How do you make a girl fall for you?
We all crave success with women.
We all fantasize about having a woman feel a strong attraction for us.
We dream of having a beautiful girl coming up to us, already attracted.
If you’re reading this article, then I assume you want to meet a girl and get her to fall in love with you… or get your crush to fall for you.
Well, you’re in luck.
In this article, I share with you how to make a girl fall in love with you.
(Before going further, check out my e-book Sexual Attraction, where I teach you a proven strategy that will make any girl or woman feel a strong attraction for you.)
Without further ado, let’s get started.
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How to make a girl or a woman fall in love with you
Know that girls and women are very emotional people…
…and in order to make a girl or a woman fall in love with you, you will have to give her an emotionally fulfilling experience.
When you can give a girl an emotionally fulfilling experience, she’ll insanely fall in love with you… because she will love how she feels when she’s with you.
Now, how do you really do this?
- be different
- have an emotional connection with her
- give her a good time
- make her feel special, loved and wanted
When you’re different from other guys plus you connect with a girl on an emotional level and you give her a good time and make her feel special and wanted, she’s going to fall in love with you.
She is going to latch on to you and will want to be with you all the time.
Let’s go into detail.
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(#1) First off, don’t be like most guys
To get a girl to fall for you or to make a girl fall for you right off the bat, you shouldn’t be like the guys she’s used to dealing with.
What do I mean by this?
When the typical guy sees or meets a girl that he finds attractive, he does all sort of things to impress the girl in the hopes that the girl will fall in love with him.
The most prominent ones are when he shows off and brags… especially when he brags about how much money he makes, the kind of car he drives and whatnot.
The mistake here is that he has nothing spectacular to offer the girl, and thus, he ends up driving her into the arms of another guy (hopefully you). [Read: ‘9 Of The Top Reasons Why Women Reject Men’]
Don’t be like the typical guy…
Start by being indifferent to her, yet interesting.
Indifferent, meaning that don’t give the girl or the woman the impression that you’re interested in her.
Sure, you might feel a strong attraction for her… but don’t telegraph your interest initially. Find the strength to be cool and calm and a little detached…
…and be interesting while at it. (the subsequent sections show you how)
With this, you’re going to catch her interest and attention… and she will start to feel a little attracted to you, and consequently, fall in love with you. [Read: ‘This Absurd But Proven Tactic Makes Any Girl Want You So Bad’]
So that’s the first tip and the first step on how to make a lady fall in love with you or how to get a crush to fall for you.
The next tip on making a girl or a woman fall in love with you or how to get your crush fall in love with you is to…
…have an emotional connection with her (Tip #2)
In other words, connect with her on an emotional level.
What does this mean?
It means to have her feel like she clicks with you and that you are alike and have so much in common… where she can trust you and share her innermost feelings and her life with you.
Now, how do you go about this?
Genuinely take an interest in her life when talking to her or when having a conversation with her.
Find out the topics and issues that interest her (the stories and issues she finds fascinating), her ambitions, passion, and whatnot… and then EXPLOIT them.
Exploit them, meaning, let her interests be your interests and be excited by the things she’s excited by.
So take an interest in what she likes, what she hates, what turns her on, what excites her, what she’s passionate about, what she’s feeling, how she’s feeling, how her day went, etc.
In short, be curious about who she is and what she’s about.
Here’s when the emotional connection begins, and thus, makes her fall in love with you. [Read: ‘How to Connect with a Girl or a Woman on a Deep Emotional Level’]
A girl wants a guy who will love her for who she is and not just for her looks or to get into her pants.
Hint: Girls love to talk about themselves…
…so focus your conversations on her and get her talking about herself.
You can start by asking her how her day went, or what’s new in her life, and whatnot. If she’s a girl you’ve just met, ask her questions like, what she majors or she majored in college, the work she does, her passion… then go from there.
If you find out that she’s interested in arts, talk about it.
Allow her to be a little selfish talking about herself… revealing details about her life to you.
But don’t let her do all the talking, though… contribute to the conversation by relating to what she says and share similar experiences.
If she says something that you can relate, jump in and talk about your experience. If she once lived in a city you’ve lived in too, talk about your experiences there.
Here’s a secret tip:
When you notice that a girl is talking about something with passion, know that it is such an important part of her life. Here, take an interest and encourage her to talk more about it.
Say something like…
- “Tell me more”
- “Really! How?”
- “So what happened?”
Now, that’s how to get any girl to fall for you just by how you talk to her.
The simple act of taking an interest in a girl’s life goes a long a way to making her fall in love with you
Next, make her feel she’s been heard
Demonstrate empathy… give her the attention she needs and demonstrate that you understand her:
- “I see what you mean. You must have felt very sad?”
Girls and women want to be heard and listened to… they want us to understand them. You don’t need to agree with a girl or a woman… you just need to understand her.
The simple act of listening to a girl pour out her interests and feelings and emotions, and demonstrating empathy will make her feel comfortable around you enough to talk to you just about anything, and consequently, make her fall in love with you.
A girl will fall for you when she thinks you listen to her and understands her.
Girls and women are in love with the thought of someone understanding them.
So again, that’s how to make a girl or how to make a woman fall in love with you just by how you talk to her.
Next tip on how to get your crush to fall for you – as you connect with her on an emotional level…
…give her a good time (an exciting and interesting time) (Tip #3)
Girls want to have fun and enjoy life… they want to have a good time.
When you give a girl a fun experience and a good time, you stand out from other guys… in an attractive way. And thus, makes her fall in love with you.
Now, how do you make a girl have a good time with you?
Take her out and engage in fun and interesting activities.
Take her to different places and engage in different activities. Do something memorable and fun and maximize the time you spend together.
You can go to the mall and window shop for a bit and explore different sections of the mall. You can attend a fair, music events, plays.
If she’s into art, visit the art gallery.
If you have a hobby or you engage in something exciting like kayaking, ask her to join you.
If you have beaches in your area, go there and have some fun. [Read: ‘A Simple But Overlooked Tip that Builds Attraction with a Girl Quickly’]
Now, this is something she’s probably never experienced with any other guy before. And this is how to make her fall in love with you again by standing out… and she will want to get together with you over and over again.
When you give a girl an exciting and interesting time, she will want to do it again with you. She will become emotionally attached to you and will want to hang out with you all the time.
Don’t do too many things at once, like going to 10 events in a short time, or you might come across as you’re trying too hard to impress her.
You don’t even have to travel from place to place… you can have a good time at different parts of the same location, for instance, the mall. Again, use your imagination.
Plus, you don’t have to spend lots of money to have fun.
Don’t spend so much to show off.
If you try to impress an intelligent clever girl with how much money you have, you’re going to be like the rest of the guys she’s met.
Again, be different and make her love you (Tip #1). [Read: ‘How to Impress a Girl and Make Her Feel Naturally Attracted to You’]
The next tip on how to make a girl fall for you again is to…
…make her feel special, loved, and wanted (Tip #4)
It’s every girl’s desire to feel special, loved and wanted… and they love it when a man makes them feel this way.
They want ‘their’ man to do nice, sweet and thoughtful things for them…
…be that man.
When you make a girl feel special, loved and wanted, you will be pushing her attraction buttons, and gradually, make her fall for you.
She will feel you appreciate her, and this is going to make her feel good about herself.
Here, if she’s already in love with you by practicing what I’ve shared previously, then she’s going to love you even more… that is, how to make her fall deeply in love with you.
There’re several ways to go about this.
You can start by…
…noticing the small details and genuinely complimenting her on them
Girls and women don’t just put on a certain outfit or nicely do their hair by accident…
…they do them to look attractive (for you).
So if your girl is wearing a nice or sexy outfit, compliment her on it.
- “I just have to tell you… you look stunning in that outfit.”
- “I like your style.”
If her hair is done nicely, compliment her on it.
- “Your hair looks amazing.”
Not only do girls and women love it when nice things are said about them, but they are very impressed when a guy notices things that most men overlook…
…and as a result, they gradually fall for such a man.
- “You look great today.”
Make sure your compliments are genuine. Plus, don’t be complimenting her too much.
Women are very impressed and fall in love with men that notice things other men overlook.
Next on the list of making a girl or a woman feel special, loved and wanted is to…
…be attentive to her
In simple words, open doors for her and let her go in first.
When you’re getting into a cab, open the door for her. When you’re getting into a building (not her place) open the door for her.
When you go to a restaurant or a similar locale, pull out her chair for her.
Act in a romantic way and make her feel special and wanted.
But don’t overdo them… do them reasonably. You don’t want to seem as you’re trying to win her approval and affection. For instance, open doors for her ONLY when you’re the one in front. If you’re behind her and you step ahead to open doors, you will create a bad impression.
Girls and women love it when a man makes them feel special, loved and wanted
Next on making a girl feel special, loved and wanted
Cook a great meal for her
This is something she’s never experienced with any other guy before.
Women love it.
…and again, it’s definitely something she’s never experienced with any other guy before.
Here, you’re going to display an attractive and desirable quality and ability, and thus makes her fall in love with you. [Read: ‘How to Get a Woman to Come Over to Your Place’]
Cooking a great delicious meal for a girl or a woman is more romantic than a traditional date… and any girl or woman you treat to this will love you for it.
The last on my list in making a girl or a woman feel special, loved, and wanted is to…
…show appreciation for the things she does for you
Let a girl know you appreciate what she does.
When she pays for dinner, say thank you.
When she cooks for you, say thank you.
- “Thank you for cooking dinner for me. It was so good.”
Whatever she does that deserves gratitude, don’t hesitate to show your appreciation.
Here, not only will this make her fall in love with you, but she will want to continue to do more nice things for you.
Other ways to make a girl or a woman fall in love with you
Other tips on how to make a girl fall for you is to demonstrate manly qualities… this includes:
So there you have it… how to let your crush fall in love with you (or how to make your crush fall for you fast).
If you’re looking to make any girl or woman fall for you, give her an emotionally fulfilling experience…
…start by being different from the guys she’s used to dealing with. Next, connect with her on an emotional level by taking a genuine interest in her life and make her feel she’s been heard. While at it, give her a good time by taking her out and engaging in fun and interesting activities. And when all is said and done, make her feel special, loved, and wanted by being attentive to her, genuinely complimenting her on the little things, showing appreciation, and even cooking for her.
There’re other ways to make a girl or a woman fall in love with you that I’ve not mentioned or I’ve overlooked.
I hope this article has given you deep insight into how attraction works for girls and women and how to make a woman love you more or how to make any girl fall for you.
Put what you’ve learned here into action and make any girl for you.
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