If you’re new to sex and you want to give a girl exquisite pleasure and even make a girl cum (have an orgasm), then finding and licking the clitoris is essential.
The clitoris is a very powerful sexual organ or a very powerful erogenous zone. Whose sole purpose is to give sexual pleasure. And one that is guaranteed to bring girls or women to orgasms when stimulated in the right way.
Not only is stimulating the clitoris very important when it comes to sex but licking it is the best way for women or girls to enjoy clitoral stimulation.
…because the tongue can produce electric sensations on the clitoris in ways that a finger or a toy cannot.
That said…
…in this short article, I share with you how to find and lick the clitoris.
Before you get started…
…you will want to ask the girl to take a shower with you.
If you will want to or will love to lick a girl, then you will have to start your sexual activity from the shower.
You see, any girl will be reluctant to have someone’s face between her legs when she’s not prepared for it. This is because of the worry of how she might taste or smell down there.
…if a girl doesn’t feel fresh down there, she’s not going to be comfortable having someone lick her.
So again, if you will want to or will love to lick the clitoris, then you will have to start your sexual activity in the shower.
You can say something like…
“Let’s hit the shower and get clean and then fuck our brains out… I want to lick your pussy and make you come hard for me”.
A shower makes us feel clean and fresh…
…and this will help alleviate a girl’s worries or fear of exuding a bad odor down there – she won’t worry about having an unpleasant smell down there. And it will make her receptive and open to having your face between her legs.
Plus, if you have concerns about licking a girl or worry about an unpleasant smell down there, having a girl take a shower will help you to enjoy the light, natural pussy scent.
It’s always a good idea to incorporate a shared bath or shower into your sexual activity. So that you and your woman are clean and fresh for the sex to come.
And if you’re with a new girl, this (shower) is the first thing you need to do to make her comfortable with having your face between her legs.
Genital odor is the number source of anxiety for girls when it comes to receiving oral sex.
That said…
…let’s get started with finding and licking a clitoris.
First…
…finding the clitoris
The clitoris is at the top of the vagina, just above the vaginal opening (or the vagina hole).
The image below should help you know where the clit is and exactly what it looks like:

Have the girl or woman lie on her back on a bed with her legs open, and look directly at her pussy (the colloquial or slang term for the vulva), at the top of the pussy where the vagina lips meet together or split, you will see a fold of skin…
…the clitoris is under this fold of skin (we call this fold of skin the clitoral hood).
Or spread the vaginal lips (the labia majora) with your fingers, and you will see the fold of skin at the top of the vagina…
…pull back (or push up) the fold of skin and you will see a tiny pink organ underneath. That is the clitoris (accurately, the head of the clitoris).
Read: ‘Where to Find the Clitoris’ and ‘How to Find the Clitoris’
Understand:
What is often taken as the clitoris is just the head of the clitoris.
The entire clitoris reaches deep into a girl’s (or a woman’s) genitals…
…so, what you see, that tiny pink organ, is the head of the clitoris (the clitoral head) – the visible part of the larger clitoral network. [Read: ‘10 Interesting Facts about the Clitoris That’ll Make Your Hair Stand on End’]
The clitoris is a supersensitive, nerve-packed sexual organ that exists solely to give girls sexual pleasure… and one that is guaranteed to give them orgasm.
Now, when it comes to licking the clitoris…
…and you can do this:
- by having the girl or woman lying on her back on the bed or other flat surface. This is the most common way to lick the clitoris. Because you have the easiest access to it. And it’s a comfortable position for both of you to be in and enjoy the act.
- she can sit on a bed or couch with her butt at the edge, then you kneel in front of her.
- she can stand with her legs apart (or spread out), then you kneel down before her and between her legs
- you can lie on your back on the bed then have her lower herself onto your mouth in a kneeling position, with her crotch aligned to your mouth… “Sit-On-My-Face” or “Face-Sitting”, they call it
- or she can get on all fours (knees and elbows) in a doggy position
Whichever position you choose…
…you use a thumb to pull back the fold of skin covering the clitoris so the clitoris is exposed, then you lick the clitoris lightly with the tip of your wet tongue in circles, side to side, or up and down repeatedly.
Aside from pushing up the clitoral hood to lick the clitoris, you can also suck on the clitoral area gently into your mouth and use the tip of your wet tongue to flick (or lick) the clitoris lightly from side to side or lick it up and down or trace circles over it repeatedly.
You alternate your moves (your stimulation techniques) to keep things interesting for the girl. That means, if you’re licking the clit up and down, you switch things up and lick from side to side for a little then in circles afterward.
(As usual, as you switch between stimulation methods, pay attention to the girl to see which one gives her the most pleasure… then do it for a little longer.)
And when the girl or woman starts to moan in delight and make twisting, squirming movements of her hips or tilt her genitals up toward your mouth, you suck the clitoris into your mouth and use the tip of your tongue to lick it up and down firmly as if you are drinking from a straw. This move is powerful and it can make girls or women orgasm.
…if you keep at it, the girl or woman will orgasm in no time – have a clitoral orgasm.
Expect the girl to push you away and clamp her legs shut to keep you from licking her further.
Read a related article: ‘How to Lick the Clitoris’
Also read: ‘How to Stimulate the Clitoris’ and ‘The Types of Clitoral Stimulation’
Licking the clitoris with the tongue is the best way girls and women enjoy clitoral stimulation.
So, there you have it…
…finding and licking a clitoris.

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So again, there you have it…
…finding and licking a clitoris.
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