Question: How can I make a girl like me?
Answer:
Easy!
- your appearance – dress neat and smell nice
- your attitude and mannerism – have a good attitude and behavior
- how you treat her and make her feel – make her feel valued
Combine these three, and any girl or woman you meet or interact with will like you.
Let’s go into detail.
Before You Start Dating, Read This…
To make a girl like you…
…start out by dressing neat and smelling nice.
When a girl sees you or meets you and you’re looking your best, she will like you that instant. But when you’re looking all messy and smelling bad and emitting an unpleasant odor, she’s not going to like you.
So to make a girl like you, start out by dressing neat and smelling nice.
Wear simple and nice clothes and shoes, and use a good deodorant and put on nice perfume.
And make sure that your breath is great so you don’t hit her with foul breath.
(Hint: Scrub your tongue when you brush your teeth and use mouthwash. And always carry breath mints with you.)
If you’re inviting the girl to come over to your place, make sure your room is tidy and devoid of unpleasant odors – this includes the kitchen and bathroom. [Read: ‘How to Get a Girl or a Woman to Come Over to Your Place’]
So, that’s the first step to making a girl like you – dress neat and smell nice.
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When a girl sees you and you’re looking your best, she will like you that instant.
The next method in making a girl like you is…
…your attitude and mannerism
This is everything from your way of thinking, and acting, to how you treat and behave toward other people…
…and it goes a long way in making girls like you.
The better your attitude and mannerism, the more a girl will like you.
So to make a girl like you in addition to dressing neat and smelling nice, have a positive attitude and attractive behavioral attributes.
Be positive and optimistic, and avoid negativity.
Similarly, be encouraging and pump people up with positive emotions.
Positivity and good manners are attractive… and you will have a girl like you when you project them.
Next, be friendly…
…be nice and polite to others.
And be good toward others.
That’s to say…
…avoid being rude or bitter to people.
Don’t belittle people, criticize, judge, put down others, bully, and any other behavior that tends to make you superior to others.
You see, girls are sensitive people who are susceptible to the feelings and circumstances of others. And when you are indifferent to another person and you make that person feel like they’re not all that special, you’ll trigger her into taking up for that person and then have her dislike you.
Similarly, don’t brag.
It’s a common tendency for us guys to brag to try to impress a girl… but you will have a girl LIKE you with your restraint.
You see, she’s used to guys bragging and showing off, and you will stand out when you don’t do the same, and eventually have her like you.
Also, don’t whine.
If there’s one thing girls or women hate, it’s a whiner. When you whine, you create resentment in the girl, and you will drive her away.
Last but not least, don’t be a know-it-all. This may seem insignificant at first, but in the long run or when you do it excessively, she’s going to get sick of you and eventually dislike you.
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The better your attitude and mannerism, the more a girl will like you.
Now, when all is said and done…
…have standards and demonstrate authority
This is simply not allowing a girl to have power over you.
You see, girls use their looks and our obvious longing for them to try to intimidate us, manipulate us (or control us), and take advantage.
This includes:
- acting aloof and indifferent to feel superior to us
- playing hard to get to make us seek their approval
- faking getting upset to test us or to get their way
- doing things to make us jealous
…plus other little games they play to try to manipulate us and take advantage.
Also Read: ‘Why Girls Play Hard to Get’ and ‘7 Signs That Indicate a Girl Is Playing Hard to Get’
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Moving on…
Now, when you DON’T do things to their expectations, when you beat a girl to her games, or to put it more precisely when a girl gets the feeling that she cannot intimidate you or manipulate you or get her way, she’s going to like you for it.
She will like you because you’re not like the guys she’s used to.
You see, here, your ability to control yourself will be a challenge to the girl… and not only will it increase her attraction for you, but it will make her like you. This self-control and total composure are very powerful.
So to make a girl like you here…
…the effective strategy here is to focus on yourself and NOT try to get a girl’s approval or deliberately do things to make her like you.
Don’t let a girl command you or boss you around.
Don’t care about what a girl thinks of you.
Don’t be perturbed by what a girl says or does.
Don’t act too apologetic when you act your natural self or when you behave like a man.
Speak your mind.
Stand your ground when a girl tries to intimidate you or manipulate you.
Don’t put up with bad behavior from a girl.
Don’t allow a girl to disrespect you.
Put a girl in her place when she tries to disrespect you.
All in all, don’t suck up to a girl or put her on a pedestal – don’t let a girl use her looks to have control over you.
You know… act naturally, and have total composure.
Don’t react to a girl’s behavior and actions in any way whatsoever no matter what buttons she pushes… not with silence, anger, or any of the responses that you will be tempted to use.
Act indifferent and unaffected by a girl’s actions and behavior.
Get it!
Read: ‘How to Be an Alpha Male’ and ‘One of The Best Ways to Attract Women and Have Them Pursue You’
If you allow a girl to intimidate you or get her way or treat you as a doormat, she will lose respect for you.
But when you don’t allow her to have power over you, she will pick up on it and she will like you. She will like it because you’re acting like a ‘man’. [Read: ‘The Best Dating Tip You Could Ever Get’]
Self-control and total composure Are very powerful… and will make a girl like you.
Here’s a secret tip and a fact:
There are over 1000 million girls in the world…
…more girls to choose from.
So don’t let one girl use her looks to have power over you or treat you like a doormat.
Again, when you don’t allow a girl to have power over you, she will pick up on it and she will like you. [Read: ‘This Absurd But Proven Tactic Makes Any Girl Want You So Bad’]
Understand…
…respect girls and love them for who they are.
They’re girls… and they act the way they do because it’s in their nature.
You can’t blame them but accept and love them for who they are.
Don’t react to their behaviors and actions… act indifferent and unaffected by them. [Read: ‘Why Girls Behave the Way They Do’]
So that’s the second step to making a girl like you – have a positive attitude and attractive behavioral attributes.
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When a girl gets the feeling that she cannot intimidate you or manipulate you or get her way, she’s going to like you for it.
Now, from projecting a friendly attitude and treating other people nice, and beating a girl at her games, the next method to making a girl like you is to…
…make her feel valued
When a girl feels valued, she will like you.
So here…
…start out by genuinely taking an interest in the girl’s life.
Let her talk about the things that she wants to talk about – her daily experiences, past experiences, her passion, her goals, dreams, desires, and whatnot – then genuinely take an interest in it. [Read: ‘What Girls Like to Talk About’ and ‘Things and Topics to Talk About with a Girl’]
Show her you’re interested in who she is and what she’s about, and she will like you.
Here, ask questions about her life and experiences and be consumed by curiosity about her, listen to her share her life and experiences and innermost feelings, then demonstrate empathy –make her feel she’s been heard…
…and she will feel most valued when you do.
You see, girls are emotional people, and when you show a girl that you’re curious and interested in who she is and what she’s about and you listen to her and demonstrate empathy, she will like you.
Hint:
Don’t let her do all the talking… share your similar experiences too. And never interrupt her when she’s talking – let her finish. [Read: ‘How to Talk to Girls’ and ‘How to Connect with a Girl or a Woman on a Deep Emotional Level’]
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Getting a girl to talk about herself shows interest on your part about who she is and what she’s about… and she will love you for it.
Next on making a girl feel valued is to…
…make her feel special and unique
First off, girls want attention and they want to be treated special.
They also want to feel attractive and loved.
When you give her the needed attention and treat her special and make her feel attractive and loved, not only will she like you, but she will also love you for it.
Now understand…
Make a girl like you by making her feel special and unique…
…but what you DON’T do is do it to seek her approval or be a doormat or a wuss. Have standards and demonstrate authority as previously explained.
Moving on…
To make a girl like you here…
…start out by being a chivalrous gentleman
In other words, do nice, sweet, and thoughtful things for her.
Remember her birthday and give her an unexpected gift.
Open doors for her and let her go in first. When you’re getting into a cab, open the door for her. When you’re getting into a building open the door for her. etc.
Take her coat/help her put on her coat.
Pull out her chair for her when you go to a restaurant or a similar locale.
When she’s leaving for her place or dropping her off at her place, be sure to walk her to the door.
Understand…
Don’t overdo these things… you don’t want to create an impression or seem as if you’re trying hard to win her affection.
For instance, when you’re opening a door for her… do it ONLY when you’re the one in front. If you’re behind her and you step ahead to open doors, this will create an impression. Demonstrate authority, remember!
Girls love chivalry and expect them.
Next…
…be attentive to her and notice the small details
Girls like attention.
A girl doesn’t just put on a certain outfit or do her hair nicely by accident…
…she does them to be attractive and look attractive to you.
So if a girl or a female friend of yours is wearing a nice dress or if her hair is done nicely, it isn’t a fluke…
…give her a genuine compliment.
If she’s dressed very elegantly, say to her:
- “Wow, you look stunning in that outfit.”
Understand…
Girls love it when guys notice the unique things about them.
But don’t be complimenting a girl too much.
Plus, never compliment the obvious.
…do not compliment her appearance at all. Unless it is directly related to something she’s wearing.
Don’t use lines like, “You look hot today” or “You’re beautiful”
Compliment her on things that have nothing to do with her looks.
Look for something unique and original. See the parts of her inner personality that she’s desperate to have recognized and compliment her on them… like, her fashion taste. Compliment her when she’s dressed to impress you.
- “Wow, you look stunning in that outfit.”
And be sincere about your compliments. Because a girl can totally tell when you’re saying shit just to get her into bed with you.
Girls love it when nice things are said about them
Next, recognize her efforts
Make a girl like you by letting her know you appreciate what she does for you.
When a girl buys you a gift…
When she pays for dinner…
When a girl cooks for you…
When your girl cleans up after you…
When a girl does something nice for you out of the goodness of her heart…
…say “thank you”.
“Thank you for the present, I really appreciate it.”
“Thank you for cooking dinner for me. It was so good!”
“Thank you for keeping the place clean.”
“Thank you!”
Girls love it when you recognize their efforts.
When you express appreciation for the nice things a girl does for you, she will have a feeling of euphoria, and she will want to do more nice things for you. [Read: ‘When a Girl Does Something Nice for You, How to Respond’]
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And when all is said and done…
…give her a good and a fun time
Girls want to have fun… and when you give a girl a good and fun time, she will like you.
So to make a girl like you here…
…start out by making her laugh to set aside her cares and concerns, and enjoy herself.
You can accomplish this by playfully teasing her and busting her chops ones in a while and even pillow fighting with her. [Read: ‘How to Make a Girl Laugh’]
Next, when you’re with her, let her feel good about herself and being with you.
Engage in something fun and memorable.
Attend a fair.
Go someplace cool for sightseeing.
Go to the mall and window shop for a bit.
Window shop at flea markets.
Head someplace for drinks and grab something to eat.
Enjoy the moment with her and excite her – be physical, make her laugh, whatever.
This will make any girl like you and even increase their attraction for you. [Read: ‘A Simple But Overlooked Tip that Builds Attraction with a Girl Quickly’]
Understand…
…giving a girl a good and fun time doesn’t have to take place at different locations. It can take place in different parts of the same location… for instance, the mall.
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So there you have it…
…how to make a girl like you.
There are several ways to make a girl like you. Even cooking a meal for a girl goes a long way in making her like you.
So again… how to make a girl like you.
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