Here’s how to stir up sexual feelings in a woman and make her feel a sexual connection to you.
This approach to talking to a woman makes you stand out from other guys and sets you up as an attractive guy. Thereby increasing your chances of “getting physical” with the woman you’re interested in. Because when you engage a woman in this form of conversation, not only does it make her want to keep talking to you, it also turns her on and gets her thinking about sex with you.
Now, what conversational technique am I talking about here…
…this is none other than taking your conversation with a woman SEXUAL. Or more accurately, talking about sexual topics.
Most men are afraid to offend a woman
Unfortunately, this ISN’T what most men talk about with a woman they want to get into a romantic relationship with.
Most men only talk about safe and neutral topics with a woman they’re interested in. Because they’re afraid of the negative impression the woman might have of them.
But truth is, women enjoy having sexual conversations. They enjoy that tingly feelings of sexual tension. And the guy who can stir up that sexual feelings in her is the one she’ll be attracted to.
And the best way to trigger that feelings in her is to take your conversation with her sexual.
Your goal for attracting women…
You’d want a woman to think of you as a potential dating partner and not as a friend.
Truth is, if you keep talking with a girl or a woman you desire without creating SEXUAL TENSION, she will categorize you as a friend in her mind. She will see you as JUST A FRIEND, but not someone she feels sexually attracted to.
So, when you’re talking to a woman you want to have a romantic relationship with, your goal is to make her feel a sexual connection to you by making your conversation with her sexual in nature.
In addition to the neutral conversations you will be having with her, you have to move towards sexual suggestive topics to stir up that sexual feelings in her.
When you’re able to successfully engage a woman in such a conversation, you show her that you’re comfortable talking about topic of sexual nature with women. Which makes her comfortable with you enough to get sexual with you. (Understand: she will give you hints to get sexual… you have to take the lead)
Now, how do you have a sexual conversation with a woman in a way that doesn’t suggests you want to have with her? (of course, not at that moment)
Let’s get to it…
…how to successfully engage a woman in a sexual conversation
Again, women enjoy having sexual conversations. However, most of them are reluctant to talk about it with men they barely know, mostly because they don’t feel comfortable with them. Plus, they don’t want to be regarded as promiscuous.
Now, to successfully engage a woman in a sexual conversation, you have to GRADUALLY introduce sexual themes into your conversations with her, and make her comfortable talking about sex with you.
What I’ve found to work best is to:
- Ask her opinion on something about sex, or bring up a sexual situation of a friend of yours
- Talk about things from the sexual perspective
- Playfully use words with sexual connotations to feed her mind (double entendre)
- Use “that’s what she said” jokes when she says something that’s implied
- Use sexual innuendos (use this one with caution)
When you start introducing sexual themes into your conversations with a woman, you’ll notice she will be open to talking to you about anything, and even reveals her darkest desire. Because here, you separate yourself from the guys she knows, who are scared to go down this path with her. Thereby making you confident and attractive in her eyes.
Understand: You’d have to gain rapport with her first. So talk about neutral topics and engage her in a conversation with the “I want to know you” approach, then gradually introduce sexual themes into the conversation. [Read how to talk to women and the simple 3 step-approach to talking to women]
With that said, let’s go into detail.
1. Asking her opinion on something about sex, or bringing up a sexual situation of a friend of yours
DON’T just jump into it… make sure what you’re talking about with her relates to the sexual topic you want to bring up, then transition into talking about sex.
This first example is to act RELUCTANTLY to get her to be receptive:
- “I’ve been meaning to ask you this. I need a female opinion on something, but I don’t know if it will be okay with you, because it’s kinda… a mature subject. It’s… uh, NEVER MIND”
Here, she will push you to ask the question because she will be curious to know what THAT “mature” subject is.
When she gives you permission to talk about it, you talk about it.
Next, you can bring up a sexual situation of a friend of yours and ask her opinion about it.
- “A female friend of mine thinks her boyfriend doesn’t like the idea of going down on her, because he isn’t taking the hints she’s giving him… how do women hint that sort of thing?”
If you can initiate a sexual topic in a way that doesn’t suggest you want to have sex with her, she will be receptive to talking about sexual topics with you. So the key is to initiate a topic of sexual nature in passing.
When she’s comfortable with you, or comfortable talking about sex, you’ll know from her reaction or response. If she seems uncomfortable, change the topic.
2. Talking about things from the sexual perspective
When you’re talking about a movie, a music video, etc., and there’s a sensual scene, make a comment about it, and strive to engage her in the conversation.
3. Using words with sexual connotations to feed her mind (double entendre)
Playfully and confidently slip in words with sexual connotations into your normal conversation with a woman.
- “I didn’t come with her“
- “Boy, this is really hard“
4. Using “That’s what she said jokes” when she says something that is implied
Similar to using words with sexual connotations is to use “that’s what she said” jokes when she says something that is implied.
For example, when she says something like:
- “Put it inside”
- “It’s much better when it’s wet”
- “Do you wanna come inside” (when she’s inviting you into her apartment)
…you respond with:
- “That’s what she said”
…then seductively gaze into her eyes and give her that sexy smile.
5. Using sexual innuendos
Use this one with caution. You don’t want to go into this territory during the early stages of meeting a woman. Make sure you’ve gain rapport with her first and you can tell she’s into you, before using sexual innuendos.
When all is said and done, the impression you want a woman to have of you is ‘a man who is comfortable talking about sex’.
Because, if you can stir up sexual feelings in a woman and make her feel a sexual connection to you, you separate yourself from other guys and you will be the one she will be attracted to.
Watch how she responds or reacts when you introduce sexual themes in your conversations. If you can tell she’s comfortable with them, keep at it. But if she seems uncomfortable, back off a little. Nevertheless, don’t shy away from talking about topic of sexual nature with a woman you want to get into a romantic relationship with.
By using my five step-approach, it is pretty easy to take your conversation with a woman sexual. And once you notice she’s comfortable and playing along, IT’S GAME ON.