3 Essential Attitudes That Draw Women to Men

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About 90% of men don’t know this simple fact. And because they don’t know it, they have no hope of succeeding with women.

Most guys think there is something wrong with them because they don’t know how to pick up women. Therefore they blame it on their looks, but the truth is there are ugly guys picking up girls all the time.

While looking good does help, it’s not your physical looks that gets the girls, it’s by displaying the right personality trait that is universally attractive to all women.

Now, in this post, I share with you 3 essential attitudes that can help you become instantly desirable to a wide range of women.

In my experience, I’ve learned that these 3 attitudes, when displayed around women you approach and date, will improve your image 100+% and they’ll find you desirable.

So what attitudes am I talking about? Let’s get down to serious business now.

3 Attitudes That Will Make a Woman Attracted to You

Attitude #1 – Guys who are fun to be around

Girls want to have fun and one area that is attractive to them is a guy with a funny side to his personality.

This kind of guy makes them feel relaxed and comfortable.

Women are emotional creatures and they’re attracted to guys who show a funny personality that makes them laugh.

Now, if you want to develop a natural funny attitude, you should avoid all boring conversations, and focus on bringing her on an emotional roller coaster.

There are lots of ways you can accomplished this. For instance:

  1. Tell funny stories and discuss funny events that happened
  2. Discuss the fun people or celebrities you know
  3. Describe the hobbies you enjoy
  4. Tell her interesting stories in a humorous manner
  5. Use your unique sense of humor
  6. Play games with her
  7. Tease her by creating nicknames for her and making a few jokes at her expense. Teasing is an attitude that does not only makes you a fun guy to be around with, it’s also one of the best ways to build attraction.

When you are also passionate about everything, you will be seen as an exciting and a fun person to be around and you increase your chances of attracting women.

Remember, being funny doesn’t mean you have to act like a clown. It’s about showing a funny personality that makes people laugh, while conveying a confident attitude.

Make her laugh and have fun when she’s around you, and she’ll find you attractive.

Attitude #2 – Guys who are confident and go after what they want

If you ask a woman what she finds most attractive in a guy, she’ll say it is his level of confidence.

But most guys have a tough time with this.

So now, the question is “What is confident and how can you demonstrate it to the women you approach and date?”

Confidence is simply handling yourself in a changing environment and being who you are without regrets or guilt.

A confident guy doesn’t freak out if there’s a crisis. Instead, he calmly looks for a solution to the problem.

A confident guy doesn’t care what other people think. He speaks his mind and go for whatever he wants.

Confidence communicates to the women around you that you’re a guy of high status and you can handle whatever happens.

Unlike the low status guys they meet every day, you don’t get nervous about a new situation, instead you approach it in a relaxed, poised manner.

So the best way to display a confident demeanor is through your body language and mannerisms.

Given below are few non-verbal language that communicates to women you’re a confident guy:

  1. When talking to women, hold strong eye contact
  2. Avoid speaking too fast. Slow down when you speak
  3. When you speak, avoid using “ah” and “um,” Instead, don’t be afraid to use strategic pauses
  4. Don’t be afraid to touch women as you engage them in conversation
  5. Avoid looking down, hold your chest and head high
  6. When walking, walk a little slower than normal
  7. Take up space around you
  8. Leave your hands out of your pockets. If tempted, hook your thumbs in your back pockets instead.
  9. Avoid touching your face when you talk
  10. Keep your sentences short and to the point

Attitude #3 – Guys who love themselves

In the previous tip, I touched on the fact that women are attracted to guys who are confident. Now, loving yourself is one of the keys to displaying a confident attitude that’s attractive to women.

In other words, you have to believe you’re an interesting, fun, and attractive guy.

If you don’t know by now, women are incredibly ‘gifted’ at picking up on our body language cues, and they can easily pick up on guys who like themselves and like being guys.

And it goes without saying women are attracted to guys who love themselves regardless of their physical flaws.

So the more you project a self-liking attitude, the more women will be attracted to you, no matter what you look like.


So there you have it, the three essential attitudes or personality traits that draws women to men.

If you display these attitudes around women, you’ll immediately separate yourself from 90% of the other guys out there.

That by itself, women will sense it, and will immediately find you desirable and will want to be around you all the time.

It works for me, and it can work for you too.

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I specialise in helping the average guy to be successful in the world of dating and improve his personal relationship with women. I share my personal experience coupled with consultation with dating experts to help the average guy improve his dating and relationship skills.