“It’s far better to ATTRACT a woman than to CHASE one. If a woman is ATTRACTED to you, half the game is over.” ~ David DeAngelo, Double Your Dating.
Women are attracted to certain types of men (and for certain reasons).
There are certain traits and qualities a man exhibits that women find attractive and are therefore drawn to.
And when you exhibit or display these attractive qualities, any woman you meet will find you attractive.
In this article, I teach you how to attract women easily by displaying these attractive qualities around them.
I first share with you how to attract women without talking to them… here, you’ll learn how to attract a woman you don’t know personally.
After that, I teach you how to attract the woman you want (or how to attract a woman when you’re getting to know each other)… here, you’ll learn how to make a woman attracted to you by exhibiting the traits and qualities they find attractive in men.
Then finally, I give you an important ingredient in dating that is essential to instantly attract any woman.
Now, what I share in this article boils down to one principle and one principle only…
…to attract women, you need to be different in an attractive way. You need to be unique and superior. That is, whenever a woman sees you or in your presence, she has to have the impression that you’re more important than the men she meets.
That is how to attract women to you. And that is exactly what I teach you in this article.
To attract a girl, you need to be different in an attractive way.
Before we begin, let’s debunk the common misconception
Just like most men, you probably have the misconception that you have to be good-looking to attract women. Or you have to have a lot of money to get a woman interested in you.
Sure, some women prefer men with lots of money – the gold-diggers.
But what women find attractive in a man or what attracts a woman to a man is the man’s attractive personality traits. [Read the personality traits women find attractive in a man]
So, when you display the personality traits and mannerisms I share in this article around women, you’re sure to get any woman attracted to you.
It doesn’t matter if you’re poor, bald, or obese. Women will find you attractive when you display these traits and mannerisms.
Even if she goes for the good-looking men, she will choose you over good-looks when you follow what I teach in this article.
As dating expert David DeAngelo has written in his book, ‘Double Your Dating‘: “Your personality is your GREATEST ASSET in the success-with-women game”.
With that said, let’s begin…
How to Be Attractive to Women Without Talking to Them
When a woman sees you for the first time, here’s how to attract her – how to attract a woman at first sight:
Improve your outward appearance
Dress neatly or properly whenever you’re out in public. (Either to meet women or just going out.)
Get a nice haircut if you need one.
Shave or trim any excess body hair.
Keep your teeth clean, floss and use mouthwash.
Keep your nails short, trimmed and clean.
Shower regularly and ALWAYS put on deodorant.
As the saying goes, “first impression counts”. And the same is true when it comes to dating women.
Women pay close attention to the way we (men) dress and our physical appearance.
They notice if our belt and shoes match, etc.
So, make sure you’re well-groomed when out in public.
The first step to attracting women is to look your best at all times.
When this aspect is covered, women will be checking you out… and will want to know you more.
Now, after you’ve worked on your appearance and whatnot, the next tip is to be cognizant of the way you behave and act around women.
So next, we look at how to attract women with the way you behave and act around them.
Women pay close attention to the way we dress and our physical appearance.
The behavior and mannerisms to demonstrate when out and about
What attracts a woman to a man the most or what women are attracted to is your behavior and mannerism. (Not necessarily good looks, as discussed earlier.)
To get women attracted to you, you have to stand out from the other men she meets.
You have to attract a woman’s attention and let her see you as unique.
You need a woman to see you as a fun and an interesting person when in your presence.
And to accomplish this, you have to exhibit the personality traits women find most attractive in a man.
And most especially, now that you’re looking to attract any woman, here’re the three (3) essential personality traits to exhibit when out and about:
- A confident body language, specifically your posture
- A sense of humor
Other traits to exhibit when you’re getting to know each other (and to get her attracted to you) will be mentioned as you read on.
Now, when you specifically exhibit the above three (3) traits when out and about, you’ll notice women will be drawn to you.
Now, let’s get into detail.
…how to attract women with your posture
Posture is an essential body language to attract women.
It communicates to women you are an alpha male. And interestingly, it also communicates you’re confident in yourself.
So when you’re standing, have a broad posture with shoulders back (not hunched over). With your head held high and back, with feet slightly apart. And with your hands on your hips or with your thumbs hooked in your pockets. [Read ‘25 Ways to Appear Confident‘ and ‘5 Body Language of an Alpha Male that Instantly Gets Women Attention‘]
…the next traits to demonstrate is humor
Be funny or have a sense of humor (and you’ll become attractive to women).
Now supposedly your potential girlfriend is with a group of friends…
…make witty comments when talking to the group and nonverbally communicate to your potential girlfriend you’re a fun person to be around with.
Because here, when you get her laughing, she will feel attracted to you… before you even start getting to know each other.
…the next traits to exhibit is dominance
In other words, show leadership characteristics.
What do I mean by this?
…don’t let people belittle you.
Be in control, and don’t be afraid to voice your opinion. [Read the #1 trait that attracts women]
These 3 traits outweigh any flaws
These are what really attracts women.
They overcome looks and riches. And it gets women purportedly out of your league attracted to you. [Watch a video on how to make her want you more]
From the way you carry yourself to how you make people feel around you, will naturally get any woman attracted to you.
So that’s how to attract women the moment they lay eyes on you.
Read More: How to Become an Alpha Male
Women are not attracted to looks. But to your attitude and mannerism.
Now, let’s move on to how to get a woman attracted to you, or how to attract the woman you like. That is, when you’ve met a woman and you’re getting to know each other.
Read More: How to Get a Woman to Like You
How to Attract a Woman You’ve Just Met
From here onward, I teach you how to make women attracted to you or how to attract a woman you like when you’re getting to know each other.
Let’s get started… how to be attractive to women.
The average man puts a woman on a pedestal, because he is afraid the woman won’t like him.
He is too nice and agrees with everything a woman says… because he wants to please her and he wants the woman to like him.
But acting this way will make a woman manipulate you.
To attract a woman, you need to be different.
Don’t put women on a pedestal.
Don’t do things to please or impress a woman.
Sure, respect women and don’t be arrogant. But don’t let them walk over you.
“If a woman can have anything she wants anytime she wants it, then why the hell do men think that they’re going to be interesting by doing the same thing that every other man has done?” says dating expert, David DeAngelo in his book, ‘Double Your Dating‘.
So, be different from the average guys a girl meets.
Demonstrate that you have standards, and you’re a high-status man. And you’re not going to allow her to treat you like the wimpy a$$ kissers. [Read the best ways to attract women and have them pursue you]
Next tip on how to attract a woman is to…
Show no interest in her at first
The best way to attract women or the best way to attract a woman you like is to pretend you’re not interested in her… meanwhile demonstrating attractive personality traits that will make her attracted to you.
A proven tactic that really attracts a woman to a man, most especially now that you’re getting to know each other, is to show no interest in her at the beginning of meeting her.
Movies have led us to believe that to get a woman interested in you, you need to be the one to chase or pursue her…
…but that SHOULD NOT be the case.
In fact, excessively showing interest can hurt your chances of winning a woman over.
If she knows you’re already attracted or interested in her, it gives her the upper hand.
As dating expert David DeAngelo has written in his book, ‘Double Your Dating‘: “It’s far better to ATTRACT a woman than to CHASE one”.
So instead of being the pursuer, be the one being chased or pursued. [Read the absurd but proven tactic that makes any girl want you so bad]
Gone are the days when you childishly do things to impress a woman. Or foolishly (misguidedly) try to score with a woman… and telegraph your intentions or ulterior motive.
This time around, show maturity and make women chase you instead.
Of course, don’t be a standoffish
Strive NOT to show signs of interest at the beginning of meeting her.
Don’t be smiling excessively.
In fact, give the impression you don’t care if she is the only attractive woman around.
What attracts women to men or what women are attracted to in men is the “I don’t care” personality.
Remember, women (especially beautiful or attractive women) are used to men hitting on them on a regular basis…
…so showing no interest not only communicate to a woman you’re not looking to score, but interestingly, it drives her nut. And thus, intensifies her attraction for you.
Plus, it communicates to her you have standards.
When you demonstrate this attitude around women, you will stand out. And they will find you attractive.
Read More: How to Approach a Woman You Like
It’s far better to attract a woman than to chase one
The next tip for attracting a woman is to…
Hone your communication skills
As you learn how to attract a woman towards you, it behooves you to know how to talk to women. [Read how to talk to a woman]
Engage the woman you desire in an emotional and fun conversation.
Emotional and fun conversation in the sense that it has to be about her and what interests her.
So talk about things or topics she finds interest in.
The best way to do this is to ask her questions about herself, then follow up her responses.
What attracts women the most is the “I want to know you” personality you demonstrate when you’re with her.
So, gear the conversation towards getting to know her, instead of talking about boring topics.
…engage her in inspiring and exciting conversations and make her have fun with you
Talk and share a commonality… describe the hobbies you both enjoy. This is how to emotionally attract a woman.
Ask superficial questions about who she is, then move into deeper emotional questions about her goals and her future plans. [Read things to talk about with a woman]
Talk about your favorite celebrities too.
Always talk about engaging topics and avoid the negative and controversial ones.
If you’ve got an interesting, amusing to passionate stories in connection with what you’re discussing, tell them.
“Being able to tell a good story is IMPERATIVE in not only keeping the conversation going, but also in helping you to attract your target and create a sense of comfort and connection with them”, says dating expert and pick up artist, Joseph Matthews, in his book ‘The Art of Approaching’.
If you can connect with the woman you like on a deeper emotional level, you will increase your chances of attracting her dramatically. [Read the simple 3 step-approach to talking to women]
And while at it…
…show your humorous side and get her laughing uncontrollably
Make humorous statements when talking to a woman you desire.
Teasing a woman is also a great way to show your humorous side.
Tease her in a playful manner any chance you get.
Do you have some funny jokes you can tell? Then tell them.
Let her see you as a guy who can make her laugh and have a great time with. And you will stand out in an attractive way.
Don’t try too hard to be funny. Just make witty comments. And no mean jokes either.
Read More: How to Impress Women
The way you speak also helps you become attractive to women
Speak in a deep voice and with energy. And use gestures, facial expressions, and even different voices to emphasis your points.
This will make you interesting in the eyes of a woman.
And as I mentioned earlier, you need want women to see you different in an attractive way.
In addition to speaking in a deep voice is to speak slow and clear.
In other words, don’t be talking too fast… take your time to convey your message.
Next on how to be more attractive to women is to also…
Show her you’re a fun person to be with
How do you attract women or a woman with this?
Mini-date with her.
Again, if you want to attract a woman, you have to come across as an exciting and interesting guy.
And in order to do this, you have to mini-date with her when the opportunity presents itself.
This means maximising the time you spend together.
Go for a walk in the park, go to fairs.
Spend quality time together getting to know each other while having fun.
This makes you stand out… because she probably hasn’t experienced this with any other guy before.
So in addition to your sense of humor and engaging her in an exciting conversation, mini-date with a woman to show her you’re a fun person to be with. [Read the simple but overlooked tip that builds attraction with a woman quickly]
To the next tip on how to attract women…
Pass her tests
Disagree with a woman when she’s in the wrong.
Voice your opinion… and do not give in to her drama.
In short, stand your grounds.
This will communicate to her you’re different from the other men she meets.
A woman will always test you to see if you’re weak, inferior and whatnot.
She will try to manipulate you.
If you give in, not only will she walk all over you, but she will see you as the type of man she doesn’t want to get into a romantic relationship with.
Similar to being different, you have to be able to pass her tests.
Let her know you have standards and you will not allow her to treat you anyhow.
Yes, you’ve probably shown some interest, but you have to nonverbally communicate to her you’re ready to walk away. [Read why taking the risk to anger a woman is the best way to make her feel a strong attraction for you]
Be mysterious and UNPREDICTABLE
Here’s also how to attract women instantly.
“Don’t be predictable. Do the unexpected when they LEAST expect it,” says dating expert David DeAngelo.
In other words, do things or act contrary to a woman’s expectations.
If she calls you to hang out, say you’re busy and reschedule.
If she asks you to do something for her, tell her “No”. But do it later when she least expects it. [Read the powerful way to build attraction with a woman you have a crush on]
Be mysterious as well.
Don’t tell a woman everything about yourself.
Even when she asks, hold back some of the details or try to change the subject. And let her discover them on her own.
Now, to the last tip on how to attract a woman…
Try to flirt with her
The guys a woman normally hangs out with don’t flirt with her.
Hence, when you flirt with her, you separate yourself from these guys… and she will find you unique.
And consequently, she will find you attractive.
How do you flirt with a woman? [Read how to flirt with a girl]
All that flirting basically mean is to subtly express your interest in the woman and get her to express interest back.
Here, you flirt with a girl by talking to her using se*ual overtones, gazing seductively into her eyes, and making physical contact to spark off se*ual interest on her part.
Not only will flirting with a woman intensify her attraction towards you… but it will tell if she’s into you, too… most especially when she displays her flirtatious side as well.
Other tips to attract women (what to do and what to avoid)
- Don’t be preoccupied with any physical flaws you may have. Instead, be attracted to yourself and have confidence in your ability to attract women. In the words of dating expert Steve Scott, “fix what you can, then learn to accept the things beyond your control.”
- Be knowledgeable or demonstrate intelligence. That is, if you’re going to say something, make sure you know what you’re talking about.
- Don’t compliment her too much just about anything. Just notice the little things the ordinary man wouldn’t notice, then compliment her on it. Here, when other men are complimenting her on her looks and physique, you’re doing something different… you’re complimenting her on the little details the other men failed to notice – like the new hairdo or the new shoe she’s wearing.
- Demonstrate positivity. Talk about problems and bad situations in a positive light. This also includes showing friendliness towards other people.
- Be romantic. Sure, don’t show interest at the beginning. But there’re some instances when you have to let her know you find her attractive too. Speaking of being romantic… read: ‘Forget Expensive Dinners: Do Just This One Thing and Make a Woman Feel Attraction for You‘.
As you know what to do to attract women, it is equally important you know what NOT to do:
- Don’t buy gifts for a woman in the hopes that she will like you. Because it telegraphs to her what your intentions are. And she will rather find you unattractive.
- Don’t INTENTIONALLY do things to get a woman’s attention. It communicates to her you’re needy (and it’s unattractive).
- Never brag or show off.
So that’s how to attract a woman you like (or how to attract women).
An important stuff to know
Always demonstrate confidence.
Develop a positive mindset and believe in your abilities to succeed with women.
Believe you have what it takes to get women to like you. And that every woman will be lucky to be with you.
Even if you’re poor or obese… have the belief that you can attract or get any woman you want with your personality.
When you’re thinking like this, your confidence will grow.
And this will manifest in everything you do. And women will pick up on it, and will find you attractive.
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Conclusion: How to Attract women
Now you know how to attract any woman you like.
I’ve shared with you the ways to attract a woman without speaking to her, or how to attract females you don’t know personally. And also, you’ve learned how to attract a woman when you’re getting to know each other.
Sure, there are other tips on attracting a woman (or things that attract women to men) that I probably haven’t mentioned in this article. But, one thing is for sure… to attract any woman, you need to be different in an attractive way. You have to stand out from other men and let her see you unique and interesting. That is, exhibit the personality traits women find most attractive in a man, ESPECIALLY humor.
As dating expert David DeAngelo has written, “the one quality that attracts women the most (and keeps them attracted) is not something that they can initially ‘look’ for. It’s the way they FEEL when they are with you or thinking of you. If you don’t have wealth, power, fame, or looks, you’re going to have to use your personality to make them FEEL good. In the end, your personality is the most powerful asset you have.”
So that’s how to get the woman you want to be attracted to you. By making her feel good when she’s with you.
Any man can learn how to attract women naturally if he is willing to learn how and put it into action.
Combine what you’ve learned here and what you already know, and let it be a natural part of you. And you’re guaranteed to attract any woman you want.
So there you have it – how to attract a woman you like (or how to attract women).
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