Becoming the One Guy in the Room Women Find Attractive

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What if I told you that there are some qualities in us that all women find attractive?

And what if I told you if you display those qualities, you will become instantly desirable to lots of women?

It doesn’t take large muscles to get women attracted to you. In fact, women can find you desirable no matter your looks or financial capability.

Read on to find out how other guys bring out those qualities hidden deep within them whenever they meet women – and how you can too.

Here Are 10 Qualities on How to Be Attractive to Women

1. Show confidence

The first step in getting women to be attracted to you is learning how to be confident in yourself. It tells them that you’re a man of high value.

Women find attractive a guy who is fun and confident in himself.

Do things confidently.

Know where you’re going and what you want, what you like and dislike, and how to act in any given situation.

Don’t fake it, as most men will tell you to do.

Show that you’re independent and not needy.

And don’t show nervousness or uncertainty – because if you’re unsure of what to do, it makes you less attractive to the girl you’re with.

Believe in yourself, and the easier it will to get women attracted to you.

Here are a few example on how to be confident:

  • Move slowly and in a deliberate unhurried manner
  • Speak slowly
  • Hold strong eye contact
  • Take up space around you
  • Don’t put your hands in your pockets. Leave them at your side.
  • Hold your chest and head high with shoulders back
  • Touch the people around you as you talk to them

2. Have a sense of humor

There are two primary traits in guys women find attractive, the first one is confidence. Now, let’s talk about the other trait – having a sense of humor.

Men who know how to attract women naturally will tell that this is the quickest and easiest way to being attractive to women.

This is not acting like a clown, but being funny to get women laughing and having fun alongside. Because when you have a good sense of humor, it makes them feel comfortable around you.

When a girl is around you and she’s having fun, she’ll be experiencing all kinds of incredible emotions, and she’ll be associating all those emotions and feelings to you. So every time she’s around you, she feels good.

Here are examples of using humor in a social interaction:

  • Give her a nickname
  • Tease her in a friendly manner
  • Tell her a funny story that recently happened

3. Tell stories

This is another key factor to improve your attractiveness.

Women are ’emotional beings’, and a proper storytelling will generate strong emotional connections and influence how they feel about you.

Just like watching a movie or a TV show, or reading a book, you’re being told a story. And you either get excited, sad, or happy.

You can tell women stories about your life and make them like you.

Influence what they think and feel about you, and you’ll create an attraction with any woman.

4. Be funny and interesting

Be playful and funny to the girl you’re with.

Tease her like you would your little sister.

Unlike trying to impress her and be all romantic or hook up with her, like most guys would, try to treat her the opposite.

For instance, instead of going forward and telling her she’s beautiful, tell her she has to stop having a desire for you. Do this in a funny way. Women really respond well to fun things like this.

Here, you’re not trying to treat them like ‘potential girlfriends’, but treating them like real people.

However, don’t insult her or say something bad about her religious beliefs or her physical appearance, like her weight or nose.

Learn how to be funny and interesting around women – make them have fun and they’ll want to be with you all the time.

5. Be passionate

Women are also attracted to the guys who have passion for life.

For instance, instead of following the crowd, why don’t you follow your dreams and do something you’re passionate about.

Have a variety of interests and hobbies. It’ll entice them – they’ll see you as exciting and fun person to be around with – and consequently, get them attracted to you.

Find the good in every bad situation, and you’ll display the kind of personality that every woman wants in a guy. And naturally become an attractive guy.

Be positive, talk good about yourself. Remember, your choice of words determine your outcomes and have a major impact on how people perceive you.

6. Be the cool guy everyone wants to meet

Simple, women are attracted to cool guys.

Coolness is an important factor if you want to attract women, not to mention the fact that when you act cool, you stand out from the crowd and you naturally get people to hang out with you.

This is what you do, especially in social interaction:

  • Become the center of attention
  • Dress differently from the other guys
  • Be fun and interesting to women
  • Make women feel excited, and turned-on rather than bored
  • Make women feel important
  • Show confident body language

7. Don’t be afraid to speak your mind

Women love challenge and they often test guys.

They test us (men) to see if we’re strong-minded and can defend ourselves or if we’re weak and will simply cave in.

To pass her tests, you need to challenge her and stand up. This demonstrates a strong, and confident attitude.

Don’t let them walk over you.

Don’t agree with everything they say when you believe it’s not entirely true.

Don’t be afraid to speak your mind because you’re afraid she’ll not like you if you disagree with her.

While we might want s**, it doesn’t mean we should sacrifice our integrity or “cave in” just to appease her.

If she has an upper hand, she can easily manipulate and control you.

8. Be dominant

Another trait women find attractive is dominance.

This isn’t about aggressiveness or pushing people around.

It’s about how to be charming to women – simply taking charge of situations and showing women that you’re a better choice than the other needy guys they meet.

Show that you’re persistent and that you don’t back down from a challenge.

Pay attention to a woman’s body language because she’ll say something, but it’s completely the opposite of what she feels.

Don’t take “no” for an answer or give up just like other guys would, but remember, respect the woman’s wishes.

When you display this manly trait, she knows you’re the guy who can take charge.

9. Be attracted to yourself

When you’re attracted to yourself, you ultimately get women to be attracted to you.

For instance, if you believe you’re attractive, fun, and interesting guy, you exhibit a confident and a positive attitude or posture that’s attractive to women.

If you want to be more attractive to women, you must first of all love yourself.

But if you have no confidence in how you look, women will easily sense it.

10. Your appearance counts

Your appearance speaks well of you.

This is not about handsomeness or otherwise, but it’s about how properly you’re dressed, your haircut – caring about your external appearance, and how to attract women subconsciously.

You don’t want to give the wrong impression.


Congratulations, now you know how to look attractive to women.

These traits you’ve learned here are the qualities that women find attractive in a guy.

If you follow these 10 traits I’ve listed above, you should be able to get women attracted to you.

It works for me and it can work for you too.

The good news about these traits is, you don’t have to rely heavily on pick up lines and gimmicky routines to get the girls attention.

You’ll just be that naturally attractive guy every woman wants to be with.