There’s a powerful secret technique the bad boys use to make women comfortable and attract them.
It is a secret the average guys are AFRAID to use. Because they think when they use it on the woman they are interested in they are going to make the woman uncomfortable.
Though it’s amazingly powerful, but when done the wrong way, will ‘communicate’ to the woman that you are desperately trying to get into her pants.
So what secret technique am I talking about here?
It’s touching a woman.
If a woman will allow a man to touch her on certain areas of her body without her retreating, then she’s ready to be kissed
PHYSICALLY touching a woman demonstrates DOMINANCE. It communicates to the woman that you are an alpha male and you are confident with touching women.
And since women in general are attracted to men with confidence, touching her makes her comfortable with you s**ually.
And speaking of s**ually…
If you can successfully touch a woman on her face, neck, chest area, backside, and even inner thigh, without the woman retreating, or slapping you, then she’s s**ually attracted to you. And you can try and make out with her and she wouldn’t push you away.
Truth is the more you touch a woman s**ually, the more comfortable she will be with you. And the more comfortable she is with you, the more you can make your move in ways that won’t get you rejected.
Why touching a woman is important
You see, women are highly conscious of their bodies, and they will ONLY allow a guy to touch them in CERTAIN AREAS if they feel affection towards him.
Touching a woman helps strengthen the comfort and connection you are building with her.
The best ways to go about it without getting shot down is to touch them when you’re emphasizing a point or saying something humorous that gets them laughing.
Touch them occasionally and make it seem completely natural. NOT as if you are trying to get into her pants.
Make your touches playful and friendly at the beginning, as if you are touching your buddies or your platonic girlfriends.
Don’t be nervous or hesitant to touch her. It displays a lack of confidence and dominance (which is very bad).
If she senses any nervousness or desperation as if you are trying to get into her pants, her defenses will go up.
This is how you go about touching a woman:
Lightly touching her on the forearm or shoulder as you are talking to her would be a good start.
Touch her forearm with the back of your fingers, very lightly, when you’re emphasizing a point. And touch her shoulder when you are telling her something interesting.
If you are telling a funny story or saying something humorous that gets her laughing, you can also reach out and touch her lightly on the forearm or shoulder.
If you are sitting across each other or beside her, don’t be afraid to briefly touch her knee. Or touch her on the outside of her thigh.
You can also touch her wrist when you are complimenting her on her bracelet.
Find opportunities to briefly touch her.
If she is comfortable with you, she too would occasionally touch you back (while talking to you). Not only with her hands, but she would brush her foot against yours when she laughs at your jokes.
If the two of you are comfortable touching each other, start holding hands.
As the relationship progresses, you can now touch her elbow, put your hands on the middle of her back, touch her hips, or put your arm around her waist.
Now, if the woman allows you to touch her in these areas without retreating then it means she feels affection towards you.
If she reacts negatively, then it means you are moving too fast, or she is not worth pursuing and you are wasting your time hanging out with her.
Now, when you are able to move on to touching her on her face, neck, chest area, putting your hand on her backside, and touching her inner thigh, then it means she is COMPLETELY COMFORTABLE with you. And you can take things to the next level.
If you notice you can touch her face, neck, chest area, put your hand on her backside, and not to mention touch her inner thigh, without being punched in the face, or slapped, or get sued for s**ual harassment, then she is ready to be kissed (and ready to take thing to the next level).
This should tell you the time is right to seize the opportunity to kiss her
When a woman has a rapport with you and feels comfortable with you touching her in the areas mentioned above, you will know the time is right to take things to the next level by noticing the following:
- She looks at your lips and then back at your eyes
- Her pupils are dilated – enlarged (proves true during the day time)
- Her eyes are moist and glistening
- She touches her face or rubs her neck
- There is a flushed appearance in her cheeks
- She licks her lips while staring at you
- She maintains eye contact and stares at you with a hungry look in her eyes
When you notice these things, it’s time to make your move.