you when she doesn’t meet the kind of guy who can make her FEEL attraction. In other words, ‘she had no choice’…
…but c’mon, really!
The solution and ultimate key to success with women
The solution is to stop courting a woman…
…and instead, have her feel se*ually attracted to you as quickly as possible.
How do you do this?
By stirring up se*ual feelings and having her feel a strong se*ual desire for you.
This causes her to see you as the kind of guy she would want to get romantically or se*ually involved with. [Discover How to Have a Woman Feel a Strong Se*ual Desire for You In The Shortest Possible Time]
Even if you want to befriend a woman before dating her, it’s important that you stop courting her… and start creating se*ual attraction. Click here to learn how.
Attraction for a woman is how you make her feel
If a woman feels se*ually attracted to you, she will be opened to a romantic relationship with you.
You see, the key to getting a woman or a girl romantically or se*ually involved with you is to have her feel a strong se*ual desire for you.
The key to having a woman see you as a potential lover is to get her to feel a se*ual attraction for you before she gets too comfortable being too much of a friend with you. [Read: ‘Why You Shouldn’t Be Friends with A Girl You Find Attractive’]
Again, if a woman feels se*ually attracted to you, she will be opened to a romantic relationship with you.
Understand: a woman will want to get into a long-term romantic relationship with a man she feels a se*ual attraction for. But she WON’T be as likely to get romantically involved with a man who is courting her.
When you focus on seeking the affections of a woman, you’re going to end up spending a lot of money, time and energy… and most likely wind up with nothing to show for it.
The key to having a woman see you as a potential lover is to as simple as this:
have her feel a strong se*ual desire for you, and get her to start thinking about s*x with you.
If you shift your focus from seeking the affections of a woman to actually having her seek yours, you’ll find yourself getting intimate with her with ease.
And don’t just hope to get intimate with her… be sure to make a move when she gives you noticeable signals to get intimate. Because when things are progressing well women don’t like to take responsibility to get intimate… they look to the man to make it happen. [Discover How to Have a Woman Feel a Strong Se*ual Desire for You In The Shortest Possible Time]
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