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FAQ: How Do You Ask a Girl Out on A Date?

Question: How do you ask a girl out on a date?

Answer

Ask her to do something fun and exciting with you…

…something she won’t want to turn down.

For example…

…you can ask a girl to go to a concert or a funfair with you.

Say something like…

  • “Hey, I’m going to an art festival/a concert/the funfair/Disneyland this weekend… come with me/I want you to come with me, it will be fun.”

Girls want to have fun… so they will seize the opportunity to have it with you.

When a girl knows that she’s going to have fun or engage in some kind of enjoyable activity, she’ll want to jump right in.

Understand…

A “Date” doesn’t necessarily mean taking a girl out for a romantic candlelit dinner or to a movie…

A “Date” simply means going on an outing – doing something for pleasure.

In short, asking a girl out on a date is simply asking her to spend some time with you.

And this is to say, asking a girl out on a date, and most especially the first date, you want to do something exciting and memorable – something that will trigger an emotional feeling of attraction inside her. [Read: ‘A Simple But Overlooked Tip that Easily and Quickly Builds Attraction with Girls’ and ‘18 Simple Date Ideas That Won’t Break the Bank’]

Moving forward.

When you ask a girl out…

…command.

Don’t ask a girl permission to spend time with her…

  • “Do you wanna go out with me?”
  • Will you go out with me?”
  • “Do you want to hang out sometime?”
  • “Do you want to go out on a date with me?”
  • “Would you like to go out with me sometime, on a date?”
  • “Would you like to grab a drink/a coffee this Wednesday?”
  • “Can I take you to dinner on Friday night?”
  • “Hey, I was wondering if you wanted to catch a movie on Friday night?”

…instead, command.

  • “Hey, I’m going to an art festival/a concert/the funfair/Disneyland this weekend… come with me/I want you to come with me, it will be fun.”

This is an alpha move… and girls respond to this. [Read: ‘How to Become or Be Perceived as An Alpha Male’]

Understand…

There’s no right or wrong when it comes to asking a girl out on a date…

…if a girl is REALLY into you, anyhow you ask her out, she will say “yes”.

Nevertheless, don’t ask a girl you’re yet to attract permission to spend time with her. Because chances are that if you try to get permission first, you’re likely to be turned down or make to wait.

She is likely to come up with an excuse like, “I’d love to, but I already have plans”.

You see, girls instinctively play hard to get when they get the impression that they’re being pursued…

…and that’s exactly what a girl will do – play hard to get – when you ask her permission to do something with her.

That said…

…don’t ask a girl permission to spend time with her.

Confidently go after what you want

You see, asking a girl out on a date will increase your chances of achieving what you set out to get with her – love, romance, relationship, whatever.

Spending time with a girl is a moment to wow her and have her start falling in love with you… and you don’t want to blow that chance.

So don’t give a girl a reason to make you wait for days to wow her.

As a “MAN” who should go after what he wants and get it no matter what, don’t ask permission that can lead to rejection…

  • Do you want to hang out sometime?”

It’s pathetic. [Read about ‘Self-Confidence’]

That said…

Don’t ask girls for permission to do things with you. And don’t look to them to make decisions.

Confidently asking a girl to do something with you demonstrates dominance… and girls tend to respond well to guys who demonstrate dominance.

You see, girls are intuitively and intrinsically attracted to guys of superior value…

When you demonstrate dominance – not afraid to show a girl what you want – she will willingly give in to you.

Girls like it when you decide what’s going to happen and then do it.

So don’t ask a girl permission to spend time with her… ‘command’ her to join in doing something with you.

This is to say…

Get to know a girl’s plans.

You can ask her:

  • “What are your plans this weekend”
  • “What are you doing this weekend/this Wednesday?”

If she’s free, you then ask her out.

  • I’m going to an art festival/a concert/the funfair/Disneyland this weekend… come with me/I want you to come with me, it will be fun.”

So, there you have it…

…how you ask a girl out on a date.

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