If you want to satisfy a woman in bed, if you want to become the kind of lover women want in the bedroom, if you want to be the best lover you could be, if you want to make a woman yours forever, then know how to make a woman cum.
The ability to make a woman cum and sexually satisfy a woman in bed is one of the highest values a guy can have.
It is that important for a guy to be able to make a woman or his woman cum during sex…
If your woman is not cumming during sex, she will be disappointed.
If you can’t or you’re not making a woman cum during sex, then sex does her no good.
If you’re not getting a woman off during sex, you are not satisfying her in bed! And that’s that!
And if you keep depriving your woman of experiencing the joys of cumming during sex, she will start to resent you for not making her cum… and she won’t want to have sex with you again.
And worst, she will find someone else who can make her cum.
…in this article, I share with you how to make a woman cum.
Without further ado, let’s get started.
How to Make a Woman Cum
There are four ways you can make a woman cum…
- by sucking her breast… yes, women can cum just by sucking their breast – a ‘Breast Orgasm’
- by stimulating her clitoris – either with your fingers (masturbating her) or orally (performing oral sex on her), or having her grind her clitoris against your pelvis during sex
- by fingering her
- and by hitting the orgasm spot inside her vagina with your penis during penis-in-vagina sexual intercourse
Unlike us men or guys who only cum through penile stimulation, women can cum by several means – breast stimulation, clitoral stimulation, vaginal stimulation, and anal stimulation.
So, this is to say, penis-in-vagina sexual intercourse is not the only way to make a woman cum… not unless clitoral stimulation is added to the mix.
Or to put it in other words, you don’t have to rely on only thrusting in and out of a woman with your penis to make her cum… you can make a woman cum by other means that don’t involve the use of your penis.
…even though the best orgasm for women – that intense full-body orgasm that makes them shake uncontrollably – comes from penetration (penis-in-vagina sexual intercourse), you can make a woman cum by other means.
(Don’t worry… I show you how to make a woman cum from penetration later in this article.)
…let’s get started on how to make a woman cum.
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How to make a woman cum by stimulating her clitoris
For those of you who don’t know what the clitoris is and where it is, the clit is located just above the vaginal opening or hole. [Read: ‘Where to Find the Clitoris’]
It is usually covered by a small hood of skin – the clitoral hood. [Read: ‘How to Find the Clitoris’]
The clitoris is a powerful sexual organ (a powerful erogenous zone) whose sole purpose is to give sexual pleasure… and one that is guaranteed to bring women to orgasms when stimulated properly.
With that said…
Let’s get to it…
…how to make a woman cum by stimulating her clitoris
You start out by getting the woman sufficiently aroused.
…you spend about 20 minutes on foreplay… kissing and caressing the woman’s body all over, including lightly caressing her inner thighs.
Foreplay readies women’s bodies (that is, it gets them aroused) for sex and enables them to cum, including arousing the clitoris to prepare it for stimulation.
After you spend about 20 minutes kissing and caressing the woman’s body all over, you then turn your attention to her genitals (her pussy).
You can make a woman cum by stimulating her clitoris with your fingers or by performing oral sex on her.
I recommend performing oral sex on a woman to using your fingers to make her cum.
Not only is cunnilingus (the oral sex) sensual and exciting for women, but having a warm, soft, wet tongue lavishing their entire pussy feels incredibly good to them than a finger.
…a warm, soft, wet tongue can produce electric sensations on the clitoris in many ways that the fingers can’t. And when done properly, it makes women cum quickly and intensely.
This is how women enjoy clitoral stimulation… via oral sex.
So, instead of masturbating a woman (using your fingers) to make her cum, you will want to use your mouth and tongue.
But if the woman is not open to cunnilingus or is not comfortable with having your face between her legs – smelling her and all that, you know, then you can use your fingers (masturbate her) to make her cum.
A warm, soft, wet tongue can produce electric sensations on the clitoris and make a woman cum quickly and intensely.
Of course, it goes without saying…
…if you want to perform oral sex on a woman plus if you want a woman to be comfortable having your face between her legs, take a shower together.
You can say something like…
“Let’s hit the shower and get clean and then fuck our brains out… I want to lick your pussy and make you cum hard for me”.
A shower makes one feel fresh and clean… and this will help alleviate a woman’s worries or fear of exuding a bad odor down there – she won’t worry about having an unpleasant smell down there. And it will make her receptive and open to having your face between her legs.
You see, if a woman doesn’t feel fresh down there, she’s not going to be comfortable receiving oral sex.
Genital odor is the number source of anxiety for women when it comes to receiving cunnilingus.
Besides, having a woman take a shower also helps you to enjoy her light, natural scent without worrying about any unpleasant smell.
Read Related: How to Get a Woman to Give You Head
The shower is a great place to start a sexual encounter… plus, it helps us alleviate worries of body odors.
You can also use a sex toy to stimulate the clitoris to make a woman cum…
…but I highly recommend you make a woman cum with your mouth and tongue. Or at least with your fingers.
You see, you want a woman to think you’re the only one that can make her cum, and not a sex toy…
…so, I will advise you NOT to use a toy when you’re looking to make a woman cum. Or when you’re looking to give a woman an amazing time in bed for that matter.
…though toys can be a fantastic way to keep your sex life exciting and fun.
Now, let’s get started on how to make a woman cum by stimulating her clitoris.
How to Make a Woman Cum by Stimulating Her Clitoris
So, after you spend about 20 minutes kissing and caressing a woman’s body all over to get her aroused, you have her lie on her back on the bed.
…you then put a pillow under her butt to elevate her hip – this gives you better access to her pussy.
…and with her legs parted, you get between her legs and lie flat on your front (stomach).
You want to make sure the woman is in a comfortable position and you’re also.
You see, you’re going to spend quite a while down south, about 30 minutes… so you will want to make sure you’re both comfortable and relaxed.
You don’t want to be in a fancy position then later have to reposition yourself in the middle of performing cunnilingus… this can cause a woman to lose her orgasm when she’s on the brink of cumming.
So, for comfort, have the woman lie on her back on the bed and up toward the head of the bed with a pillow or two behind her neck and shoulders.
Now, as you lie flat on your front (stomach) between the woman’s legs.…
…you start to pleasure her genitals (pussy)
You start out by licking and kissing her inner thigh (the area from her knees to her groin) lightly for a minute or two… then you move on to her genitals.
…you slowly and lovingly lick and pleasure every inch of her pussy – the vaginal lips, the opening of the vagina, and around the clitoris. But don’t lick the clit just yet… we save it for last.
It’s a tendency to go for the clitoris right off the bat… but you’re going to have to avoid the clit at the beginning of the cunnilingus.
You will have to pleasure other parts of the pussy first, saving the clitoris or clitoral stimulation for last.
You see, the clitoris is extremely sensitive and some women cannot handle direct stimulation to their clitorises at the start of cunnilingus…
…so, as a standard rule, we lick and pleasure other parts of the pussy for several minutes to warm women up to direct clitoral stimulation or before focusing directly on the clit.
…you lovingly lick and pleasure every inch of a woman’s pussy, including licking the area surrounding the clitoris, particularly the edge of the fold of skin covering the clitoris – clitoral hood without making contact with the clit yet.
Don’t be in a rush to make the woman cum…
…lavish her pussy for about 30 minutes.
Take it long and slow, stimulate the pussy from top to bottom, and savor the act.
Drawing cunnilingus out builds-up women’s sexual excitement that subsequently leads to an intense orgasm.
While at it, you fondle her breast and nipples to increase her arousal to get her to cum sooner.
After lavishing the pussy for about 30 minutes, when you’re well into the cunnilingus, you can then directly lick the clitoris.
…you lick the clit in whatever way you want to – in circles, up and down, or side-to-side.
You keep fondling the woman’s breast and nipples.
…then when she starts to moan in delight and is rocking her hips or tilting her genitals up toward your mouth, you suck the clit into your mouth then you stimulate it with your tongue – as if you are drinking from a straw.
…you keep at it and she will cum in no time.
So that’s how to make a woman cum by performing oral sex on her.
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Also Read: 12 Hot Spots to Stimulate During Oral Sex
Oral sex, when performed correctly, is the quickest and the single best way to make a woman cum.
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Making a woman cum by having her grind her clitoris against your pelvis
Here, you start out by getting the woman sufficiently aroused as usual…
…you spend about 20 minutes on foreplay – kissing and caressing her body all over, including lightly caressing her genitals and inner thighs, and then proceeding to perform oral sex on her.
After you spend about 20 minutes kissing and caressing the woman’s body all over and performing oral sex on her (without making her cum from the oral sex), you start having sex.
You lie on your back then have the woman get on top of you – in the Woman-On-Top Sex Position…
…instead of her thrust up and down, you have her grind (rub) her clitoris or her clitoral area against your pelvis.
You allow her to dictate the pressure, speed, and rhythm applied against her clitoris to bring herself to orgasm.
Having a woman get on top of you during sex is the best sex position to make a woman cum during sex… in this position, it’s easy for the woman to rub her clitoris against your pelvis, which provides her with the clitoral friction she needs to cum.
As the woman grinds her genitals against your pelvis, you simultaneously fondle her breast or suck her nipples. This will get her very turned on to orgasm sooner. (Giving a woman pleasure in more than one spot gets her more aroused to get her to orgasm sooner).
If you’re going to adopt any other sex position…
…ask her to stimulate (rub) her clitoris as you thrust in and out of her vagina.
And there you have it…
…how to make a woman cum via clitoral stimulation during intercourse.
This orgasm is termed a clitoral orgasm – the orgasm that happens or come about as a result of clitoral stimulation.
This is the orgasm women who cum during sex are accustomed to.
Read More: 10 Interesting Facts about the Clitoris That’ll Make Your Hair Stand on End
Clitoral orgasm is the most commonly experienced type of orgasm… this is the way that most women cum.
Now, aside from making a woman cum via clitoral stimulation, you can also finger a woman to make her cum.
Let’s get to that too.
How to make a woman cum by fingering her
Before you finger a woman, make sure your fingernails are neatly trimmed or cut very short. Jagged fingernails and hangnails can cause cuts inside a woman’s vagina and make the experience extremely unpleasant for her.
Plus, wash your hands with soap and water to keep them clean.
To finger a woman to make her cum…
…you first get her sufficiently aroused with ample foreplay – you kiss and caress the woman’s body all over, including lightly caressing her inner thighs and genitals for about 20 minutes.
As always, foreplay is key to making a woman cum.
When women become sufficiently aroused, their erogenous zones including their genitals (their clitoris, the vaginal lips, vagina, and whatnot) become much more responsive… and they’re in for stronger orgasms when given the right stimulation.
Good foreplay readies women’s bodies for sex and enables them to cum sooner…
…and this is why it is essential that you spend time on foreplay – kissing and touching a woman all over – before moving into any kind of stimulation including having intercourse.
A woman needs to be really, really turned on beforehand… if not, it will take forever to make her cum.
As always, foreplay is key to making a woman cum.
So, after spending about 20 minutes on foreplay, you get her in a comfortable position if she isn’t already.
You have the woman lie on her back on the bed or a flat surface such as the floor with a cushion beneath her… and with her legs spread.
…then you either kneel by her side or get between her legs and lie flat on your front.
You can finger a woman in any position you find yourselves in as long as you can insert your finger into her vagina.
…but to find it easy to finger a woman to make her cum, you will want to adopt a position that will make things easy-peasy.
…and the best position is to have the woman lie on her back with her legs spread.
With the woman lying on her back and with her legs spread, you gently insert your middle or index finger into the vagina about halfway in.
You may need to have a lubricant at hand.
A woman should be dripping wet and her vagina should be lubricated after the heavy foreplay…
…but you may need to have a lubricant readily accessible when needed – vaginal lubrication will start to dry up and therefore you will have to lubricate your fingers.
When a woman isn’t sufficiently wet down there, fingering can be painful for her.
Now, with your finger halfway inside a woman’s vagina…
…you press the pad of your fingertip into the front vaginal wall and feel around until you feel a series of ridges or an area of flesh that is a bit rough or wrinkly.
There is an erogenous area on the top (upper) side of the vagina wall – we call it the G-spot. It’s about 1-2 inches or two knuckles past the vaginal opening. [Read: ‘The G-Spot Location’]
The area around the G-Spot feels smooth, but the G-spot itself feels rough or wrinkled.
Rubbing the G-spot gives women intense pleasure and consequently makes them cum when rubbed correctly. [Read: ‘Where to Find the Female G-Spot’ and ‘How to Find the Female G-Spot’]
…with your finger inside the vagina, you press the pad of your fingertip into the G-spot and rub it slowly in a circular motion.
Don’t try to stick too many fingers into a woman’s vagina at once… one finger is enough initially.
The G-spot is so close to the urethra… and rubbing it makes women feel like they’re going to urinate.
Here, a woman who isn’t used to G-spot stimulation is likely to stop you from rubbing her G-spot further… to prevent herself from urinating for fear of peeing on you or making a mess.
If this should happen, assure the woman that it is normal for her to feel like she’s about to pee…
…tell her she is not going to pee but rather she is going to experience a powerful orgasm when she pushes out.
So, with your finger inside the woman and feeling the G-spot…
You lightly and slowly rub the G-spot from side to side, in a circular motion, or in a backward and forward motion repeatedly.
As you rub the woman’s G-spot, you simultaneously rub her clitoris with the thumb of your other hand. This will get her very turned on to orgasm sooner. You can also fondle her breast, or even lean closer to her to suck her nipples.
As you rub the G-spot, you apply a little pressure to the G-spot and gradually increase the tempo.
And as a woman gets more and more into it, when the woman starts to moan in delight and rock or push her hips, and when you feel vaginal contractions, it means she is about to cum…
…you add a second finger provided you start with one finger, and you apply firm pressure to the G-spot and increase the tempo.
You finger the woman as fast as you can… and she will cum in no time.
I go into detail on how to finger a woman and how to stimulate the G-spot in another post, read them here: ‘How to Stimulate the Female G-Spot’ and ‘How to Finger a Woman to Orgasm’.
After a woman cums or squirts, you can slide your fingers back inside her vagina and keep fingering her until she orgasms or squirts again.
And there you have it…
…how to make a woman cum by fingering her.
This orgasm is termed a G-Spot Orgasm… it’s a vaginal Orgasm, and the feeling of this type of orgasm differs greatly from the clitoral orgasm – it’s a more intense orgasm than a clitoral orgasm.
Read Related: How to Give a Woman a G-Spot Orgasm
Properly stimulating the G-spot appears to trigger not only an orgasm but also makes women ejaculate (female ejaculation) as well as squirt and experience a powerful ‘squirting orgasm’ alongside.
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Now, aside from making a woman cum by clitoral stimulation and fingering, you can also make a woman cum during penis-in-vagina intercourse.
…that is, with your penis inside her.
Let’s get to that.
How to make a woman cum during intercourse – with your penis inside her
Now, when it comes to making a woman cum during penis-in-vagina intercourse, you first get her extremely aroused with foreplay as usual.
…then, all you have to do is rub against the front vaginal wall (where the G-spot is located) repeatedly with the head of your penis as you thrust in and out of her.
You start out slow rubbing against the G-spot or against the front vaginal wall…
…then you thrust faster as the sex progresses.
You give it to the woman hard and fast and you’ll have her cumming in no time.
…the erogenous zone inside the vagina, on the top side of the vagina wall, about 1-2 inches past the vaginal opening.
As I mentioned earlier, rubbing the G-spot gives women intense pleasure and consequently makes them cum when rubbed correctly.
The G-spot is only 1-2 inches on the front (or upper) wall of the vagina… so your thrusts should be shallow. This means, instead of penetrating deep INTO a woman with your full manhood and thrusting in and out of her, penetrate shallow – just with the tip of your penis, and rub against the front vaginal wall where the G-Spot is.
On the sex position to adopt to make a woman cum…
…you will have to adopt or use sex positions (or sexual postures) that will make it easier to rub against the front vaginal wall (where the G-spot is located) as you thrust in and out of the woman.
And one sex position is to…
…have the woman lie on her back on the bed
Here, you put a pillow or a blanket under her butt to raise her hip.
Next, you either…
- pick up her legs and place them on your shoulders or place her feet on your chest
- or you can grab and hold her legs up or bring her knees up almost to her chest.
…then you penetrate her. [Read about ‘The Missionary Sex Position’]
If you don’t have a pillow under her butt to elevate her hip, then you will have to resort to grabbing her thighs and holding her legs up as you thrust in and out of her.
You penetrate her and start fucking her slowly… rubbing against the front vaginal wall where the G-spot is.
…then you thrust as fast as you can as the sex progresses.
You keep going (thrusting in and out of her at a faster pace) and you will have the woman cumming in no time.
Another sex position you can adopt to make a woman cum is to…
…have her lie on her stomach on the bed
Have her put her legs together rather than apart…
…then you get behind her, with your knees on the OUTSIDE of hers.
You penetrate her slowly.
Once inside her, you lean forward towards her head – this puts the head of your penis directly on top of the G-Spot… and as you thrust in and out of her, you’ll be rubbing against the G-spot… and she will be cumming in no time.
Whichever position you use…
…when you penetrate a woman, angle your penis towards the G-Spot or the front vaginal wall, where the G-spot is located, and rub against it as you thrust in and out of her.
You start slow rubbing against the G-spot…
…then you thrust faster as the sex progresses.
And soon you’ll have the woman cumming in no time.
Read Related: ‘How to Hit the G-Spot During Sex’
…that’s how to make a woman cum with your penis during sex – penis-in-vagina intercourse.
This orgasm, as you may know by now, is termed a G-Spot Orgasm… it’s a vaginal orgasm or a penetration orgasm, and the feeling of this type of orgasm differs greatly from the clitoral orgasm – it’s a more intense orgasm than a clitoral orgasm.
Read Related: A Video on How to Make a Woman Squirt and Give Her a Squirting Orgasm
Women have the ability to experience more than one type of orgasm.
Do you ejaculate and orgasm too fast?
To make a woman cum with your penis inside her during intercourse, you will have to last longer in bed… and then thrust hard and fast rubbing or hitting her orgasmic spots.
In other words, you will have to have stamina and have a stronger erection to give it to a woman hard and fast.
This is because it takes a long time and hard and fast thrusts to give a woman a vaginal orgasm.
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As I mentioned earlier, the best orgasm for women – that intense full-body orgasm that makes them shake uncontrollably – comes from penetration.
…having a dick thrusting in and out of them, and then consequently cumming and shaking uncontrollably is an experience they never forget and remember for the rest of their lives.
If you want to make a woman cum with your penis inside her, you have to be able to thrust hard and fast rubbing against her G-spot or hitting her A-spot without finishing too quickly.
So, there you have it…
…how to make a woman cum.
Get a woman aroused first…
…then follow any of the different ways I’ve shared in this article to make a woman cum.
You can pleasure a woman’s breast to make her cum… you can perform oral sex on a woman to make her cum… you can finger a woman to make her cum… and during penis-in-vagina intercourse, you rub against her G-spot with the head of your penis and you will have a woman cumming in no time.
Read: ‘How to Please a Woman in Bed’
Don’t forget to also read: ‘10 Things Women Want in Bed’
You may also want to read: ‘You’re the Worst Lover Ever If You Do This When Having Sex’ and ‘5 Big Mistakes Men Make after They Come and the Sex Is Over’
So again, there you have it…
…how to make a woman cum.
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Frequently Asked Questions:
- Can Nipple Stimulation Cause Orgasm?
- Can Women Orgasm from Nipple Stimulation?
- Is Giving Oral Part of Foreplay?
- How Do You Find a Clit with Your Tongue?
- How Long for A Woman to Become Aroused?
- How Soon After Foreplay Will a Woman Want to Be Penetrated?
- How Do You Find the G-Spot?
- How Do You Stimulate the G-Spot?
- What is an A-Spot?
- Where Is the A-Spot Located?
- How Deep Is A-Spot?
- Do Women Also Have a Refractory Period?
For more questions and answers on foreplay, go here: Frequently Asked Questions on Foreplay.
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For more questions and answers on the G-spot, go here: Frequently Asked Questions on the G-Spot.
For more questions and answers on the A-spot, go here: Frequently Asked Questions on the A-Spot.
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