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How to Get a Girl: A 4-Step Approach to Making Any Girl Want to Be in A Relationship with You


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Do you want to have girls WILLINGLY give you sex without even trying?

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How do you get a girl?

…how do you make a girl want to be in an intimate or romantic relationship with you?

It’s simple really…

…you have to primarily do 4 things or follow 4 simple steps:

  1. spark the girl’s interest
  2. hit it off with her on an emotional level
  3. give her a great time
  4. then make a move at the opportune time – yes, this final step lets a girl know you’re not looking to be just friends with her but that you have a romantic interest in her.

Let’s go into detail.

And before we do, I will assume you already know how to meet and approach a girl…

…if not, then read: ‘How to Meet Girls’ and ‘How to Approach a Girl’.

You might also want to read: ‘Places to Meet Single Girls’ and ‘The Best Way to Approach a Girl’.

And Before You Approach a Girl, Read This…

Also read: ‘When You Meet and Approach a Girl for The First Time’ and ‘How to Start a Conversation with a Girl’.

Now, to the steps on how to get a girl.

To get a girl, first…

…spark her interest

And you accomplish this by looking good and smelling incredibly nice.

This is key to getting a girl.

This makes you attractive and makes a girl responsive and receptive to you… to pick your calls, respond to your messages, and willingly want to hang out with you and go out with you.

This will give you the opportunity to win a girl’s heart and successfully get a girl.

You see, if a girl sees that you’re looking all messy and smelling bad, she won’t like you enough to want to hang out with you. Not to mention be your girl or girlfriend.

So this is the first step to getting a girl.

Start by getting yourself a nice haircut.

If you have an unkempt beard or mustache, think about trimming them.

Next, wear or get yourself some simple and nice clothes and footwear. Get clothes that fit, not those that look super baggy. This will make you look sexy.

Don’t try too hard to look cool… plus, you don’t have to spend so much money on clothes and shoes to look attractive. Just go simple.

Now, the most important factor…

…your scent

Bathe or shower at least once a day – no, twice a day – to stay clean and fresh. And use a good deodorant.

Put on a nice perfume. Get a perfume that lasts for hours. Here, don’t overdo it… no perfume is better than a lot of perfume.

Next…

…since you will be in close physical proximity to a girl to talk to her, you will want to make sure you don’t hit her with foul breath.

You see, you don’t want to repel a girl and ruin your chances of getting her.

Both bad body odor and foul breath are a major turn-off for not only girls but all people.

There is nothing more unattractive to girls than having to tolerate unpleasant odors… most especially, foul breath. Yikes!

That said…

…make sure that your breath is great.

Brush your teeth and scrub your tongue. Do this at least twice a day. And use mouthwash.

And always carry breath mints with you.

If you have to shave your armpits, do it… to reduce foul odor.

Still on the subject of being in close physical proximity to a girl…

…make sure you don’t have an unsightly nose and ear hair sticking out. It’s an instant turnoff. So trim your nose and ear hairs.

Now, understand…

Looking good and smelling nice gives you the advantage over other guys.

You see, you’ll not be the only guy who will be pursuing a particular girl.

…there will be other guys – your competition.

So you will have to be desirable to spark a girl’s interest… and there’s no better way to be desirable that than to look good and smell nice. So that your target girl will want to hang out with you often. And you use that opportunity to get her.

Hint:

Always look your best and smell nice – not only when you’re with a girl…

…get yourself looking the best you can whenever you’re going out in public because you just never know when you will meet the girl that you will like.)

Read More: How to Get a Girl to Like You

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Looking good and smelling incredibly nice puts you ahead of your fellow man.

Keep Reading: How to Get a Girlfriend: Step-By-Step Guide

Now, as you get a girl’s interest and affection, the next step is to…

…hit it off with her on an emotional level

It’s that simple.

All you have to do is talk about yourselves.

…talk about your daily experiences and share ideas and some laughs. [Read: ‘How to Make a Girl Laugh’]

The secret here is to take a genuine interest in the girl’s life – focus your conversations on her life. Be curious about who she is, what she likes, what she’s passionate about. [Read: ‘How to Talk to Girls’ and ‘Questions to Ask a Girl’]

…and when she brings up a topic for discussion, don’t shrug it off. Talk about it. Show interest in what she has to say. Be consumed by curiosity about her life. Let her pour out her feelings and share her excitement with you.

Be passionate about the things she likes and does. Let her interests be your interests and be excited by the things she’s excited by. Appreciate what she loves or has a passion for, and show interest in it.

And when all is said and done, demonstrate empathy…

…tap into her emotions and feelings and demonstrate that you understand her or where she’s coming from – see her side of things.

When you and a girl talk about yourselves – sharing your daily experiences and laughing about your embarrassment and whatnot – and you pay attention to her and show genuine interest in what she shares, you emotionally arouse her. And she will begin to feel emotionally attracted to you. [Read: ‘Things and Topics to Talk About with a Girl’ and ‘How to Connect with a Girl or a Woman on a Deep Emotional Level’]

Keep Reading: Things You Should Never Talk About or Bring Up in A Conversation with A Girl You Want to Sleep With

Once you trigger a girl’s emotions and tune it up, her attraction and desire for you will grow substantially with time.

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Once you trigger a girl’s emotions and tune it up, her attraction and desire for you will grow substantially with time.

Now, as you connect with a girl on an emotional level, your next task – to maximize her attraction towards you and win her heart – is to…

…give her a great time

Occasionally take her out and have a fun time together.

You can go to the mall and window shop for a bit and then head to somewhere cool or interesting for sightseeing.

You can go to carnivals.

Or you can go to the beach.

You can even go ice-skating.

Heck, you can stay in, order pizza, and watch your favorite show together. [Read: ‘How to Make a Girl or a Woman Fall in Love with You’ and ‘The Best Strategy for Making a Girl Your Girlfriend’]

Do something fun and memorable and maximize the time you spend together.

Girls crave fun… they want to have a good time

Girls want to enjoy themselves more than anything.

When you give a girl fun, she will feel a rush of attraction for you. Or her existing attraction for you will be amplified.

She will become emotionally attached to you and will want to hang out with you all the time and as much as possible.

This is crucial to successfully get a girl because you want to give her a reason to want to be with you or have a relationship with you.

You see, for a girl to want to hang out with you and do it over and over again, she’s got to have a reason…

…and by giving her a fun time, she will want to repeat the experience – hang out with you and enjoy herself.

And besides…

…and again, as I mentioned earlier, you will not be the only guy who will be pursuing a particular girl… other guys will be pursuing and trying to win her love as well.

So you want to get enough of a girl’s attention, capture her heart, have her become emotionally attached to you so that she will only have eyes for you – to be able to successfully and smoothly get her.

If you want a girl to feel a massive attraction for you and get her, be the one to give her lots of fun.

Keep a girl in a fun mode and she won’t want to leave your side. [Read: ‘A Simple But Overlooked Tip that Easily and Quickly Builds Attraction with Girls’]

To get a girl, be fun to be around.

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Girls gravitate toward guys who are fun to be around.

Read: ‘How to Ask a Girl Out’ and ‘When to Ask a Girl Out

Also Read: ‘How to Get a Girl to Go Out with You

A piece of advice here

Don’t spend so much money on your outings – you don’t have to spend lots of money to have fun.

This is also to say, don’t spend to show off.

We guys tend to or more especially WANT to treat girls very nice including spending money on them to make them like us.

Plus, most guys tend to shower money on a girl to show the girl that they can take care of her financially – in the hopes that it will get the girl to like them and get into a relationship with them.

Show some self-restraint.

You see, you don’t want to come across as if you’re buying a girl’s affection and love. Because that’s the impression girls get when we spend money on them – unasked for.

And besides, if you spend money on a girl to get her to like you, she will see through it.

And not only can this work against you, but most girls can also make you spend on them – take as much money from you.

So again, show some self-restraint.

Don’t put yourself in a situation where you will end spending so much money…

…find fun and interesting things to do that don’t cost a lot of money.

Yes, you don’t want to spend so much money on your outings or on a girl… but you don’t want to be stingy either.

Spend when necessary.

Read More: The First Mistake to Avoid When You Decide to Date a Woman

Keep Reading: Should You Take a Woman Out to Dinner?

Also Read: Forget Expensive Dinners… Do Just This One Thing to Make a Girl or Woman Fall in Love with You

Money spent doesn’t necessarily equal leg opening.

Before we get to the final step…

…understand this:

Desire (for someone) is all about feelings (toward them).

This is to say that the feelings a girl experiences in your company, determine whether she will like you or dislike you.

So, you want to give the girl you want to have a relationship with good feelings and memorable moments.

Because if a girl is going to want you and want to be in an intimate relationship with you, it is the feelings she has when she’s with you that will make her want to be in an intimate relationship with you.

You don’t have to have tons of money or be insanely good-looking to get a girl…

…you just have to make her feel good about you. [Read: ‘How to Get Girls When You Don’t Have the Male-Model Good Looks’]

Keep Reading: How to Be Attractive to Attract Girls and Woman to You

Desire is all about feelings.

Now, the final step.

As you get the girl to like and fall in love with you, your next step is to…

…make a move at the opportune moment

If you have the girl hang out with you often and spend a lot of time around you and for several hours, if you’re having a great time together and you can tell she’s into you, if she’s being touchy-feely with you, if you have her wanting to spend an alone-time with you at your place, and above all, if she’s being suggestive with her words or does things to excite you sexually, make a move on her… go in for a kiss at that opportune moment.

Not only is kissing a girl – and having her be receptive to it – a sure-fire indicator that she’s digging you and is willing to move things into the romantic arena with you…

…it also tells her you’re not looking to be just friends with her – but that you have a romantic interest in her.

When it comes to wanting to get intimate with a girl…

…it’s a tendency to want to wait for the girl to give you the go-ahead – to give you “permission” to kiss her or make a sexual move on her.

You might look to the girl to be explicit about her feelings and desire for you before you attempt to make a sexual move on her.

You probably think that girls perceive guys who make sexual moves on them as perverts and therefore you wouldn’t want to risk it.

Heck, you might think that holding off or “respecting” a girl to make a sexual move on her will make her want you and then consequently get her.

But get this…

…you risk losing the girl if you don’t make a move on her. In other words, some guy might come along and steal her away. [Read: ‘When You Have Feelings for a Girl – Don’t Make This Mistake’]

Respecting a girl too much to make a sexual move on her? This ‘nice guy’ attitude can work against you.

Why is that?

Because for one, girls are passive people when it comes to guys and romance

…they look to us guys to make a move or make the first move. (Traditionally, we guys are responsible for making the first move.)

Secondly, if you DON’T express your romantic interest in a girl (make a move on her), she’ll think that you are not into her. And she will find someone who is. [Read: ‘A Devastating Mistake You’re Likely Making with Girls You Have Feelings For’]

It’s understandable…

…you might NOT want to put yourself out there unless you’re sure a girl will reciprocate the interest.

But you see, you have to be willing to “expose yourself” – demonstrate your romantic interest in the girl you desire – to have her reciprocate that interest or show her feelings for you. [Read: ‘Why Most Guys Can’t Get Laid Even When They’re Doing Everything Right’ and ‘A Major Reason Why You Need to Make Sexual Moves on Girls You Desire’]

Make the first move, rather than waiting for a woman to act or take the first step.

Girls take a passive role when it comes to getting intimate or sexual with a guy… they wait to be pursued, they look to men to seduce them, and whatnot.

So don’t look to a girl to give you a go-ahead to kiss her or get intimate with her. She won’t.

You have to make the first move – and make it at the earliest opportunity.

If you wait for a girl to express her feelings for you or initiate intimacy with you instead of acting or taking the lead, you’ll be disappointed.

Unless the girl is very aggressive or horny, she won’t take the lead or be the one to make the first move.

The longer you wait to make your move on a girl, the closer she will start to lose her feeling of attraction for you. And the longer this goes on, the worse the situation gets. Besides, she will feel too comfortable around you that she will lose any feeling of desire for you and will want to settle for just friendship.

So have confidence in that fact that when you have a girl willingly hang out with you often and spend a lot of time around you and for several hours, if she wears an enticing outfit such as a revealing or see-through top without a bra that makes their tits visible, if she’s being touchy-feely with you, if you have her wanting to spend an alone-time with you at your place, and above all if she’s often suggestive with her words or does things to excite you sexually, she will be opened to getting intimate with you.

Any girl who has a healthy level of attraction for you will want you to make a move on her. And she will welcome it.

Here, she might express a little reluctance at first – that’s because she won’t want to seem easy. But you will still have to seduce her – and she will want you to.

Keep Reading: A Truth About Girls That Will Make You Want to Go Back in Time and Do Things Differently

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Girls are passive people and they look to us guys to make the first move.

So, there you have it…

…how to get a girl. Or have a girl want to be in an intimate relationship with you.

First, spark the girl’s interest, and hit it off with her on an emotional level…

Next, give her a fun time…

Then when you can tell she’s into you, you make a move on her to let her know that you have a romantic interest in her.

Now, here’s a secret tip:

You have to be taking progressive steps forward – always move forward toward your next romantic goal with a girl. Or in this case, move your encounter with a girl toward intimacy.

When you meet a girl for the first time and your conversation with her is going well, ask for a phone number. [Read: ‘How to Get a Girl’s Phone Number’]

When you get a girl’s interest and time, you must bring your interaction to a seductive level.

When a girl is acting friendly towards you, start to make physical contact with her. [Read: ‘How to Touch a Girl for The First Time and Afterward’ and ‘If You Can Do This to a Girl without Getting Bitch-Slapped, She’s Ready to Be Kissed’]

When a girl is responding positively, start to flirt with her. [Read: ‘How to Flirt with a Girl’]

If you’re out with a girl, try and get her back to your place and show her all the cool stuff you’ve got. (Hint: Home is where shit happens). [Read: ‘How to Get a Girl to Come Over to Your Place’]

Always be advancing.

Take progressive steps toward intimacy with a girl.

Don’t waste time trying to ‘read’ a girl – checking to see if she’s into you – it is a huge waste of time… just boldly keep advancing.

When you really want something, you make it happen… you don’t hope it happens. [Read: ‘What to Do When You’re Too Scared to Tell a Girl How You Feel About Her’]

If a girl doesn’t like where things are going, you will know. [Read: ‘11 Obvious Signs a Girl Is Not Interested in You’]

Read, Also: ‘How to Tell If a Girl Likes You’ and ‘How to Tell If a Girl Is Interested in You

Again…

…it’s a tendency to want to wait for a girl to give you the go-ahead – to give you “permission” – to take things to a seductive level with her.

But you see, if you’re not moving forward with a girl, moving from one step to the next, escalating her desire (for you) each step of the way, if you don’t progress forward with seduction, you risk losing her.

Because again, some guy might come along and steal her away.

Read More: ‘59 Signs a Girl Gives Off That Signal Her Attraction and Interest in a Guy

Now, understand…

Never rush a girl.

We guy always want to get intimate too quickly.

But if you rush a girl, she will hold back from your advances – because she won’t want to seem easy.

So, don’t rush things…

…take progressive steps. [Read: ‘If You Want to Have Sex with a Girl, Don’t Do This…’]

So again there you have it…

…how to get a girl.

Don’t forget to also read: ‘The Biggest Mistake We Can Make When It Comes to Love

You may also want to read: ‘An Important Stuff to Know Before You Get into A Relationship

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Discover How to Make Any Girl or Woman Feel A VERY STRONG SEXUAL DESIRE for You and Fall Head-Over-Heels in Love with You in A Relatively Short Time… Guaranteed!

Sexual Attraction: How to Make Any Girl or Woman Feel a Strong Sexual Desire for You in The Shortest Possible Time

Do you want to make girls (or women) fall head-over-heels in love with you, be completely OBSESSED with you, and WANT you BADLY?

Do you want to have girls WILLINGLY give you sex without even trying?

If you do, then grab your copy of the “Sexual Attraction” e-book now.

This e-book reveals the single most powerful strategy on how to make girls or women feel HORNY and LUST (very strong sexual desire) and ATTRACTION.

With this powerful e-book, you will have the skill to make any girl or woman feel SEXUALLY ATTRACTED to you, be completely OBSESSED with you, and WANT you BADLY – regardless of your looks or how much money you make.


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