One of The Best Ways to Attract Women and Have Them Pursue You

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“If she thinks you want her too much, you’re going to lose your leverage.” – Carlos Xuma

Movies and friends have led us to believe that if you’re interested in a girl, you have to DESPERATELY pursue her, take her out to expensive dinners, buy her things, and spend tons of money on her to impress her and get her interested in you.

Sure, that might work on a gold digger who just wants your money.

But that’s not how to go about attracting the ‘perfect’ girl to you.

Why?

Because not only do you come across as needy and desperate but when a woman knows she’s got your interest already it raises her value and power.

Okay, so you know you SHOULDN’T spend a lot of money on a girl or desperately pursue her to win her affection…

So how do you attract a girl to you and have her chase you?

Simple…

…be a challenge for her

One of the best ways to make women or girls chase you is to be a challenge for her.

What this means is that, instead of calling a girl on the phone all the time and being too available… acting apologetic in order not to offend a girl… buying things for a girl to please her… and doing all the wimpish things in the hopes that a girl likes you… DO THE OPPOSITE.

Don’t be a hopeless romantic or show too much interest.

Instead, strive to exhibit attractive MANLY mannerisms and behaviors to pull her to you.

In simple words, make girls chase you by virtue of your attractive personality.

That is, make her have fun with you, including mini-dating with her. Have emotional relevant conversations with her. Be funny and make her laugh, demonstrate confidence and dominance, etc…

…but, DO NOT desperately pursue her like most guys do.

Pull women to you instead of having to chase them.

Stand out in an attractive way

You see, attractive women or pretty girls are used to having guys desperately pursuing them.

But if you are indifferent to a woman, you give her the impression that you’re the prize and hence, YOU ARE the one worth pursuing.

This makes you valuable and fulfilling to her.

But understand this: You don’t want to act too much DISINTERESTED. Because when there’s no interest on your part, the woman won’t feel the need to chase you.

So what I recommend is to express your desire. Let her know you find her attractive, and you’re not afraid to make a move. Here, you will mini-date with her (learn how here), flirt with her [read how to flirt with a girl], give her some attention, etc.

But don’t DESPERATELY pursue her.

SUBTLY show interest, but leave her guessing and wondering whether you’re interested in her or not.

Convey to her you have options, and you can walk away anytime. Especially when she’s acting b!tchy or plays hard to get.

That’s when the CHASE begins.

If you successfully create attraction and you act as if you’re not interested in her, she will be obsessed with you and will be intent on getting you.

Because, not only are you NOT desperately pursuing her like most guys will do, but you embody the personality traits that make you attractive – fun to be around, self-confidence, humor, dominance, etc. [Read ‘The Personality Traits Women Find Attractive in A Guy’]

Keep reading: A Powerful Way to Build Attraction with A Girl You Have a Crush On

When there’s no interest on your part, the woman won’t feel the need to chase you.

Conclusion: How to be a challenge for a woman or a girl

When you initially meet an attractive woman, you have to give her the impression that you’re not like the guys she meets… so don’t approach a girl or a woman with a compliment or a come-on.

Don’t put a woman on a pedestal.

Don’t kiss a woman’s a$$ or do things to please her. Including buying her things to win her affection.

Don’t brag or show off to impress a woman. This communicates to her you’re insecure and needy.

Don’t put up with a woman’s BS.

Disagree with her when she’s in the wrong.

And learn to disappoint or say “no” – that means, do things for a girl because you want to and not because she asks you to. [Read ‘How to Be an Alpha Male’]

And as you act indifferent to a woman, demonstrate your manly qualities… example, show self-confidence, dominance, assertiveness, etc. [Read ‘The Personality Traits Women Find Attractive in A Guy’]

You should also bust her chops or playfully banter with her to convey to her you’re not like the guys she’s used to dealing with.

When you non-verbally communicate to a girl or a woman that you’re the prize and therefore has to work for your affection, you’ll increase your attractiveness. And she will be the one chasing you instead.

So, to conclude… when you meet an attractive woman or a pretty girl, act as if you are not really interested in her… but strive to pull her to you by exhibiting attractive MANLY mannerisms and behaviors.

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