What is the best way to approach a girl or woman, you may ask?
Here it is…
…sneak in under her usual suspicion.
What do I mean by this?
Don’t telegraph or be transparent with your interest in the girl. Don’t give the girl the impression that you approached her because you’re interested in her.
…why would you approach a girl in the first place?
…it’s because you like her or are attracted to her and you want the two of you to interact so that you will eventually have a relationship with her.
That’s every guy’s objective and every girl knows that…
…but you don’t want to telegraph that.
Sure, there are some situations like approaching a girl at a social venue like parties and singles events like Valentine’s day parties that you CANNOT really hide your intentions. Because like Valentine’s day parties, for instance, you’re there to meet someone, she’s there to meet someone, the whole atmosphere spells ‘HOOKUP’, and anyway you approach, provided you don’t come across lame, she will be receptive and responsive to you.
Nevertheless, the best way to approach a girl, or more particularly, the best way to approach a girl in public is to sneak in under her usual suspicion.
Why sneak in under a girl’s usual suspicion when you approach her?
Because not only are girls approached and get hit on all the time, but they are also under the impression that the reason we guys approach them at all is that we are attracted to them… and EVEN want to get into their pants.
So, with this, they often and naturally put their shields up – they act a little quiet and get a little insulated – when a guy begins to talk to them to keep him away. [Read: ‘9 Of the Top Reasons Girls Reject Guys’]
And this makes interaction with them difficult.
Not only does the average girl never wants to feel like a guy is interested in her solely to get into her pants because she worries about being used and dumped, but the very attractive ones can act any way they want toward guys because they consider themselves the supply and we guys have the demand. [Read: ‘The Undeniable Fact About Girls’]
Also Read: Why Girls Behave the Way They Do
Now, by sneaking in under a girl’s usual suspicion, you make her more receptive and responsive to talking to you. The less a girl thinks you approached her out of interest, the lower her guard is. And the higher your chances of getting what you set out to get.
Here, your encounter is unplanned or spontaneous. And hence, will keep a girl from putting up any resistance.
How to Sneak in Under A Girl’s Usual Suspicion
…or in other words, how to not be transparent with your interest in the girl.
First off, don’t let her see you walking up to her. Remember… you want to sneak in under her usual suspicion.
Now, to talk to her, don’t use a pickup line like “Are you from Tennessee, because you’re the only ten I see”. Same with compliments – avoid giving compliments. It communicates your intentions and it could make a girl reject you. This is bad in almost all settings… unless she’s there looking to hook up with someone.
Simply use a question or remark to initiate a conversation with her. Here, you can notice something interesting about her to comment on…
- “Cool tattoo… what’s the story behind it?”
Or you can comment on whatever is happening at the present moment:
- “Look at the puppy… isn’t it cute?”
- “That looks like an interesting drink/shampoo. What’s in that?”
And last but not the least, you can simply ask her a generic question or ask her opinion or her (female) perspective on something:
- “Hi, I need a female opinion on something…”
This way, you make a girl more receptive to talking to you and responsive.
Talk about the current matter for a while then gradually transition into small talks.
Read: ‘How to Start a Conversation with a Girl’ and ‘How to Talk to Girls’
Now, from here onward, stay very cool, and calm, relax and speak slowly and calculated. Don’t be smiling excessively. [Read: ‘When You Meet and Approach a Girl for The First Time…’]
And when all is said and done, don’t be preoccupied with whether the girl is going to like you or not. This messes up your thinking and keeps you from being yourself and thinking of clever things to say.
Read More: How to Approach a Girl
Approaching a girl or woman you find attractive for the first time can be daunting. But stay cool, relax, and be yourself. [Read: ‘Fear of Approaching Girls: The Overlooked Cause, And How to Approach A Girl Without Fear’]
Keep Reading: When You Meet a Girl for The First Time, Should You Go for Her Number or Go for a Date?
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So, there you have it…
…the best way to approach a girl or woman.
Sneak in under her usual suspicion. Don’t give her the impression that you approached her because you’re interested in her.
Because not only are girls approached and get hit on all the time, but they are also under the impression that the reason we guys approach them at all is that we are attracted to them… and EVEN want to get into their pants. And this often causes them to put their shields up when a guy begins to talk to them to keep him away. Which makes interaction with them difficult.
But, here’s a fact:
If you’re hot, you can approach a girl anyhow you want and have her respond to you favorably.
Good looks cause girls or women to act naturally receptive and responsive to guys.
Good looks ‘push a button’ and trigger certain feelings inside of a girl or woman.
When a girl or a woman sees a good-looking guy, she feels an instant attraction for him.
Now, if you’re hot and you sneak in under a girl’s usual suspicion, the girl will be super receptive and responsive to you. [Nevertheless, read: ‘How to Get Girls When You Don’t Have the Male-Model Good Looks’]
Read More: 7 Female Attraction Signals Every Man Needs to Know
Also Read: 3 Crazy Things Girls Do to Get Guys to Approach Them
Click Here for More Advanced Tips on How to Get Girls
So, again, there you have it…
…the best way to approach a girl or woman.
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