It behooves everyone to know how to find and pleasure the clitoris.
If you want to give a girl or a woman immense pleasure and even make a girl or woman orgasm, then you need to know how to find and pleasure the clitoris.
The clitoris is the most powerful sexual organ (an erogenous zone) every girl and woman possesses.
Pleasuring the clitoris is vital when it comes to sex.
It is crucial to female arousal…
…and is key to bringing a girl or a woman to orgasms.
When pleasured the right way, the clitoris provides exquisite pleasure to a woman or girl, results in a high state of arousal, and consequently leads to orgasm.
That said…
…knowing where the clitoris is and how to pleasure it is important.
So, in this article, I share with you how to find and pleasure the clitoris.
Without further ado, let’s begin.
Finding the clit…
The clitoris is at the top of the vagina, just above the vaginal opening (or the vagina hole).
The image below should help you know where the clit is and exactly what it looks like:
Have the girl or woman lie on her back on a bed with her legs opened, and look directly at her pussy (the colloquial or slang term for the vulva), at the top of the pussy where the vagina lips meet together or split, you will see a fold of skin (we call this fold of skin the clitoral hood)…
…the clitoris is under this fold of skin.
Or spread the vaginal lips (the labia majora) with your fingers, and you will see the fold of skin at the top of the vagina…
…pull back (or push up) the fold of skin and you will see a tiny pink organ underneath. That is the clitoris (accurately, the head of the clitoris).
Read: ‘Where to Find the Clitoris’ and ‘How to Find the Clitoris’
Understand:
What is often taken as the clitoris is just the head of the clitoris.
The entire clitoris reaches deep into a girl’s (or a woman’s) genitals…
…so, what you see, that tiny pink organ, is the head of the clitoris (the clitoral head) – the visible part of the larger clitoral network. [Read: ‘10 Interesting Facts about the Clitoris That’ll Make Your Hair Stand on End’]
Clitoral stimulation is very important when it comes to sex… as it is crucial to female arousal, and a key instrument to bringing a girl to orgasm.
Now, when it comes to pleasuring the clitoris…
There are basically three (3) ways you can do this…
…either:
- you rub the clit with a finger… you lubricate a finger and then you use the pad of the finger to rub (pleasure) the clit lightly from side to side, or in circles, or rub it up and down repeatedly.
- you lick the clit – this is the best way girls and women enjoy clitoral pleasure… you use the tip of your wet tongue to lick the clit lightly in circles, or side-to-side, or up and down repeatedly.
- you use a clitoral vibe… you lubricate the tip of the toy, then you rub (pleasure) the clit lightly from side to side, or in circles, or rub it up and down repeatedly.
You start out (pleasuring the clit) slowly, then gradually increase the pressure (press firmly into the clit) and tempo (go faster) as the stimulation progresses.
I go into detail.
Pleasuring the clit with a finger
You start out by lubricating your fingers with a lubricant. Or put a few drops on the clit.
One can choose to use saliva to moisten their fingers, but lubrication makes stimulation with a finger feel better.
…it increases a woman’s pleasure.
Due to the clitoris’s extreme sensitivity, rubbing it with a finger without lubrication is not pleasurable. Plus, it can create discomfort when you rub it for too long.
Now, with a well-lubricated finger…
…you use the pad of your finger – either the index finger or the thumb – to rub (pleasure) the clitoris lightly and slowly from side to side, rub it in circles, or rub it up and down repeatedly.
(Know that the clitoris is usually tucked under a fold of skin – the clitoral hood – so you might have to pull back or push up the fold of skin to pleasure the clitoris directly.)
Understand…
The clitoris is extremely sensitive – very, very sensitive to touch – that most girls cannot handle direct clitoral stimulation right off the bat (or right in the beginning).
Most girls and women can handle direct stimulation of their clit, but some find it to be too intense when their clit is touched or stimulated too soon.
So generally, we rub the clit through the fold of skin covering it (the clitoral hood) without actually touching (or making contact with) the clit itself. This is enough to give a girl or a woman pleasure. Plus, it feels pleasurable to girls to rub the clit this way. Because you stimulate two erogenous zone – the clit and the clitoral hood – at the same time.
The clitoris is extremely sensitive and most girls cannot handle direct clitoral stimulation right off the bat.
Anyways…
If you’re going to pleasure the clitoris right off the bat…
…you will have to approach it (rub it) very gently.
You need to be gentle at first…
…and pay attention to the girl’s or the woman’s reaction.
If she pulls back as you stimulate the clitoris directly…
…that means it’s too intense for her – her clitoris is too sensitive and she may not be ready for direct stimulation.
Here, you will have to avoid touching the clit directly for now… and rather rub it through the fold of skin covering it.
Again, rubbing the clit through the clitoral hood is enough to give a girl or a woman pleasure.
Rubbing the clitoris through the clitoral hood without actually touching the clit itself is enough to give a woman pleasure.
Moving on…
On pleasuring the clitoris through its protective covering…
…you rub the clitoris (with its protective covering) lightly from side to side repeatedly – applying friction against the clit underneath.
Aside from rubbing the clit through its protective covering from side to side, you can also place two fingers (your index and middle finger) on each side of the clit and run them back and forth repeatedly tracing the length of the clit. [Read all about: ‘The Front Commissure… And the Female Sexual Pleasure and Arousal’ and ‘The Clitoral Shaft… And the Female Sexual Pleasure and Arousal’]
Or use your thumb and index finger to squeeze the clitoral hood and the clit underneath and then roll both the hood and clit repeatedly.
You can also tap the clitoris (that is, strike the clitoral area) repeatedly with the pad of your finger from time to time.
You alternate your moves (your stimulation techniques) to keep things interesting for the girl. That means, if you’re rubbing the clit from side to side, you switch things up and rub the clit up and down tracing the length of the clit for a little while then you can tap on it afterward.
(As you switch between stimulation methods, pay attention to the girl to see which one gives her the most pleasure… then do it for a little longer.)
As the stimulation progresses…
…about 15 minutes or more into your stimulation, by then the girl will be sufficiently aroused – you can touch (pleasure or rub) the clitoris directly. Here, if the clit is not poking out (protruding and visible) from under its covering, you use the thumb of your other hand to pull back the covering to expose the head of the clit. Then you moisten your fingers with a lubricant or put a drop on the clit, then you press your finger into the clit and rub it in circles, side-to-side, up and down, or even tap on it repeatedly.
When the girl or woman starts to moan in delight…
…and make twisting, squirming movements of her hips or tilt her genitals upward (this indicates she wants more pressure). Here, you press firmly into the clitoris (either the clit itself or on the clitoral hood applying pressure to the clit underneath) and then you rub faster repeatedly.
…if you keep at it, the girl or woman will orgasm in no time – have a clitoral orgasm.
If the girl orgasms…
…avoid touching the clit afterward, because it will be hypersensitive, and the slightest touch will be unbearable for her.
She will even push you away and clamp her legs shut to keep you from stimulating her further.
When stimulated properly, the clitoris provides exquisite pleasure, results in a high state of arousal, and consequently leads to orgasm.
A friendly tip:
Make sure your hands – everything from the pad of your fingertips to the edges of your fingernails – are in the right condition for touching a girl’s sensitive clitoris.
Get yourself a manicure if you have to.
Pleasuring the clitoris through the clitoral hood without actually touching the clit itself is enough to give a woman pleasure and make her orgasm.
Read a related article: ‘How to Stimulate the Clitoris’
Moving on.
To the next way to pleasure the clitoris…
Licking the clitoris – pleasuring the clit with your tongue
This is the best way for girls and women to enjoy clitoral stimulation.
…the tongue can produce electric sensations on the clitoris in ways that a finger or a toy can’t.
Not to mention, the clitoris is extremely sensitive, and a warm, soft, wet tongue feels much better than a finger or a toy – lubed or not.
Now, understand…
If you will want to or will love to lick the clitoris (pleasure the clit with your tongue), then you will have to start your sexual encounter in the shower.
…ask the girl to take a shower with you.
You can say something like…
“Let’s hit the shower and get clean and then fuck our brains out… I want to lick your pussy and make you come hard for me”.
You see, a girl will be reluctant to have someone’s face between her legs when she’s not prepared for it. This is because of the worry of how she might taste or smell down there.
…if a girl doesn’t feel fresh down there, she’s not going to be comfortable having someone lick her.
So again, if you will want to or will love to lick the clitoris, then you will have to start your sexual activity in the shower.
It’s always a good idea to incorporate a shared bath or shower into foreplay. So that you’re both clean and fresh.
A shower makes one feel clean and fresh… and this will help alleviate a girl’s worries or fear of exuding a bad odor down there – she won’t worry about having an unpleasant smell down there. And it will make her receptive and open to having your face between her legs.
If you’re with a new girl, this (shower) is the first thing you need to do to make her comfortable with having your face between her legs to lick her.
Plus, if you have concerns about licking a girl down there or worry about an unpleasant smell, having a girl take a shower will help you to enjoy the light, natural pussy scent.
Genital odor is the number source of anxiety for girls when it comes to receiving oral sex.
Read a related article: ‘How to Get a Girl to Give You Head’
Moving on…
To pleasure the clit with your tongue…
…and you can do this:
- By having the girl or woman lying on her back on the bed. This is the most common way to lick the clitoris. Because you have easy access to it, and it’s a comfortable position for both of you to be in and enjoy the act.
- She can sit on a bed with her butt at the edge, then you kneel in front of her.
- She can stand with her legs apart (or spread out), then you kneel down before her and between her legs.
- You can lie on your back on the bed then have her lower herself onto your mouth in a kneeling position, with her crotch aligned to your mouth… “Sit-On-My-Face” or “Face-Sitting”, they call it
- or she can get on all fours (knees and elbows) in a doggy position
Whichever position you choose…
…you use a thumb to pull back the fold of skin covering the clitoris so the clitoris is exposed. Then you lick the clitoris lightly with the tip of your wet tongue in circles, side to side, or up and down repeatedly.
Aside from pushing up the clitoral hood to lick the clitoris, you can also suck on the clitoral area gently into your mouth and use the tip of your wet tongue to flick (or lick) it lightly from side to side or lick it up and down or trace circles over it repeatedly.
You alternate your moves (your stimulation techniques) to keep things interesting for the girl. That means, if you’re licking the clit up and down, you switch things up and lick from side to side for a little then in circles afterward.
(As usual, as you switch between stimulation methods, pay attention to the girl to see which one gives her the most pleasure… then do it for a little longer.)
And when the girl or woman starts to moan in delight…
…and make twisting, squirming movements of her hips or tilt her genitals up toward your mouth, you suck the clitoris into your mouth and use the tip of your tongue to lick it up and down firmly as if you are drinking from a straw. This move is powerful and it can make girls or women orgasm.
…if you keep at it, the girl or woman will orgasm in no time. [Read: ‘How to Lick the Clitoris’]
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Licking the clitoris with the tongue is the best way girls and women enjoy clitoral stimulation.
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Read related articles: ‘Cunnilingus… And the Female Pleasure and Orgasms’ and ‘Oral Sex… And Sexual Pleasure’
Licking the clitoris with the tongue is the best way girls and women enjoy clitoral stimulation.
Now, to the last way to pleasure the clitoris…
…using a clitoral vibe
Clitoral vibrators are small and provide an intense vibration perfect for giving a woman or girl immense clitoral pleasure.
Now, just like how you pleasure the clit with a finger, you do the same with the toy.
You start out by applying a lubricant to the head of the toy.
And I can’t stress this enough…
…the clitoris is very sensitive, and direct stimulation is too intense for some girls and women.
That said…
…you will have to rub (stimulate) the clit through the fold of skin covering it without actually making contact with the clit itself.
Again, this is enough to give a girl or woman pleasure.
You use the toy to pleasure the clitoral hood lightly from side to side, applying friction against the clit underneath…
…you can also run the toy back and forth repeatedly tracing the length of the clit.
And when the girl or woman starts to moan in delight and make twisting, squirming movements of her hips or tilt her genitals upward (indicating she wants more pressure), you press the vibe firmly into the clit…
…if you keep at it, she will orgasm in no time.
So, there you have it…
…how to find and pleasure the clitoris.
Learn how to give a woman mind-blowing oral sex and an amazingly memorable orgasm – an absolutely overwhelmingly intense orgasm that is stronger and far beyond what women experience. Learn a secret tip that gives women the most immense pleasure and the most intense orgasm a woman can ever have. And discover a little-known strategy that will allow you to give a woman the most profound orgasm she will ever experience… and a secret technique that makes a woman come so hard that it will leave her breathless wondering what hit her. Click here to learn how to give a woman a one-of-a-kind oral pleasure that she can only have with you.
With the help of naked female instructors, learn how to be a master of going down on a woman or girl… and take your oral game to a whole new level of unbelievable ecstasy. Click here to watch a VIDEO demonstration and tutorial of how and where to lick and suck a girl or woman down there to give her the best oral sex and earth-shattering orgasms of her life.
So again, there you have it…
…how to find and pleasure the clitoris.
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