One of the amazing things you can do in the bedroom that will set you up as an amazing lover – the kind of lover a woman will rave about to her girlfriends, is knowing how to make a woman ejaculate.
Female ejaculation is a thrilling experience any woman can ever have… especially for the first time.
This is a sexual experience many women have NEVER had before in their lives…
…and the woman you give it to will get extremely fixated on you and will want sex from you all the time.
…in this article, I share with you how to make a woman ejaculate.
I share with you how to make a woman ejaculate using your fingers, a sex toy, and how to make a woman ejaculate with your penis during sexual intercourse.
Now, first things first
There’s a difference between Female Ejaculation and Squirting.
Female ejaculation is different from Squirting… they are not the same thing.
These terms are used interchangeably.
Female ejaculation is the thick white milky fluid that flows out the vagina during sex or self-stimulation, whereas Squirting or ‘Squirt’ is a clear fluid a woman gushes out her vagina during sex or self-stimulation.
Comparing the two, female ejaculation looks like milk, whereas, squirting looks like clear urine.
This article discusses how to make a woman ejaculate…
…if you want to learn how to make a woman squirt, then read it here: ‘How to Make a Woman Squirt’.
To watch a video demonstration of how to make a woman squirt and give her gushing squirting orgasms and mind-blowing sex, go here: ‘How to Make a Woman Squirt and Give Her Throbbing Squirting Orgasms and Orgasmic Bliss Like She’s Never Had Before’.
That being said…
…let’s get started on how to make a girl ejaculate.
How to Make a Woman Ejaculate – The Gist
To make a woman ejaculate, you must first get her extremely aroused – with both foreplay and oral sex (cunnilingus).
…then you subsequently stimulate her G-spot for an extended period of time and keep at it until she ejaculates.
The female G-spot is an erogenous zone inside the vagina – located on the top (or upper) side of the vagina wall about 1-2 inches or two knuckles past the vaginal opening. [Read: ‘The G-Spot Location’ and ‘Where to Find the Female G-Spot’]
Watch: A Video on How to Give a Woman a Squirting Orgasm
The G-spot is so close to the urethra… and rubbing it makes women feel like they’re going to urinate.
Here, a woman who hasn’t ejaculated before is likely to stop you from rubbing her G-spot further… to prevent herself from urinating for fear of peeing on you or making a mess.
If this should happen, assure the woman that it is normal for her to feel like she’s about to pee…
…tell her she is not going to pee but rather she is going to ejaculate and that she will love it.
Speaking of making a mess…
You should cover your bed or mattress with a waterproof bedsheet (or waterproof mattress protector cover) to protect it (the mattress) from fluid (the ejaculate) or to prevent the ejaculate from seeping into it.
…plus, have some towels at hand to soak up the ejaculate.
That being said…
…let’s get started on how to make a woman ejaculate.
You can make a woman ejaculate…
- with your fingers
- and with your penis during intercourse
You can also use a sex toy to make a woman ejaculate…
…but I highly recommend you make a woman ejaculate with your fingers or with your penis inside her.
You see, you want a woman to think you’re the only one that can make her ejaculate and give her an amazing sexual experience in the bedroom, and not a sex toy.
So, I will advise you NOT to use a toy when you’re looking to make a woman ejaculate. Or when you’re looking to give a woman an amazing time in bed for that matter.
With that said…
…let’s get started on how to make a woman ejaculate.
If you’re going to use your fingers…
…trim your fingernails very short and use an emery board to smooth the edges.
Jagged fingernails and hangnails can cause cuts inside a woman’s vagina and make the experience extremely unpleasant for her…
…so make sure your fingernails are neatly trimmed or cut very short before you start your sexual encounter.
Plus, wash your hands with soap and water to keep them clean.
…and have some lubricant on hand just in case.
A woman can derive great pleasure from a finger working its way inside her vaginal canal… and you don’t want to give her a bad experience.
Now, let’s begin… how to make a woman ejaculate step-by-step.
To make a woman ejaculate…
…you start out by getting her extremely aroused
You spend about 20 minutes on foreplay… kissing and caressing her body all over, including lightly caressing her genitals and inner thighs, and then proceeding to perform oral sex on her.
This makes the G-spot swell and becomes more prominent, making it easy to feel with the finger and rub… to make the woman ejaculate and ejaculate much more easily.
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Making a woman ejaculate is dependent on her getting extremely aroused.
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Now, once the woman is extremely aroused, you head for the G-spot and make her ejaculate.
But first, get her in a comfortable position if she isn’t already
…and the best comfortable position is to have the woman lie on her back on the bed or a flat surface such as the floor with a cushion beneath her… and with her legs spread.
…then you either kneel by her side or get between her legs and lie flat on your front.
You can stimulate the G-spot in any position you find yourselves in as long as you can reach it…
…but to find it easy to make a woman ejaculate with your fingers, you will want to adopt a position that won’t put too much strain on you.
…and the best position is to have the woman lie on her back with her legs spread.
Having a woman lying on her back on the bed or flat surface is the easiest way to have better access to her G-spot.
You can lubricate your hand with a lubricant if you want to
A woman should be dripping wet with her own juice after the heavy foreplay, but you will want to lubricate your hands before you insert your fingers into her vagina.
…not just the fingers you will be thrusting into her vagina, but lubricate your whole hand.
You will be applying quite a firm pressure to the vagina and you want the experience to be pleasurable to the woman.
When a woman is dry or not sufficiently wet down there, fingering her or stimulating her G-spot will be painful for her.
Now, after getting a woman extremely aroused with some heavy foreplay, and having her lie on her back…
…you gently insert a finger into her vagina about halfway in and feel for the G-spot
Again, the G-spot is located on the top side of the vagina wall about 1-2 inches or two knuckles past the vaginal opening.
With your palm facing up, you gently insert your middle or index finger or both fingers (the two fingers next to the thumb) into the woman’s vagina, about 1-2 inches or two knuckles past the vaginal opening…
Don’t try to stick too many fingers into a woman’s vagina at once… one finger is enough initially.
Next, with your finger inside the woman, you press the pad of your fingertip into the front (or upper) vaginal wall and feel around until you feel a small bump swollen out of the front wall of the vagina… that will be the G-spot.
The area around the G-spot will feel smooth, but the G-spot itself will feel puffy. When a woman gets aroused her G-spot swells.
You will get a distinct reaction from the woman when you start to rub it. [Read: ‘How to Find the Female G-Spot’]
The G-spot swells and become more prominent when a woman is extremely aroused… making it easy to feel with the finger and rub.
So, with your finger inside the woman and feeling the G-spot…
…you lightly and slowly rub it for about 30 minutes
You lightly and slowly rub the G-spot from side to side, in a circular motion, or in a backward and forward motion repeatedly for about 30 minutes.
You do this – rub the G-spot repeatedly for an extended period of time – to arouse the ‘ejaculation’ glands in her genitals to produce the ejaculate.
When it comes to making a woman ejaculate, it is the draw-out (rubbing the G-spot repeatedly for an extended period of time) that allows the build-up of fluid in her G-Spot… that ultimately leads to ejaculation.
When the G-spot is not filled with fluid (the ejaculate) or when the glands responsible for the fluid are not aroused enough to produce the fluid, a woman is only likely to orgasm if at all but she will not ejaculate.
Read: ‘How to Stimulate the Female G-Spot’ and ‘How to Finger a Woman to Orgasm’
A woman will be able to ejaculate when the fluid builds up in her G-Spot.
As you rub the woman’s G-spot…
…you simultaneously rub her clitoris with the thumb of your other hand
This will get her more aroused to make her ejaculate sooner.
You can even lean closer to her to suck her nipples.
Making a woman ejaculate is dependent on her getting extremely aroused.
You keep rubbing the G-spot… and the woman will ejaculate in no time.
So that’s how to make a woman ejaculate with your fingers.
Now, let’s look at how to make a woman ejaculate with a sex toy.
If you want to use a sex toy…
…get the one that is made solely for G-Spot stimulation. Or get the toy that is designed for both G-spot stimulation and clitoral stimulation.
…they have a curved tip and make stimulating the G-spot and making a woman ejaculate easy.
The ones that have a part meant for the clitoris stimulate the head of the clitoris to get a woman more aroused to make her ejaculate sooner.
[Note: The same fingering techniques you use to make a woman ejaculate can also be used to make her ejaculate when using a toy.]
You start out by getting the woman extremely aroused…
…spending about 20 minutes kissing and caressing her body all over, including, lightly caressing her genitals and inner thighs… then proceeding to perform oral sex on her.
Afterward, you get her in a comfortable position if she isn’t already.
…you have her lie on her back and spread her legs open… and then you either kneel by her side or get between her legs.
Next, you lubricate the tip of the toy and then insert it into her vagina about halfway in…
…pressing the tip of the toy against the upper vaginal wall – where the G-spot is – and then lightly and slowly rubbing the G-spot in a backward and forward motion.
You spend about 30 minutes rubbing the G-spot…
And while at it, you simultaneously rub her clitoris with the thumb of your free hand to get her more aroused.
You keep going and she will ejaculate.
(Note: Take care not to hurt the woman with too much pressure and your movements)
So that’s also how to make a woman ejaculate with a sex toy.
Toys can be a fantastic way to keep your sex life exciting and fun.
Now, on to how to make a woman ejaculate with your penis.
How to Make a Woman Ejaculate During Intercourse with Your Penis
As you know by now, the female G-spot is responsible for making a woman ejaculate…
…and we also know that the G-spot is located on the top side of the vagina wall about 1-2 inches or two knuckles past the vaginal opening.
…to make a woman ejaculate with your penis during intercourse or with your penis inside her, all you just have to do is to rub against the G-spot with your penis as you thrust in and out of the woman.
And this means you will have to adopt or use sex positions (or sexual postures) that will make it easier to rub against the front vaginal wall (where the G-spot is located) as you thrust in and out of the woman.
One fool-proof position to use is…
…having the woman lie on her back on the bed
Here, you put a pillow or a blanket under her butt to raise her hip.
Next, you either…
- pick up her legs and place them on your shoulders or place her feet on your chest
- or you can grab and hold her legs up or bring her knees up almost to her chest.
…then you penetrate her.
If you don’t have a pillow under her butt to elevate her hip, then you will have to resort to grabbing her thighs and holding her legs up as you thrust in and out of her.
You penetrate her and start fucking her slowly… rubbing against the front vaginal wall where the G-spot is.
You reach down to rub her clitoris with your finger to get her more aroused.
You keep going and you will have the woman ejaculating all over you.
Whichever position you use…
…when you penetrate a woman, angle your penis towards the G-Spot or the front vaginal wall, where the G-spot is located, and rub against it as you thrust in and out of her.
…the G-spot is only 1-2 inches on the front wall of the vagina… so your thrusts should be short.
This means, instead of thrusting in deep INTO the woman with your full manhood, thrust short – just with the tip of your penis, rubbing against the front vaginal wall where the G-Spot is.
You start slow rubbing against the G-spot for about 20 to 30 minutes to arouse the G-spot enough to produce the ejaculate.
As you thrust in and out of the woman, you reach down and simultaneously stimulate her clitoris with your finger to get her more aroused to get her to ejaculate sooner…
…and soon you’ll have her ejaculating.
…that’s how to make a woman ejaculate with your penis during sex.
Related Article: ‘How to Hit the G-Spot During Sex’
Rub the head of your penis against a woman’s G-spot as you thrust in and out of her and you will have her ejaculating all over you in no time.
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So, there you have it…
…how to make a woman ejaculate – with your fingers, a sex toy, and with your dick inside her.
To make a woman ejaculate, you must first get her extremely aroused – with both foreplay and oral sex…
…then you subsequently stimulate her G-spot for an extended period of time… and keep at it until she ejaculates.
So again, there you have it…
…how to make a woman ejaculate.
Read: ‘How to Give a Woman a Squirting Orgasm’
Don’t forget to also read: ‘Every Juicy Detail You Need to Know About Female Ejaculation’ and ‘Difference Between Discharge and Being Wet’
You may also want to read: ‘10 Things Women Want in Bed’ and ‘How to Please Your Woman in Bed’
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