“The golden rule of picking up women is to pay attention and keep your eyes peeled for the gestures and signals that women who are open to meeting you give off. It will make your job a million times easier!” ~ Joseph Matthews.
The easiest way to approach a girl or a woman you desire or find attractive is to read what her body tells you… the female attraction signals.
If you can read the body language of women, you will know which women are interested in you and will be open to your approach… and which women you’re probably wasting your time on.
In this article, I share with you some common female body language a girl or a woman gives off that indicate or signal she’s attracted to you.
I start out by giving you the attraction signals a girl or a woman gives off that indicate she will be open to you approaching her. After that, I give you other signals a girl or a woman gives off during your interaction with her that indicate she’s into you… and thus, if you make a move on her she’s less likely to reject your advances.
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Actions speak louder than words
As the saying goes, “actions speak louder than words,” and nothing could be truer when it comes to women and dating.
To borrow a phrase from dating expert Joseph Matthews, “The golden rule of picking up women is to pay attention and keep your eyes peeled for the gestures and signals that women who are open to meeting you give off. It will make your job a million times easier!”
Yes, approaching girls or women will be a million times easier when you know the girls or women that will be receptive to talking to you.
You will know when a girl or a woman is making se*ual advances towards you… and when to make a move without getting rejected.
Keep in mind, the majority of girls or women will never make the first move when they’re attracted to a guy. But they will intentionally give off signals to get your attention so that you will approach them or make the first move.
With that said, let’s get started on some common female body language that indicates or signals a girl or a woman is attracted to a guy.
Common female body language that indicates a woman is attracted to a guy
Again, as I mentioned earlier, “actions speak louder than words,” and nothing could be truer when it comes to women and dating.
So, when you’re looking to approach a girl or a woman you desire or if you want to make a move on the girl or woman you desire, keep your eyes peeled for the following:
- How she stares at you from afar
- What she does with her legs
- How she sits vertically towards you
- How she walks past you
- The head toss
- Her lips
- What she does with her hands
When you notice some of the above gestures or signals from a woman or a girl, there’s a high chance that she’s attracted to you someway. [Watch a video on the common signals girls give off that indicate they are open to being approached]
Let’s go into detail.
#1. The sideways glance
This is a flirting female body language.
This is when she stares at you over her shoulder until you notice her… and then she looks away.
A girl or a woman who is attracted to you and wants you to approach her will give you this flirting look.
So, if you are in a coffee shop or a bar and you catch a girl or a woman looking at you, it’s a “GO” signal…
The next female body language is the…
…opened legs (provided she’s wearing a skirt) (#2)
When a woman or a matured girl keeps her legs closed, she is protecting her genital area.
But when she sits vertically towards you and INTENTIONALLY opens her legs – making her genitals more vulnerable – it signals her attraction for you.
She wants you to approach her and talk to her.
Keep in mind, a girl or a woman will not fully open her legs, though… it will be very subtle, exposing just a slight gap.
The next female body language and a similar leg gesture is when a woman or a girl…
…crosses her legs in front of you (again, provided she’s wearing a skirt) (#3)
When a girl or a woman does this on purpose, she will slowly cross her legs in front of you… trying to draw your attention to what’s between her legs.
This is also a major “GO” signal… and she wants you to approach her and talk to her.
Still on the leg… to the next sign of interest.
#4. Exposed thigh
Here’s when a girl or a woman INTENTIONALLY and slightly exposes her thigh and/or strokes it in your presence…
…she is calling your attention to her thigh, which also signals her interest in you.
This is also a major “GO” signal which means she will be receptive to your advances.
To the next female body language…
#5. Where her knee points
When a girl sits with her legs crossed and she SUBCONSCIOUSLY points her knee (the knee of the leg tucked in) towards you, it means she has an interested in you. [Read ‘How to Tell If a Girl Likes You’ and ‘How to Tell If a Girl is Interested in You’]
You would agree with me that a curvy young woman in a tight dress or jeans is very pleasing in appearance?
Now, when such a woman prominently moves her hips side to side as she walks past you, she’s drawing your attention to her hips… and she wants you to approach her and talk to her.
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During your interaction with a woman… the gestures that tell she’s into you
Now, let’s take a look at the other signals a girl or a woman gives off during your interaction with her that indicate she’s into you… and thus, if you make a move on her she’s less likely to reject your advances.
#7. Lips licking and the wet lips
Another UNCONSCIOUS indicator to look out.
Pay close attention to a woman’s mouth and it will tell you if you’ve successfully created an arousal in her.
Wet lips, slightly drawn apart is a sign of interest and arousal.
When she starts licking her lips while talking to you, that is not the only place getting wet.
The last female body language to look out for is…
…what she does with her hand (#8)
Is she curling her hair? Then your seduction is working.
Is she slowly stroking or touching herself? Then probably she wants you to touch or hold her.
Is she slowly moving a pen over her lips and somewhat gazing seductively at you? Then she is telling you something… why don’t you go in for a kiss?
Is she fondling objects like pens, sunglasses, drinking glasses, or even stroking her thigh? Then you’ve successfully got her attracted.
So, there you have it… 8 female body language and attraction signals that indicate a girl or a woman is attracted to you.
Reading female body language will help you know which women are interested in you and will be open to your approach… and which women you’re probably wasting your time on.
These are not the only gestures and signals a girl or a woman gives off that indicate her interest in a guy. [Read 68 signs a girl gives off that signal her interest and attraction for a guy]
Approaching women or girls you desire should be easier once you can read what their body tells you… and with the gestures and signals a girl or a woman gives off, you can make your move in ways that won’t get you rejected.
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