How do you get a girl’s phone number?
You just ask her for it, right?
But before you do…
…make her like you
You see, girls are reluctant to give their contact information to guys they barely know and are uncertain about.
Besides, they have the notion that we guys approach them and ask for their mobile numbers to get them into bed… and hence, this makes them decline to give it out.
So before you ask a girl for her phone number or contact information, you’ve got to make her like you to make her want to give you her number.
If she doesn’t feel a positive liking toward you, she won’t give you her mobile number.
Plus, when you ask a girl for her number right off the bat, there’s a high chance that you will get a fake.
Sure, with a girl with low self-esteem, you can approach her whichever way and say whatever you like and you will still get her real phone number…
…but it’s best to have a girl feel a positive liking toward you before you ask her for her number.
So again, before you ask a girl for her phone or mobile number, make her like you.
You accomplish this by…
Talk for a while – ask her deep questions about herself – giving her the impression you’re genuinely interested in who she is and what she’s about, and not trying to get into her pants. [Read: ‘How to Talk to Girls’ and ‘Questions to Ask a Girl’]
By making her like you, and even having her feel a little attracted to you, she will give you her phone number immediately after you ask for it. [Read: ‘How to Get a Girl to Like You’ and ‘How to Impress a Girl and Make Her Feel Naturally Attracted to You’]
Strive to hit it off with her to make her want to talk to you and see you again. Because a girl who feels she likes you and trusts you will be willing to give you her contact information. [Read: ‘How to Connect with a Girl or a Woman on a Deep Emotional Level’]
The most important thing in asking for a girl’s phone number is not in the asking itself. It’s what you do BEFORE you ask for her number.
Now, when all is said and done…
…ask her for her phone number
Don’t give her your phone number and then ask her to call you.
- “Here’s my number, call me…” or “Let me give you my number…”
She’s likely never going to call you.
You should be the one to ask for her phone number instead.
The fact is, when it comes to dealing with girls, they look to guys to be the first to act or make the first move.
So be the one to ask for her phone number.
This is what you do:
After talking for a while, tell her you have to leave and will love to continue the conversation at a later date or will like to hang out with her some other time.
Say something like:
- “Well, Kate, it was nice talking to you… but I’ve got to get going. You know, we might like to continue this some other time. Let me have your phone number and we will talk again.”
- “Well, Kate, I really enjoyed hanging out with you, and I’d love to do it again. Let’s get together some other time. Let me have your phone number.”
…then hand her your phone and have her type her number in. Call her number or WhatsApp her immediately to have her save your number too.
Be proactive and take the lead with girls.
Using an event as a reason to get a girl’s phone number
If you want her to join you in doing something fun and exciting or you plan on going to an event together or doing something together, use it as a reason to have her phone number.
- “Hey, I’m going to this art festival/a concert/funfair… come with me/I want you to come with me, it will be fun. Let me have your phone number, I will call you and we will meet.”
- “Hey, we should go to the party/concert together. Let me have your phone number, I will call you and we will meet.”
…then hand her your phone and have her type her number in. [Read: ‘A Simple But Overlooked Tip that Builds Attraction with a Girl Quickly’]
Demonstrate dominance here.
If you want to have a girl see you differently from the guys she encounters and raise her interest level, you need to demonstrate dominance from the start.
Don’t necessarily ask for her phone number, instead tell her to give you her phone number.
- “Can I have your phone number?”
- “Let me have your phone number”
It may seem insignificant, but it goes a long way to add to your attractiveness.
You see, girls are intuitively and intrinsically attracted to guys (or men) of superior value (dominant men). So when you demonstrate dominance – not afraid to show a girl what you want – she will willingly give in to you.
So that’s how to get any girl’s phone number.
When it comes to dealing with girls, they look to guys to make the first move.
So there you have it…
…how to get a girl’s phone number, and most especially, how to ask a girl for her phone number.
Start out by making her like you – talking about yourselves, sharing your life experiences and having some good laughs.
Then after you talk for a while, you tell her you have to leave and that you will love to continue the conversation at a later date or will like to hang out with her some other time, then tell her to give you her phone number so you will be in contact with her.
So again… how to get girls’ mobile number.
I hope this article has given you an insight into how to get a girl’s phone number or precisely how to get a girl to give you her number without hesitating.
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