It’s true that women have their likes and dislikes when it comes to the guys they find desirable.
Some women like the large muscle and others prefer the thin, intellectual types.
Others tastes vary over a variety of aspects like physical looks, age, and race.
But there is one personality trait that is almost universally attractive to all women.
In my experience, I’ve learned that if you project this personality trait, women will find you attractive. No matter your looks or financial capability.
Now, what trait am I talking about here? It’s being a dominant guy.
Dominance is one of the classic “manly” traits
Dominance is not about being overly aggressive or slapping women around.
It is a social power, which comes from assertiveness.
It is showing women that you’re a better choice than the other guys they meet.
There are several ways you can convey a dominant male status. You simply have to consciously control the non-verbal cues you send out.
That is, by using your voice, eyes, and posture, you create an impression within a woman that you are dominant guy.
Women are repulsed by guys who act needy and crave their approval.
Therefore showing women that you can take charge of any situation and steer it towards your desired outcome, you separate yourself from other guys.
So how can you act like a dominant man?
1. Hold strong eye contact
Looking down when talking to people communicates a sense of low status. Making eye contact especially when you’re talking to a woman tells her that you’re a dominant guy.
A dominant guy is not afraid to gaze directly at people.
2. Display your authority
Women loves men in a power position.
Don’t be afraid to voice your opinion. When you speak, don’t be afraid to speak your mind.
Control the conversation and don’t be afraid to interrupt the other person. Hesitating and hedging gives off the impression that you’re less powerful and are not confident in yourself.
3. Don’t be afraid to take the initiative and make a move
Instead of observing a woman’s body language, the average guy makes the mistake by paying too much attention to what to say next.
When you pay attention to a woman’s body language, you’ll often find that she’ll tell you something that’s the complete opposite of what she feels.
The dominant guy understands the distinction between verbal and non-verbal communication a woman sends out. When he sees a woman he’s interested in, he’s not afraid to take the initiative and make a move.
4. Maintain control of every situation you encounter
If you want to easily attract women, you need to show them that you’re in control.
Women always encounter weak and needy guys – guys who constantly look to women for approval. Therefore if you act in a position of dominance, you demonstrate confidence in yourself and that you can take charge of any situation.
Here, pay attention to the woman’s body language. Since women tell us one thing verbally, but their body language is saying something completely different, use what her body language is saying to control the situation.
For instance, look at what her hands are doing; when she fondles cylindrical objects like drinking glasses, you know she’s enjoying your interaction.
5. Display the right kind of body language
A woman will find you attractive based NOT on your words, instead on the tone of your body language.
If you want to show women that you’re a high-status guy, then you must give off a positive body language.
There are lots of nonverbal indicators to avoid. For instance, when you’re talking to a woman, don’t be looking around the room, instead gaze directly at her.
Don’t look down – hold your head high and keep your chin up. Expose your neck and look at the person you’re talking to.
Don’t fold or cross your arms in front of you or have your hands in your pockets, instead, hook your thumbs in your back pockets.
Take up space with your body wherever you go. Show your dominance and leadership whenever you’re in public by spreading out a little.
6. Develop the habit of controlling a conversation
If want to display your authority and show women that you’re a dominant guy, you need to make her believe you by acting confident in what you say.
This means, you need to lead an interaction – control the conversation you’re having with her and steer it towards topic you’re knowledgeable, but make sure she’s included.
Talk about things that help build attraction and avoid boring topics which do nothing to maintain that chemistry, such as job, interest, hometown, background, etc.
While these topics are useful for rapport, they do nothing to build attraction.
To become an authority, you have to become comfortable with any topic that’s discussed – you’ll have to learn about a variety of topics, including entertainment, sports, psychology and human relations, world events and new experiences.
Learning about the world helps you have a lot of topics to discuss when you meet a woman for the first time.
7. Work on your tonality and use a louder voice
Most at times, it’s not the words you say that’s attractive to a woman, but it’s how you say them.
A guy with a confident and powerful voice can be very seductive to women.
In order to turn women on by how you speak, you need to concentrate on four areas, including your speed, volume, modulation and your pitch.
Don’t speak too fast during a conversation. This gives off the impression that you feel anxious and nervous. Instead, speak slow and clear.
Also speak loudly, in a natural manner without shouting, so that the person hears what you have to say.
Next, don’t talk to a woman like a robot. Talk with passion and include humor in your speech.
Finally, lower the pitch of your voice whenever you’re in a social interaction. Women go crazy over a deep voice. Talk in a slow, deep manner that uses a wide range of emotion.
What makes this personality trait so important?
First, it shows that you can take charge of a situation and steer it towards your desired outcome.
Next, it also shows you’re not afraid of others and don’t back down from a challenge. Even though you’re respectful of a woman’s wishes, you don’t take “no” for an answer. You keep trying when other guys give up.
And finally, being dominant means that you never allow people to push you around. Even if you’re disrespected, you rarely lose your temper, and you confront anyone that causes you trouble.
Dominance is the number one trait that attracts women. Women are attracted to dominant guys – guys that can take charge of a situation and steer it towards their desired outcome.
Being dominant doesn’t mean you should be too aggressive. To act in a dominant manner, remember to make strong eye contact when talking to women, voice your opinion and don’t be afraid to speak your mind.
Avoid the submissive behavior that lots of guys display, instead take the initiative and make a move whenever you see a woman you’re interested in – you as a dominant male must take the lead.
Whenever someone wrong or disrespect you, you address his or her rude action. Stand up for yourself and let the person know your standards.
Maintain control of every situation you encounter by paying attention to the woman’s body language.
Display the right kind of body language and show women that you’re a high-status guy. Lead an interaction and steer it towards topic you’re knowledgeable, but make sure she’s included.
Talk about things that help build attraction and avoid boring topics which do nothing to maintain that chemistry between both of you.
And remember, it’s not the words you say that’s attractive to a woman, but it’s how you say them. Therefore work on your tonality and use a louder voice.