How to Ask a Girl Out

Asking a girl out is a step in the right direction toward having her fall in love with you and increasing your chances of having a romantic relationship with her.

Because here, you can maximize your time spent together, do something fun and memorable, and have her want to keep seeing you again and eventually have a relationship with her.

That being said, how do you ask a girl out or how do you ask a girl out on a date?

Simple…

…ask her to do something fun and exciting with you

…something she won’t want to turn down.

Say something like…

  • “Hey, I’m going to an art festival/a concert/the funfair/Disneyland this weekend… come with me, it will be fun.”
  • “Hey, I’m going to an art festival/a concert/the funfair/Disneyland this weekend… I want you to come with me, it will be fun.”

Give her a reason to want to go out with you

Don’t say, “We should hang out sometime.”

If you want a girl or a woman to go out with you without hesitation or without declining to go out with you, you’ve got to give her a reason to want to go out with you. Or more accurately, she’s got to have a reason to want to go out with you – the excitement she’s going to experience.

  • “Hey, I’m going to an art festival/a concert/the funfair/Disneyland this weekend… come with me/I want you to come with me, it will be fun.”

If you know what she will feel comfortable doing with you or if you know her interest – does she like arts, is she into musicals or fashion – plan on having your date at venues or places or go to events corresponding to her interest.

This… she won’t turn down.

Whether she’s a girl you just met or a girl you’ve known for a while, she will accept your request to do something fun.

You see, girls and women want to have fun… so they will seize the opportunity to have it with you.

When they know that they are going to have fun or engage in some kind of enjoyable activity, they will want to jump in. [Read: ‘How to Tell If a Girl Likes You’ and ‘How to Tell If a Girl Is Interested in You’]

A girl will know that to turn down a fun and exciting outing is stupid, and she will not risk you giving that pleasure to another girl.

Before You Start Dating, Read This…

Asking a girl out is a step in the right direction toward having her fall in love with you.

Be specific and have something planned

Is it a dinner date?

Or an outing kind of date?

Will your friends be around?

Let her know so as to know what to wear and how to present herself to you.

  • “Hey, I’m going to the funfair this weekend… come with me, it will be fun. Just the two of us.”

Plus, don’t ask a girl out if you don’t have a clear plan…

…have an activity planned.

If you’re asking a girl out to a dinner date…

…then say something like:

  • “I’d love to take you out for dinner next week.”
  • “Let’s get together for dinner tomorrow night. I know this nice place. They serve the best Chinese foods.”

Read: ‘Should You Take a Woman Out to Dinner?’ and ‘Forget Expensive Dinners: Do Just This One Thing and Make a Woman Feel Attraction for You

Also read: The First Mistake to Avoid When You Decide to Date a Woman

Asking a girl out will increase your chances of achieving what you want.

Don’t necessarily ask a girl out, command

Don’t ask a girl permission to spend time with her…

  • “Will you go out with me?”
  • “Do you want to hang out sometime?”
  • “Do you want to go out on a date with me?”
  • “Would you like to go out with me sometime, on a date?”
  • “Would you like to grab a drink/a coffee this Wednesday?”
  • “Can I take you to dinner on Friday night?”
  • “Hey, I was wondering if you wanted to catch a movie on Friday night?”

There’s no right or wrong when it comes to asking a girl or a woman out on a date – if a girl is really into you, anyhow you ask her out, she will say “yes”.

Nevertheless, don’t ask a girl’s permission to spend time with her. Because chances are that if you try to get permission first, you’re likely to be turned down.

She’s likely to come up with an excuse like “I’d love to but I already have plans”. [Read: ‘Why Girls Don’t Find Nice Guys Attractive’]

You see, girls have learned to intuitively toy with guys’ affection and also play hard to get when put in a position of power and authority…

…and that’s exactly what will happen when you ask a girl permission to do things with her – it gives her power over you to decide whether to be with you or not.

Again, asking a girl out will increase your chances of achieving what you want

Spending time with a girl is a moment to wow her and have her start falling in love with you… and you don’t want to blow that chance.

As a ‘man’ who should go after what he wants and get it no matter what… don’t ask permission that can lead to rejection, and don’t ask questions that can be turned down.

  • “Do you want to go out on a date with me?”

It’s pathetic. [Read: ‘Why Girls Don’t Choose Guys That Are Good for Them’]

Don’t ask girls or women for permission to do things with you and don’t look to them to make decisions – the decision to spend time with them.

Confidently asking a girl to do something with you shows dominance… and girls tend to respond well to guys who demonstrate dominance.

You see, girls (or women) are intuitively and intrinsically attracted to men of superior value. When you demonstrate dominance – not afraid to show a girl what you want – she will willingly give in to you.

They like it when you decide what’s going to happen and then most especially do it.

So have something planned, tell her to join in with you, and then do it. [Read: ‘How to Get a Girl to Go Out with You’]

If she will be busy or fully occupied that very day, she’ll let you know.

Hint:

Get to know the girl’s plans.

You can ask her:

  • “What are your plans this weekend?”
  • “What are you doing this weekend/this Wednesday?”

If she’s free, you then ask her out.

That, my friend, is an alpha move. [Read: ‘How to Be an Alpha Male’]

Read More: 11 Obvious Signs a Girl Is Not Interested in You: An Indication to Move On

Also read: The Best Dating Tip You Could Ever Get

Girls are intuitively and intrinsically attracted to men of superior value.

When you meet a girl for the first time…

…then hit it off with her before you ask her out.

Why?

Because a girl you just meet will be receptive (open to) going out with you (or will want to see you again) when she feels she likes you.

When you approach a girl for the first time and then ask her out straight away, she will say “no”.

So hit it off with her immediately – talk for a while and connect with her on an emotional level – make her laugh while at it – before you ask her out. [Read: ‘How to Talk to Girls to Bond with Them on an Emotional Level’ and ‘How to Make a Girl Laugh’]

Also read: How to Make a Girl or a Woman Fall in Love with You

Keep Reading: What Makes Girls Feel Attraction for Guys

Here’s a secret tip:

The first time you meet a girl is the best time to date her. You’re there, she’s there, the opportunity is there. [Read: ‘A Simple But Overlooked Tip that Builds Attraction with a Girl Quickly’]

Before You Approach a Girl for a Date, Read This…

A girl is got to have a reason to want to go out with you… so hit it off with her before you ask her out.

Ask a girl out in person

Don’t text a girl to ask her out.

Again, there’s no right or wrong when it comes to asking a girl or a woman out – on a date or to dinner…

…but it’s best to do it in person.

Read More: When You Meet a Girl for The First Time, Should You Go for Her Number or Go for a Date?

Also read: What to Do When You’re Too Scared to Tell a Girl How You Feel About Her

So there you have it…

…how to ask a girl out, or more accurately, how to get a girl to go out with you.

Asking a girl or a woman out is as easy as asking her to join you in doing something.

You need to be bold and confident. Don’t be fearful and hesitant. Don’t wait for weeks or even months to pluck up courage. Just do it. [Read: ‘When You Have Feelings for a Girl – Don’t Make This Mistake’]

Now understand…

Literally asking a girl out on a date often makes her go into hard-to-get mode.

When you ask a girl out, especially to a dinner date, you put her in the state of mind that she is being pursued… and she’s likely to play hard to get – to make you work hard or prove yourself to get her. [Read: ‘7 Signs That Indicate a Girl Is Playing Hard to Get’ and ‘Why Girls Play Hard to Get’]

Also read: ‘What to Do When the Girl You Desire Plays Hard to Get

So again, there you have it…

…how to ask a girl out and how to ask a girl out on a dinner date.

I hope this article has given you an insight into how to ask a girl out and have her be receptive to it.

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