Knowing how to finger a woman is one of the best and easiest ways to make a woman orgasm without the use of your penis.
Not only can a woman derive great pleasure from a finger working its way inside her vagina, but fingering a woman is exactly what you need to get a woman to orgasm when your penis can’t do the job.
That being said…
…in this article, I share with you how to finger a woman.
Without further ado, let’s get started.
Before you finger a woman…
…trim your fingernails very short and use an emery board to smooth the edges.
Jagged fingernails and hangnails can cause cuts inside a woman’s vagina and make the experience extremely unpleasant for her.
So, make sure your fingernails are neatly trimmed or cut very short before you insert them inside the vagina.
Plus, wash your hands with soap and water to keep them clean.
Now, let’s get started on how to finger a woman.
First thing first
…get the woman sufficiently aroused with ample foreplay.
Spend about 20 minutes kissing and caressing her body all over, including lightly caressing her inner thighs and genitals.
You see, arousal builds up gradually for women… in which case sexual stimulation is not always pleasurable until the body is completely ready.
Now, when women become sufficiently aroused, their genitals become much more responsive (or sensitive to stimulation – in other words, they feel more pleasure).
So, before you finger a woman, get her sufficiently aroused with ample foreplay.
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Moving on…
Now, after spending about 20 minutes on foreplay – warming the woman up, you insert a finger or two into her vagina.
You may need to have a lubricant at hand
A woman should be dripping wet with her own juice and her vagina should be lubricated after the heavy foreplay…
…but when the woman is not sufficiently wet, then you will have to lubricate your fingers before you insert them into her vagina.
You see, when a woman isn’t sufficiently wet down there, fingering can be painful for her.
That said…
…let’s get started on how to finger a woman.
When you’re transitioning from foreplay to fingering…
As you kiss a woman to warm her up to the act of fingering, lightly caress her genitals… running your palm and finger across her genitals (her pussy).
From there, you insert a finger into the vagina.
Don’t go jamming more than two fingers into the vagina at a time. Start with one finger and work your way to two fingers when you can tell she is enjoying it.
Now, to the act of fingering…
How to Finger a Woman – The Step
You can slide your finger in and out of the vagina slowly and gently… and twist your finger as you go in and out – this creates a wonderful sensation and feels good for women.
Or you can rub the top side of the vagina wall with the pad of your fingertip using a “come hither” motion instead of pushing in and out of her as you slide your finger in and out of her vaginal canal. This is the most popular fingering move.
(There is an erogenous area on the top side of the vagina wall – we call it the G-spot. It’s about 1-2 inches or two knuckles past the vaginal opening. Fingering this area gives women intense pleasure because this area is wondrously sensitive. [Read: ‘Where to Find the Female G-Spot’ and ‘How to Find the Female G-Spot’])
Read More: How to Stimulate the Female G-Spot
Moving on…
You can also use your finger to rub the walls of the vaginal canal, including, moving your fingertips in circles to trace the outer rim of the vagina.
Start out slow and gently, then gradually increase the tempo as the woman starts to moan and squirm.
So that’s how to finger a woman.
You can go deeper with your middle finger…
Deep inside the vagina is an area – another erogenous area – called the A-spot.
This erogenous zone is also on the top of the vaginal wall, about 4 to 6 inches back or as deep as the middle finger can reach… right in front and above the cervix.
So technically, past the female G-spot is the A-spot.
Stimulating this area also give women exquisite pleasure.
To find it, use your middle finger and reach in as deep as you can until you find a smooth ridge and groove before the cervix where the vagina starts to curve upward.
Use the ‘come-hither’ motion to stimulate this area.
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Avoid touching the cervix as it can feel uncomfortable when pressed.
As a woman gets more and more into it…
…when a woman starts rocking or pushing her hips and when you feel vaginal contractions, it means she is about to orgasm. Here, apply firm pressure to the front vaginal wall – her G-spot – and increase your tempo.
Finger her as fast as you can until she cums or even squirts. [Read: ‘How to Make a Woman Squirt’ and ‘How to Give a Woman a G-Spot Orgasm’]
Also Read: ‘How to Give a Woman a Squirting Orgasm’
Hint:
After a woman orgasms or squirts, you can slide your fingers back inside her vagina and keep fingering her until she orgasms or squirts again.
So, there you have it…
…how to finger a woman.
You spend about 20 minutes kissing and caressing a woman’s body all over, including lightly caressing her inner thighs and genitals to get her sufficiently aroused and her body ready…
…then you insert a finger into the vagina.
You either slide your finger in and out of the vagina slowly and gently, twisting your finger as you go in and out… or you can rub the top side of the vagina wall with the pad of your fingertip using a “come hither” motion instead of pushing in and out of her as you slide your finger in and out of her vaginal canal.
Start out slow and gently, then gradually increase the tempo as the woman starts to moan and squirm.
You can also go deeper with your middle finger and stimulate the A-spot.
And as the woman gets more and more into it – when she starts rocking or pushing her hips and when you feel vaginal contractions, you apply firm pressure to the front vaginal wall – her G-spot – and increase your tempo and finger her as fast as you can until she cums or even squirts.
Now, note…
The G-spot is so close to the urethra… and rubbing it makes women feel like they’re going to urinate.
Here, a woman who is new to this experience is likely to stop you from rubbing her G-spot further… to prevent herself from urinating for fear of peeing on you or making a mess.
If this should happen, assure the woman that it is normal for her to feel like she’s about to pee…
…tell her she is not going to pee but rather she is going to experience a powerful orgasm when she pushes out.
So again, there you have it…
…how to finger a woman.
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Frequently asked questions:
- How Do I Finger a Woman?
- What Is a G-Spot?
- Where Is the Female G-Spot?
- What is the A-Spot?
- How Deep Is The A-Spot?
For more questions and answers on fingering, go here: Frequently Asked Questions on Fingering.
And for questions and answers on the G-spot, go here: Frequently Asked Questions on the G-Spot.
For questions and answers on the A-spot, go here: Frequently Asked Questions on the A-Spot.
For other questions and answers, go here: Frequently Asked Questions.