“If you want to make women feel ‘gut level’ attraction for you without having to expend too much effort, then emulate the body language of an alpha male.”
Haven’t you always wondered what it is that certain men have that makes them so successful with women?
These men have certain traits that get women all over them… clamoring for their attention.
These men are what we call the alpha men.
The alpha man is different from the average man.
He is the man every man wants to be and every woman wants to be with.
He exhibits traits that make him masculine (masculine body language), and most especially, desirable… and this is what attracts women.
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What traits am I talking about here?
You don’t have to be good-looking or rich to be attractive to women. [Read ‘How to Get Girls When You Don’t Have the Male-Model Good Looks’]
Instead, you need to have certain traits that are far more important than riches and good looks.
Traits that signal, “I am alpha and any woman will be lucky to be with me”.
So what traits am I talking about here?
These traits are none other than the right body language.
As you portray the right body language, or more precisely the alpha male body language, you too can be attractive to women and have the hottest women clamoring for your attention. [Read ‘The 21 Alpha Male Characteristics That Makes a Man Stand Out’]
The Alpha Male Body Language and Behaviors
What body language does the Alpha Man exhibit that catches women attention?
The alpha man…
- walks with purpose
- has a relaxed and spread-out posture
- takes up space in a crowded area
- holds strong eye contact when interacting with people
- smiles only when there is something to smile about
Now, when you emulate or exhibit these alpha male body language, you’ll notice that women will gravitate towards you and will respond to you with a high level of se*ual interest and attraction.
Let’s go into detail.
Walking with purpose
Not too fast… not too slow.
When an alpha male is walking down the street, it gets people’s attention… both men and women.
The alpha man walks unhurriedly.
He holds his head high and walks with swagger.
He knows what he wants from life, and he is actively pursuing it.
This conveys confidence… and it is no secret that women are attracted to men with confidence.
Walking with purpose communicates or signals to women that aside from being confident in yourself, there’s more to life than chasing skirt.
Carlos Xuma in his course ‘Secrets of the Alpha Man’ calls this the ‘Purposeful walk’…
“Not too slow, but not speed-walking like old people in the mall. A brisk walk shows intention and that you’ve got somewhere to be. You’re not just aimlessly wandering the streets looking for something to come to you. You’re outgoing after what you want.”
This is the sort of man hot women pursue or try to win over.
So, when you are walking, walk with purpose.
To borrow a phrase from Joseph Matthews, author of ‘The Art of Approaching’, “when you move, move with grace. I’m not talking about a ballerina type of grace here, but rather an ‘arrogant’ sort of grace that will garner attention.”
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The next alpha body language is…
…having a relaxed and spread-out posture
The alpha male posture is relaxed… whether he is standing or sitting.
The alpha man uses his body to attract women… he stands straight with his shoulders back, hands at his side, and feet slightly apart.
This is the body language to emulate.
When you stand, stand straight with your chest out and head held up high.
Don’t slouch or hunched over.
And don’t cross your arms (this posture somewhat keeps people away).
When you sit, lean back and lounge… and spread out your body.
Avoid nervous behaviors, such as twitching your nose, licking, pursing or biting your lips (do that in the restroom, where no woman is watching).
Also, avoid fidgeting nervously… like fidgeting with a pen or physical objects.
Instead, hold a purposeful stance that doesn’t appear nervous (even if you are nervous inside).
Also, keep in mind that women will pick up on what you do way more than what you say…
…so when speaking or explaining something, add some facial expressions and slow hand gestures.
Your posture tells a lot about you, so use yours to attract women.
To the next alpha male body language.
Don’t be afraid to take up space
…especially if you are in a crowded area.
The alpha man doesn’t allow people to push him around.
He holds his ground by not letting others take up his space.
So when you are standing in a group or in a crowded area, take up space by maintaining a broad stance.
Even when you sit, lean back and expose your crotch.
Don’t let others crowd you.
But this doesn’t mean you should be rude to people (especially in crowded areas) and prevent them from coming into contact with you.
Make physical contact with them… but take up space.
The next attractive male body language or an alpha male body language that attracts women…
…the alpha man holds strong eye contact with everyone
Make strong eye contact with everyone you talk to… including women you pass on the street (regardless of whether or not you find them attractive).
To borrow a phrase from dating expert, Carlos Xuma…
“The eyes communicate an immense amount about you. From where you look to how long you hold your gaze. The way you use your eyes is a primary indication of your status in the pack. If you can hold prolonged eye contact, you immediately communicate Alpha status.”
Making prolonged eye contact when talking to people gives the impression of dominance. [Read the #1 trait that attracts women]
Also, as author John Alexander has written in his book ‘How to Become an Alpha Male’…
Don’t keep your eyes wide open, relax them…
…and keep them sexy, especially when talking to a girl or a woman.
When you see a girl or woman you like or are interested in, make direct eye contact and hold it for as long as you can.
You can also give them a nod and a smile if you want to.
The next alpha male body language is to…
…smile only when there is something to smile about
This doesn’t mean you should keep a serious expression all the time.
Even though smiling conveys an engaging friendly attitude, smile only when there is something to smile about. (Don’t do it way too much)
Smile occasionally, but not excessively.
Smile when you meet someone for the very first time. And when you are talking to them, smile when there is something that is worth smiling about… smile and relax your look.
Know when to smile and when to keep a serious expression.
In other words, as pick up expert John Alexander puts it…
“Make sure to strike a balance between dominance and likeability. If you never smile, then the woman won’t like you. But if you smile excessively, it makes you seem like you have low social status – you are trying too hard.”
Too much smiling can come across as supplication or approval seeking.
Understand this… Don’t be afraid to laugh when you are having a good time. Everyone loves a good time.
Bonus Tip – Make physical contact with women
As an alpha man, don’t be afraid to touch a girl or a woman when talking to her. [Read how to touch women]
Not only does it helps strengthen the comfort and connection you are building with her, but it also signals you are confident and you are not afraid to touch women.
Touch a girl or a woman when you’re making a point.
Physically moving her around or hold her hand to lead her around.
If you are telling a funny story and she is laughing, reach out and touch her lightly on the arm or shoulder.
Touch her hand, wrist, forearm, and even her knee (when sitting beside or across her)
If a woman allows you to touch her without retreating, then it means she is comfortable with you. But if she reacts in the negative, then you will know you haven’t done a good job of getting her to feel an attraction for you. [Read if you can do this to a woman without getting bitch-slapped, she’s ready to be kissed]
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So there you have it… the alpha male attraction secrets, the 5 alpha male body language and behaviors that instantly get a woman’s attention and make a woman feel an instant attraction for you.
Now you know how to walk like an alpha male… you know the alpha male body posture and the alpha male sitting posture.
You know the body language alpha male uses in crowded areas.
You also know the alpha male eye contact is to indicate dominant and confident behavior.
You know the alpha man smile only when there is something to smile about.
So if you’ve ever wondered what certain men had that get the girls all over them, well you now know.
Emulate these traits or body language and any girl or woman who sees you will find you attractive and clamor for your attention.
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