Getting a girl to like you is the first step to starting any serious relationship with her. So here in this article, I teach you how to get a girl to like you.
I give you ten (10) easy ways to get a girl to like you. And I explain the reason why they work.
After that, I teach you the mistakes to avoid if you want to succeed with girls or single women. Because, as you learn how to get girls to like you, it is equally important you know the mistakes to avoid.
Without further ado, let’s begin… how to make a girl like you.
How to Get a Girl to Like You
Here’re the things to do to get a girl to like you:
#1 – Focus on getting to know her
When you approach a girl for the first time, instead of trying to hit on her right off the bat, focus on getting to know her first. [Read how to approach a girl]
She knows you’re attracted to her and probably want something from her (that’s why you approached her in the first place). But when you give the impression that you’re not trying to hit on her, but instead you want to know who she is and what she’s about, she opens up to you.
Keep in mind, girls get hit on by guys on a regular basis. These guys’ demeanour demonstrate that they want something from her.
This is what leads to rejection.
But, when you approach her with the ‘I want to know you’ mentality, you stand out. And she sees you as genuine.
In short, it will get her to like you.
Even, if you’re fairly into your friendship, take your time to know her.
Try not to rush her into a relationship, but gain rapport first…
…and this takes us to the second tip on how to get a girl to like you.
A girl will like you more if you approach her with the ‘I want to know you’ mentality.
#2 – Talk about the things that interests her
This is also how to get a girl to like you… talk about the things that interests her.
This helps you gain rapport with her, and connect with her on an emotional level.
Sure, you can talk about lots of things. But those things shouldn’t be about your home theatre and how cool your television set is. (Unless she’s into those things)
Ask her questions about herself. Get a girl to talk about herself and her interests.
The trick here is to make a girl talk more, listen to what she says, and share a commonality if any.
That’s also what to do to make a girl like you.
And while you’re at it, demonstrate empathy… which takes us to the next tip on how to get a girl to like you.
#3 – Demonstrate empathy
What does this mean?
It means demonstrating that you understand her and see what others do not.
“Women are turned on and attracted to men who they feel really hear them and understand them. When you can communicate a true ability to hear a woman’s words, you will stand out as a unique commodity”, says dating expert, Carlos Xuma, in his program “The Seduction Method”.
You DO NOT necessarily have to have the SAME interests. You can both have different interests. But when you demonstrate that you understand her, you connect with her…
…and that’s what women want from men – to understand them.
You don’t have to agree with her on everything. Just listen to her.
To the fourth tip on how to get a girl to like you…
#4 – Demonstrate humor
What does this also mean?
You guessed it… be funny.
Make witty and humorous comments.
Look deep within you… how do you make yourself laugh at times! You just say something and it gets you laughing.
Yes… that’s how to demonstrate humor. It is NOT acting like a clown.
The little things you say can provoke laughter. Make it a natural part of you, and demonstrate it around girls.
It behoves every man to know how to make girls laugh and feel good about themselves.
If you’re also good at cracking CLEAN and funny jokes, then go for it.
Girls or women are attracted to guys with a sense of humor. Because they love to laugh.
If you can laugh at yourself, you can make women laugh. Show your funny attitude when with a girl or a woman. And make her have fun around you.
Get a girl laughing and she will love you for it.
Speaking of making humor a natural part of you… this takes us to the fifth tip on how to get a girl to like you…
#5 – Playfully tease her and bust her chops ones in a while
Just like you’re cracking jokes and making witty comments, playfully tease a girl any chance you get.
Any comment or action she makes that calls for some light teasing, don’t be afraid to do it.
Just DON’T be too mean. DON’T make fun of her physique and looks.
How do you make a girl like you with teasing?
You see… girls are used to guys treating them like queens. So when you tease a girl, you’re communicating to her you’re not like other guys. And you’re not going to let her walk over you.
Playfully tease a girl and bust her chops ones in a while.
She will remember you for it. And it will also make her think about you.
She will go to sleep and you will be the last thing on her mind. She wakes up in morning and it will make her miss you badly.
#6 – Let her have fun with you
How do you do this?
By going to different places, doing different things, and spending quality time together.
In simple words… mini-date with her.
This is not going out to expensive dinners.
But just a walk on the park, holding hands and talking about inspiring topics that interests her is enough to make her like you.
Go to places where you can show her an interesting and unique time.
Go to the fairs.
Take her window shopping.
Do things you both enjoy. And go to places where you can have fun together. That’s also how to get a girl to like you.
If you’re looking to find a girlfriend, then this’s how to have a girlfriend.
Not only does this build attraction fast, but it makes her feel like she’s known you forever.
#7 – Always be positive and project a fun, friendly attitude
“A good attitude goes a long way in meeting people and getting them to like you. Positivity is attractive, and you will have people gravitate towards you when you project it.”, says dating expert, Joseph Matthews.
When you project a fun and friendly attitude you attract people to you or make people like you. The same is true when it comes to women and dating.
When you’re with a girl, demonstrate positivity, and project a fun and friendly attitude. Not only towards her, but others around.
Be nice and polite to the waiter. Give your seat to the elderly.
And always look for the best in people.
Projecting a fun and friendly attitude also include smiling.
Smile when talking to a girl.
It is believed that, when you smile, you’ve given her a subconscious reason to immediately like you.
As dating expert John Alexander has written in his ‘How to Become an Alpha Male’: “If you never smile, then the girl won’t like you. But if you smile excessively, it makes you seem like you have low social status – you’re trying too hard.”
In short, smile when you talk to a girl. But don’t be smiling excessively.
Positivity is attractive, and you will have people gravitate towards you when you project it.
#8 – Have standards and have the ability to say NO
This also means demonstrating dominance.
Girls are used to guys placing them on a pedestal.
The average guy acts needy around an attractive girl, and agrees with everything she says. This gives the girl the power to manipulate and control him.
Now, instead of seeking a girl’s approval, act different.
So how do you get a girl to like you by this?
Disagree with her if need be. And don’t let her push you around.
Keep in mind, a girl will test you to see if you’re like most guys. She will try to manipulate and control you to get what she wants.
If you cave in, she will know you’re just like the rest.
But if you don’t live up to her expectations, you stand out.
This kind of attitude is how to make any girl like you. Because it separates you from the other guys. And it communicates to her that you’re a better choice than the other guys she’s met.
Next on how to get a girl to like you…
#9 – Notice the little things
The things the ordinary guy wouldn’t notice.
Notice the new hairdo.
Notice the new cologne.
Compliment her on the new shoe she bought.
This is how to impress a girl.
When the ordinary guy is busy throwing cheap compliments her way to impress her, you should compliment her on something the ordinary person wouldn’t notice. And she will be amaze that you actually noticed them.
That’s how to get girls to like you. Compliment them on something they did or bought. Not their looks or physique.
Another way to make a girl like you
#10 – Maintain eye contact
Women require eye contact to feel a connection with a man.
So when you’re talking to a woman, seductively gaze into her eyes.
Not too much…
…but maintain strong eye contact, especially when she is the one doing the talking.
This will make her feel special and wanted.
So there you have it – how to make girls like you.
Again, getting a girl to like you is the first step to starting any serious relationship with her. But something you know a girl likes you and she’s probably into you, but you can’t tell for sure… read how to tell if a girl likes you.
The mistakes to avoid (how to make a girl not like you)
As you learn how to get girls to like you, it is equally important you know the mistakes to avoid.
Here’re the mistakes to avoid:
- Don’t spend too much money on her: This includes taking the girl out to expensive dinners or to fancy restaurants. Or buying her expensive gifts, just to impress her. Well, she might appreciate it, but this is simply not how to get a girl to like you, or impress girls. As discussed above, to impress a girl, let her have fun with you by mini-dating with her instead. (Save those expensive dinners and them expensive gifts for your girlfriend)
- Don’t lie: In other words, don’t misrepresent who you are or what you do in the hopes that it will get a woman to like you. Be honest and straightforward.
- Don’t brag about the tons of money you have or the expensive car you drive. In fact, the best way to get a girl to like you is to talk less about yourself. And let her find out for herself.
- Don’t pathetically try too hard. If you want to get any girl to like you, it’s simple… do things naturally. Include, not smiling excessively. If you’re trying too hard to get a girl to like you, it will rather push her away.
- Don’t put women on pedestals.
There’re several other ways to make a girl like you. And I hope what you’ve just read will help you to get the girl you like to like you back.
Let’s recap: How to get girls to like you
- Focus on getting to know a girl
- Talk about the things that interests her
- Demonstrate empathy
- Be funny and make girls laugh
- Playfully tease a girl and bust her chops ones in a while
- Let girls have fun around you
- Always be positive and project a fun, friendly attitude
- Demonstrate dominance
- Compliment girls on the little things
- Seductively gaze into a girl’s eyes when talking to her
So again, that’s how to get girls to like you.
Conclusion: How to Make a Girl Like You More Than a Friend
Everything I’ve discussed in this article is how to make a girl to like you and more.
But allow me to say… just because a girl or a woman likes you it doesn’t mean she is madly in love with you or attracted to you.
Yes, she probably likes you more than 99 percent of the guys she knows.
But it is likely she likes you only as a friend.
Nevertheless, you CAN ‘stay out of any potential friendzone’ and make girls WANT you.
And in order to do this, you need to flirt with girls. [Read how to flirt with a girl]
Sure, some of the personality traits and mannerism mentioned in this article will attract girls or make a girl fall for you.
For instance, mini-dating with her, demonstrating empathy, and humor will make her fall in love with you.
But a foolproof attraction mechanism to make a girl fall in love with you is to flirt with her.
Flirting with girls is one of the effective methods on how to make girls attracted to you.
Then, and only then, can you make her want you badly.
So there you have it – how to get a girl to like you and how to make a girl like you even more.