Here’s how to stir up se*ual feelings in a woman and make her feel a se*ual connection to you.
This approach to talking to a woman makes you stand out from other guys and sets you up as an attractive guy. Thereby increasing your chances of “getting physical” with the woman you’re interested in. Because when you engage a woman in this form of conversation, not only does it make her want to keep talking to you, it also turns her on and gets her thinking about s*x with you.
Now, what conversational technique am I talking about here…
…this is none other than taking your conversation with a woman SE*UAL. Or more accurately, talking about se*ual topics.
Most men are afraid to offend a woman
Unfortunately, this ISN’T what most men talk about with a woman they want to get into a romantic relationship with.
Most men only talk about safe and neutral topics with a woman they’re interested in. Because they’re afraid of the negative impression the woman might have of them.
But the truth is, women enjoy having se*ual conversations.
They enjoy that tingly feeling of se*ual tension.
And the guy who can stir up those se*ual feelings in her is the one she’ll be attracted to.
And the best way to trigger those feelings in her is to take your conversation with her se*ual.
Your goal for attracting women…
You need to make a woman think of you as a potential dating partner and not as a friend.
Truth is, if you keep talking with a girl or a woman you desire without creating se*ual tension, she will categorize you as a friend in her mind. She will see you as JUST A FRIEND, but not someone she feels se*ually attracted to.
So, when you’re talking to a woman you want to have a romantic relationship with, your goal is to make her feel a se*ual connection to you by making your conversation with her se*ual in nature.
In addition to the neutral conversations you will be having with her, you have to move towards se*ual suggestive topics to stir up those se*ual feelings in her.
When you’re able to successfully engage a woman in such a conversation, you show her that you’re comfortable talking about topics of se*ual nature with women. Which makes her comfortable with you enough to get se*ual with you. (Understand: she will give you hints to get se*ual… you have to take the lead)
Now, how do you have a se*ual conversation with a woman in a way that doesn’t suggest you want to have s*x with her? (Of course, not at that moment)
Let’s get to it…
…how to successfully engage a woman in a se*ual conversation
Again, women enjoy having se*ual conversations.
However, most of them are reluctant to talk about it with men they barely know, mostly because they don’t feel comfortable with them. Plus, they don’t want to be regarded as promiscuous.
Now, to successfully engage a woman in a se*ual conversation, you have to GRADUALLY introduce se*ual themes into your conversations with her, and make her comfortable talking about s*x with you.
What I’ve found to work best is to:
- Ask her opinion on something about s*x, or bring up a se*ual situation of a friend of yours.
- Talk about things from a se*ual perspective.
- Playfully use words with se*ual connotations to feed her mind (called double entendre).
- Use “that’s what she said” jokes when she says something that is implied.
- Use se*ual innuendos (use this one with caution).
When you start introducing se*ual themes into your conversations with a woman, you’ll notice that she will be open to talking to you about anything, and even reveals her darkest desire.
Because here, you separate yourself from the guys she knows, who are scared to go down this path with her… thereby making you confident and attractive in her eyes.
Understand: You need to gain rapport with a woman first before you start introducing se*ual themes into your conversations with her. So talk about neutral topics and engage her in a conversation with the “I want to know you approach”, then gradually introduce se*ual themes into the conversation. [Read how to talk to women and the simple 3 step-approach to talking to women]
With that said, let’s go into detail.
1. Asking her opinion on something about s*x, or bringing up a se*ual situation of a friend of yours
DON’T just jump into it… make sure what you’re talking about with her relates to the se*ual topic you want to bring up, then transition into talking about s*x.
This first example is to act RELUCTANTLY to get her to be receptive:
- “I’ve been meaning to ask you this. I need a female opinion on something, but I don’t know if it will be okay with you because it’s kinda… a mature subject. It’s… uh, NEVER MIND”
Here, she will push you to ask the question because she will be curious to know what THAT “mature” subject is.
When she gives you permission to talk about it, you talk about it.
Next, you can bring up a se*ual situation of a friend of yours and ask her opinion about it.
- “A female friend of mine thinks her boyfriend doesn’t like the idea of going down on her, because he isn’t taking the hints she’s giving him… how do women hint that sort of thing?”
If you can initiate a se*ual topic in a way that doesn’t suggest you want to have s*x with her, she will be receptive to talking about se*ual topics with you. Here, the key is to initiate a topic of se*ual nature in passing.
When she’s comfortable with you, or comfortable talking about s*x, you’ll know from her reaction or response. If she seems uncomfortable, change the topic.
2. Talking about things from the se*ual perspective
When you’re talking about a movie, a music video, etc., and there’s a sensual scene, make a comment about it, and strive to engage her in the conversation.
3. Using words with se*ual connotations to feed her mind (called double entendre)
Playfully and confidently slip in words with se*ual connotations into your normal conversation with a woman.
- “I didn’t come with her”
- “Boy, this is really hard”
4. Using “That’s what she said jokes” when she says something that is implied
Similar to using words with se*ual connotations is to use “that’s what she said” jokes when she says something that is implied.
For example, when she says something like:
- “Put it inside”
- “It’s much better when it’s wet”
- “Do you wanna come inside” (that is, when she’s inviting you into her apartment)
…you respond with:
- “That’s what she said”
…then seductively gaze into her eyes and give her that sexy smile.
5. Using se*ual innuendos
Use this one with caution.
You don’t want to go into this territory during the early stages of meeting a woman.
So make sure you’ve gained rapport with her first and you can tell she’s into you, before using se*ual innuendos.
When all is said and done, the impression you want a woman to have of you is ‘a man who is comfortable talking about s*x’.
Because, if you can stir up se*ual feelings in a woman and make her feel a se*ual connection to you, you separate yourself from the other guys she meets and you will be the one she will be attracted to.
Watch how she responds or reacts when you introduce se*ual themes in your conversations.
If you can tell she’s comfortable with them, keep at it.
But if she seems uncomfortable, back off a little.
Nevertheless, don’t shy away from talking about topics of se*ual nature with a woman you want to get into a romantic relationship with.
By using my five step-approach, it is pretty easy to take your conversation with a woman se*ual. And once you notice she’s comfortable and playing along, IT’S GAME ON.
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