This article teaches you how to make a girl want you. You will discover a simple trick that makes any girl or woman clamor for your attention.
As you’ve been influenced by society and movies that you should buy a girl a drink to get her to talk to you. Or when you meet women, compliment them on their looks and clothing to get them to like you.
But do these actions get the girl or woman to fall head over heels for you?
Does this really make girls want you?
…it will rather repel them.
So, how do you get a girl or a woman to want you?
How do you get girls and women to be the ones buying you drinks and telling you how cute your smile is, and afterward clamoring for your attention?
Read on to find out.
How girls’ everyday life is like
The average girl has been approached more times than you’ve had breakfast.
And she has probably heard every pick-up line that’s out there.
Now, when you approach a girl or a woman, she instinctively knows you are attracted to her.
She knows when a guy is trying to hit on her… and when you make that obvious, she naturally rejects you. [Read the top reasons why women reject men]
It is for this reason why most girls and women seem unfriendly when you approach them…
…because your body language and demeanor telegraph your intentions.
Using cheesy pick-up lines…
“Wow, you’re very pretty… I bet you were sent from above”
…puts her on her guard because she knows what you want before you even say it.
Offering to buy her a drink…
“Hello… may I buy you a drink?”
…gives her the upper hand because she knows you are desperate and you are seeking her approval.
Even though such approaches might work in some situations, where the girl is looking to mingle… it is NOT the best way to approach a girl, neither is it the best way to get a girl to like you.
It doesn’t work in ALL situations.
Telegraphing Interest is not a good thing to do when you are approaching a girl or a woman for the first time.
Now, we know how girls and women think when a guy approaches them with a cheesy pick-up line…
…so how do you get past their defences?
How do you make a girl or a woman receptive to talking to you?
And most especially… how do you make a girl or a woman want you?
That’s exactly what I share in this article – how to make a girl or a woman want you.
Let’s get started.
How to make a girl want you so bad
So, how do you get a girl or a woman to want you so bad?
…act disinterested when you meet her for the first time… and then afterward, get her to want you or make her fall for you with your attractive personality traits and mannerism.
Sure, she is the gorgeous girl you’ve ever seen… but don’t let her know you desperately want her, especially at the early stages.
Instead of showering her with compliments and buying her drinks to seek her approval, do none of that…
…instead, act as if you’re not interested in her yet exhibiting attractive traits to get her to feel attracted to you.
Yes… this is absurd.
Of course, you want to let the girl know you’re interested in her so that she will reciprocate…
…but this trick sure gets girls to want you so bad.
Especially, if you exhibit attractive personality traits. [Read the personality traits women find most attractive in a guy]
But again, telegraphing your intentions early on gives a girl or a woman the upper hand.
And to quote dating expert, Joseph Matthews, “Any sign of interest early on will make your seduction down the road harder than it needs to be because it raises the girl’s value and her power in the interaction you’ll be having with her.”
But that’s not all… really getting a girl to want you
…or how to make her want you badly.
As you pretend you’re not interested in a girl or a woman, also demonstrate traits women find attractive in a guy (what girls like in a guy).
- Demonstrate high-status.
- Demonstrate confidence.
- Tell great stories that will stir up her emotions and feelings.
- Demonstrate humor, including giving her a nickname and playfully teasing her.
- Demonstrate that you have standards and you don’t settle for anything less.
- Build rapport with her.
- Demonstrate that you have a fun and interest life. (Don’t go bragging about your tour to Brazil and the cruise to Mexico. Instead, make it known in passing.)
- Engage her in an exciting conversation and connect with her on an emotional level. [Read how to talk to a girl]
That’s how to attract girls or make women want you.
As you pretend you’re not interested in a girl or a woman, also demonstrate traits they find attractive in a guy.
It sets you apart from other guys who approach her
When the average guy approaches an attractive girl, he’s always transparent with his interest.
He compliments her excessively, buys her drinks, and put her up on a pedestal.
In fact, he does things to please the girl so that the girl in return likes him.
But, this communicates to the girl that he’s desperate and weak.
It’s not a bad thing to do nice things for the girl or the woman you like… but it’s ONLY bad when you do them at the early stage of meeting her…
…especially to seek her approval.
She can easily manipulate you.
During your initial approach, she might suspect that you want something from her. But when you pretend you’re not interested in her whilst sending her mixed signals, it turns the tables and makes her want you more.
Because here, you stand out… and your attitude and mannerism make any girl want you almost instantly.
You’re demonstrating to her you are not like the other guys who approach her and bows to her every need.
You’re demonstrating to her you are different… and if she needs any flattering whatsoever, she has to be the one to prove herself to you.
Now, what’s the psychology behind this
It is believed that women appreciate something more if it is easy to lose. And they will work harder to keep it.
Seriously… you are everything she wants in a guy.
You’re a funny, high-status guy, a confident guy…
…you have a lot going on in your life.
You’re an attractive guy (and I’m not talking about your looks). [Read ‘How to Be Attractive to Girls or Woman’ and ‘How to Get Girls When You Don’t Have the Male-Model Good Looks’]
She’s also pretty, but you’re not showing signs of interest… you seem hard to get.
She suspects you’re interested in her, but not quite sure if truly you’re interested in her.
So as you’re pretending you’re not interested in a girl, yet exhibiting attractive personality traits to make her feel attracted to you, you’re also causing disturbing feelings within her to make her want you badly.
And as the saying goes, “people tend to want what they can’t have”.
So again, this is how to make a woman want you badly and clamor for your attention… play hard to get. [Read how to play hard to get with a girl]
Women appreciate something more if it is easy to lose… And they will work hard to keep it.
Conclusion: How to make a girl want you so bad
Let’s recap… how to make a girl want you so bad.
Act as if you’re not interested in the girl when you approach her for the first time. But exhibit attractive personality traits that will make her feel attracted to you.
Indeed, this will cause the girl to find you attractive, and consequently feel attracted to you.
So make sure you are not showing any sign of interests when you meet a girl for the first time.
- Try not to compliment her at all.
- Don’t try to impress her. [Read how to impress a girl]
- If she seems unwelcoming, such as giving you one-word responses or the cold shoulder, say something like, “It’s nice to meet you”, then LEAVE. Either she’ll stop you or will come and find you later.
- Talk to other women.
- Flirt with other girls around. [Read how to flirt with a girl]
- Don’t bow to her needs.
By demonstrating the above mannerisms in your approach or conversation with a girl or a woman you desire, you are communicating to her you are not trying to hit on her.
So there you have it – how to make a girl want you so bad.
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