Every girl and woman wants to be loved and desired.
They want their man to WANT them and treat them special.
They want to feel like they are the only woman in the world for him.
It is your job to make the girl or the woman you desire to feel this way.
Your girlfriend, the girl or the woman you want to have a romantic relationship with, your crush… it is your job to make her feel special, loved and desired (wanted).
Getting a woman or a girl to fall deeply in love with you and want to be with you over the long haul is always about making her feel unique and special and loved and desired.
When you appreciate that a girl or a woman or your girlfriend is unique and you make her feel special, she is going to go out of her way to please you or return the favor.
That having been said, in this blog post, I share with you how to make a girl feel special or how to make your girlfriend feel special, loved and wanted…
…so without further ado, let’s get started.
How to Make a Girl or a Woman or Your Girlfriend Feel Special, Loved and Desired
Now, how do you make a girl feel special, loved and desired?
There’re several ways to go about this.
Start out by…
…listening to her talk about herself and her interests, and then show great excitement and interest in them (#1.)
This makes ANY girl or woman feel wanted.
To help you understand what I mean by this, I want you to imagine yourself with a girl right now…
I want you to imagine the girl or the woman showing an interest in what you’re telling her… especially when you’re telling her something of importance to you, or something you’re passionate about, like your passion, your work, and whatnot.
Now, she’s got you all happy and lively pouring out your feelings…
…how do you feel?
That’s how a girl will feel when you take an interest in what she tells you, and then most importantly, encourage her to tell you more.
Girls and women love to talk about themselves and what interests them… and they get emotionally excited when you let them and when you show interest and especially empathy.
And not only will they feel loved and wanted but they will feel a strong emotional attraction for you and will be emotionally attached to you. [Read: ‘How to Talk to Girls and Women’ and ‘How to Connect with Them On a Deep Emotional Level’]
Keep Reading: What Makes Girls and Women Feel Attraction for Men
…treat her like she is the only woman in the world for you (#2.)
What do I mean by this?
…don’t make her feel like you DON’T appreciate her.
When you’re out with your girl or your woman, DON’T be checking out other women.
No girl or woman wants to see his man straying and checking out another woman.
If you check out other women, you’re essentially saying to her she’s NOT unique and special.
A woman’s biggest turn-off is to have her man checking out another woman.
You have to have some self-control.
Show her you appreciate her, and that she’s unique and special… and make her feel like she’s the only girl or woman in the world for you.
Read More: How to Get a Girlfriend: Step-By-Step Guide
…playfully flirt with her (#3)
Yes, flirting is signaling interest on your part to another person, plus it’s intended to arouse sexual interest in the opposite sex…
…but ultimately, it makes a woman feel desired or wanted.
To a girl or a woman, flirting with her is exciting in a good way as long as you have a rapport with her or little sexual chemistry. [Discover: ‘How to Create a Sexual Attraction with Any Girl or Woman’]
So flirt and intimately touch her to get her excited.
Arouse her sexually – talk about the naughty things you’re going to do to her and playfully tease her when she says something suggestive. [Read: ‘How to Flirt with a Girl or a Woman’]
It should be playfully but with the intent to make her feel desired.
She’s going to love it and feel special and desired as long as you don’t treat other girls or women the same way – remember (#2).
…reassure her with words to make her feel special (#4.)
Moving from treating your woman like she is the only woman in the world for you, next is to reassure her.
Tell her things such as:
“I adore you”
“You’re the best”
“I was thinking about you”. Girls and women love this… they love it when you think about them.
A woman is reassured when she knows you appreciate her and regard her as the center of your universe…
…and thus, makes her feel special, loved and desired.
Also use sweet words like:
These are all little things to say to make her feel special or things to tell her to make her feel special.
Next on how to make your woman feel special or how to make your girlfriend feel special is to…
…notice the small details and genuinely compliment her on them (#5.)
Pay attention to details.
Girls and women don’t just put on a certain outfit or do their hair nicely by accident… they do them to be attractive and more specifically look attractive to you.
So here, when you notice that a girl or your girl is dressed very elegantly or wearing a nice or sexy outfit, compliment her on it.
- “I just have to tell you… you look stunning in that dress/outfit.”
- “You look great today.”
When she’s wearing a nice dress and it matches her shoes, compliment her on it.
- “I like your style. You have amazing fashion sense”
When she has her hair done nicely, tell her how nice it is.
- “Your hair looks amazing.”
Not only do girls and women love it when nice things are said about them, but this communicates to her you’re very attentive… which shows her that you consider her unique.
Genuinely compliment her, meaning, make sure your compliments are not fake or said to win her approval. Plus, don’t be complimenting her too much, else it will lose its effectiveness.
Next on how to make a girl or a woman feel wanted or how to make your girlfriend feel wanted is to…
…be attentive to her (#6)
In simple words, open doors for her and let her go in first.
When you’re getting into a cab, open the door for her.
When you’re getting into a building open the door for her.
At the restaurant or a similar locale, pull out her chair for her.
Act in a romantic way… and this is going to make her feel special, loved and desired.
But don’t overdo them… do them reasonably. You don’t want to seem as you’re trying too hard. For instance, open doors for her ONLY when you’re the one in front.
Make a girl or your woman feel special and wanted by being attentive and romantic to her.
Next on how to make a woman feel loved and cherished is to…
…show appreciation for the things she does for you (#7)
Related to the things to say to make a girl feel special or the things to make your girlfriend feel special (#2) is showing appreciation for the little things she does for you.
Let a girl or your girlfriend know you appreciate what she does.
When she pays for dinner, say thank you.
When she cooks for you, say thank you.
- “Thank you for cooking dinner for me. It was so good.”
Even when she cleans up after you, say thank you… they are simple words to make a girl or a woman feel special.
Whatever she does that deserves gratitude, don’t hesitate to show your appreciation.
Don’t say “you shouldn’t have”
That statement shows you didn’t appreciate what she did.
If you don’t show gratitude, not only do you convey to her that you’re unworthy of her nice gesture toward you but also you don’t appreciate what she does.
Whenever a girl or your woman does something nice for you, never belittle it or ignore it. Thank her for it… no matter how of little importance it may seem.
Here, not only will this make her fall in love with you, but she will want to continue doing more nice things for you.
…give her unexpected small gifts, like matching caps (#8)
Or you can leave a piece of chocolate on her desk.
Gifts like this say…
“I was thinking about you”
“You mean a lot to me”
Again, as I mentioned earlier, girls and women love it when you think about them.
If you’re in a long-term relationship, then you can get her something a little more expensive, like a diamond. Such a gift says to her “I have these feelings for you, and this gift is a symbol for them.”
Similar to giving her gifts is to…
…give her occasional romance (#9.)
This is also how to make a girl or woman feel loved and appreciated or make your girlfriend feel loved and appreciated.
It shows her you value her.
There are several ways to go about giving a girl or a woman occasional romance.
Start out by cooking a romantic dinner for her
Learn to cook a few good meals and treat the girl or your woman to a home-cooked romantic dinner.
And it shows that you cherish and desire her. [Read: ‘How to Get a Girl or a Woman to Come Over to Your Place’]
Instead of taking a girl or a woman out on a romantic date, cook her dinner…
…this’s more romantic, and will make her feel special, loved, and desired. [Read: ‘Forget Expensive Dinners: Do Just This One Thing and Make a Woman Feel Attraction for You’]
…like her birthday, the day you met, the first day you kissed and whatnot.
Do something special for her on these days to also make her feel special, loved and wanted.
You can buy her flowers.
Go on surprise dinner outings.
Or surprise her with a home-cooked meal, as mentioned earlier.
Don’t forget Valentine’s day
…the perfect time to give your woman romance.
There are several ways to give your woman romance and tons of little special things to do for your girlfriend to make her feel special…
…use your imagination.
Women crave romance the same way we men crave sex.
It communicates that she’s the center of your universe… and thus makes her feel special, loved and desired.
Be her prince once in a while and give the romance she so desperately craves.
Here’s a secret tip:
Ever wondered why girls and women are into romance novels? Because they are almost always romance-starved.)
If you act romantic in a way, not only do you make her feel special, loved and desired, but you push her attraction and love buttons.
If she’s a girl you’ve just met or looking to get into a romantic relationship with, skip this one. Because being overly romantic can lead to being taken for granted as a needy wuss. [Read: ‘The First Mistake to Avoid When You Decide to Date a Woman’]
Read Also: Should You Take a Woman Out to Dinner?
The next tip using a simple text message… text to make a girl or text to make your girlfriend feel special.
#10. How to make your girlfriend feel special with texts
Make her feel wanted with a text message… send her a text to make her feel special.
Remind her of the fun and memorable times you’ve had or experienced together.
- “Hey Jane, I’m just sitting here looking at the ocean and smiling thinking about the time you tried to teach me to surf. I’ll love to try that again someday.”
This will put a smile on her face and tell her you are thinking about her…
…and that you are remembering the fun times with her.
Another example text message to make her feel special:
- “Hey, I’m watching this new Star Wars movie and I remember how I jumped and dumped my drink on you when we saw the first one… you were so funny and nice about it. We never did see the rest of it!”
A text message like this will tell her you cherish her… which will make her feel special and wanted.
Again, girls and women love it when you think about them.
So that’s also how to make a girl feel special through text messages.
Little ways to make her feel special
Other little ways to make a girl or a woman or make your girl feel special, loved and desired (wanted) is to:
- Directly tell her how special she is to you
- Gently brush the back of your hand against her cheek whenever possible for no reason and strongly gaze into her eyes… here, she’s going to feel desired and melt into your arms.
- Pinch her cheeks and tell her how adorable and cute she is
- Hold hands interlocking fingers with hers. [Read: ‘How to Touch a Girl or a Woman for The First Time and Afterward’]
- Cuddle her whenever you get the chance
- Give her a nice body massage. You ought to learn how to give a body massage… you’ll thank me later.
So there you have it… how to make a woman feel desired or how to make her feel loved and special.
When you’re with a girl or a woman you desire, let her feel good about herself and being with you…
…let her feel special, loved, wanted, and like she’s the only woman in the world for you and the most beautiful woman there is.
When you treat her this way, she will fall deeply in love with you and wouldn’t want to lose you… she’s going to go out of her way to please you to keep you. [Read Again: ‘What Makes Women Fell Attraction for Men’]
I hope this blog post has given you deep insight into how to make a woman feel loved and wanted, how to make her feel special with words and how to make her feel special through text.
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