It’s common knowledge that men fall in love by sight…
…in other words, a man sees a beautiful or physically attractive woman and he feels an instant attraction for her.
With this, most men think that women also fall in love this way.
But that’s not the case.
Unlike men who are attracted to a beautiful face and a nice body, women are attracted to something far more than just looks.
Ever wondered why lots of girls and women seem to be found with men who are not your typical idea of a good-looking guy? Or why they feel NO attraction for men who have all of the outward appearances and money?
Because attraction works very differently for women than it does for men.
How girls and women feel attraction is different from how men feel attraction.
A man sees a physically attractive woman and he feels an instant attraction for her… but that’s not how attraction for a woman works.
Girls and women are emotional people
Unlike men who are attracted to a beautiful face and a nice body, attraction for a woman happens unconsciously to the attractive personality trait a man exhibits.
In other words, women are attracted to us by our behavior and mannerism and how good we make them feel EMOTIONALLY and SEXUALLY. [Read: ‘Personality Traits Women Find Most Attractive in a Guy’]
It’s a man’s personality that draws women to him
A man can drive a nice car and treat a woman to an expensive dinner… yet the woman won’t find him attractive. [Read: ‘Why Women Don’t Choose Men That Are Good For Them’]
He may be nice and kind and come from a good family… still, a woman won’t feel attracted to him. [Read: ‘Why Women Don’t Find Nice Guys Attractive’]
He may seem a good long-term relationship material but a woman wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with him. [Read: ‘The First Mistake to Avoid When You Decide to Date a Woman’]
Again, attraction works very differently for women than it does for men.
An attraction for women is NOT about looks nor money
Sure, good-looking guys have an advantage… they have a good head start when it comes to the dating game.
Their looks cause girls and women to be receptive to them.
A woman will see a good-looking guy and might be attracted to him initially…
…but looks are less important to a woman.
Money also, on the other hand, symbolizes the ability to provide for a woman… but women do NOT develop feelings for a man because of his money.
Women are far more interested in the way we make them feel rather than looks and money.
Even a woman who is interested in looks to some degree is MORE interested in how the guy makes her feel.
If a good-looking guy fails to make a girl or a woman feel good emotionally and sexually, any attraction the girl or the woman felt for him initially will be lost.
So unlike us (men) who see all attractive women as potential sex partners… women don’t see good-looking men this way.
Here’s a secret tip:
When the good-looking guy does his job well, it can lead to significant results. [Read: ‘How to Attract a Girl or a Woman (and Make Her Fall Head-Over-Heels for You)’]
An attraction for a woman is about how she feels towards a man
Again, women feel attracted to men that exhibit attractive personality traits and can make them feel good emotionally and sexually. [Read: ‘A Simple and Powerful Way to Connect with a Woman on a Deep Emotional Level’]
If you can make a girl or a woman feel good emotionally, if you can make her feel happy and have fun, she will feel attracted to you and will be attached to you. Plus, when you can stir up sexual feelings and desire inside her, she will be fixated on you and will be literally obsessed with you. [I have written an e-book on how to make any woman feel a strong sexual desire for you, get it here.]
A woman will find you attractive and want you because she loves how she feels when she’s with you… because you make her feel good.
Even when you’re not insanely good looking but you can make a girl or a woman laugh and feel good, she will feel a strong attraction for you. [Read: ‘Good Looks and Attraction: How to Get Girls When You Don’t Have the Male-Model Good Looks’]
The kind of man women feel a strong attraction for
The man who:
- is fun to be around with… someone who makes them laugh and have fun
- talks to them on an emotional level and understands them and listen to them
- makes them feel special and wanted and is spontaneous
- makes them feel excited, sexy, and turned-on rather than bored
- is totally self-confident and isn’t in need of approval or insecure
- demonstrates dominance and has qualities that are untamable… someone who is decisive and a leader and doesn’t let anyone walk over him, one who is experienced enough to know how to deal with their tests and drama and keeps them on their toes through a challenge
It is who you are on the inside (your attractive personality traits) and how you make her feel emotionally and sexually that makes women feel attracted to you.
Bragging, showing off, putting people down, trying to one-up people, and other similar unattractive behaviors don’t make a woman feel attraction.
Being good-looking, coming from a good family, having a nice car, living in a beautiful house also doesn’t make a woman feel attracted to you.
But being sexy, charming, communicating with women on an emotional level, stirring sexual feelings and desire inside them, is what makes women feel attracted to you.
Again, it is who you are on the inside (the attractive personality traits) and how you make her feel emotionally and sexually that attracts women to you.
Women want to feel good and sexual, so they gravitate towards men who make them feel that way. If you become the man who makes women feel good and sexual, you become the man they gravitate toward.
You don’t need a lot of money, or an expensive car or fabulous good looks to attract and get a girl or a woman to want you. All you need to have is an attractive personality – the one thing that overrides any financial and appearance factors.
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