Question: How do I ask a girl out?
Answer
Ask her to do something fun and exciting with you…
…something she won’t want to turn down.
For instance, you can ask her to go to a concert or a funfair with you.
Say something like…
- “Hey, I’m going to an art festival/a concert/the funfair/Disneyland this weekend… come with me/I want you to come with me, it will be fun.”
Girls want to have fun…
…so they will seize the opportunity to have it with you.
When a girl knows that she’s going to have fun or engage in some kind of enjoyable activity, she’ll want to jump right in.
A girl will know that turning down a fun and exciting outing is stupid, and she will not risk you giving that pleasure to another girl.
Understand…
Don’t ask a girl you recently met out on a dinner date just yet… save that for later, and until you can tell she’s worth it.
Your first outing with a girl should be something fun and memorable… like going to a funfair or hanging out at the mall.
It’s better to go on a friendly-fun outing with a girl and get to know who she is and what she’s about than it is to go all romantic and expensive and end up broke and heartbroken.
When asking a girl out… command
Don’t necessarily ask a girl out.
Don’t ask a girl permission to spend time with her…
- “Will you go out with me?”
- “Do you want to hang out sometime?”
- “Would you like to grab a drink/a coffee this Wednesday?”
- “Hey, I was wondering if you wanted to catch a movie on Friday night?”
…command.
- “Hey, I’m going to an art festival/a concert/the funfair/Disneyland this weekend… come with me/I want you to come with me, it will be fun.”
There’s no right or wrong when it comes to asking a girl out…
…if a girl is really into you, anyhow you ask her out, she will say “yes”.
Nonetheless, don’t ask a girl permission to spend time with her because chances are that if you try to get permission first, you’re likely to be turned down.
She’s likely to come up with an excuse like, “I’d love to but I already have plans”.
You see, girls have learned to intuitively toy with guys’ affection and also play hard to get when put in a position of power and authority…
…and that’s exactly what will happen when you ask a girl permission to do something with her – it gives her power over you to decide whether to be with you or not.
Confidently go after what you want
Spending time with a girl is a moment to wow her and have her start falling in love with you… and you don’t want to blow that chance.
As a ‘man’ who should go after what he wants and get it no matter what… don’t ask permission that can lead to rejection…
- “Do you want to hang out sometime?”
It’s pathetic.
Don’t ask girls for permission to do things with you and don’t look to them make decisions – the decision to spend time with them.
Confidently asking a girl to do something with you shows dominance… and girls tend to respond well to guys who demonstrate dominance.
You see, girls are intuitively and intrinsically attracted to men of superior value. When you demonstrate dominance – not afraid to show a girl what you want – she will willingly give in to you.
They like it when you decide what’s going to happen and then most especially do it.
So don’t ask a girl permission to spend time with her… tell her to join in doing something with you.
If she will be busy or fully occupied that very day, she’ll let you know.
Hint:
Get to know her plans.
You can ask her:
“What are your plans this weekend”
“What are you doing this weekend/this Wednesday?”
If she’s free, you then ask her out.
That, my friend, is an alpha move. [Read: ‘How to Be an Alpha Male’]
Ask a girl out in person
Don’t text a girl to ask her out.
There’s no right or wrong when it comes to asking a girl out – on a date or to dinner…
…but it’s best to do it in person.
So that’s it…
…how you should ask a girl out.
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- How Should I Ask a Girl Out?
- Should I Ask Her Out On a Date?
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